I'm at my wit's end with my fiancé. He doesn't earn enough to pay his half of the bills and mortgage, because he basically does part time hours through choice or volunteering to give up shifts. He could work more but doesn't.
Each month, I'm paying my half, then have to top up at least another quarter because he doesn't have the money to cover it.
How do I get him to sort himself out and pay his way? We didn't agree to me paying 3/4 of the total bills and I've had to take money from my savings a few times to cover his shortfall.
If he doesn't or can't, I think I'm done subsidising him. He will be very very against selling the house because he won't be able to get another mortgage on his wages. How do I make that happen if he's reluctant?