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To decline Covid Booster?

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8lbOfSugar · 18/10/2024 21:28

I have an appointment for my covid booster and flu jab on 3rd Nov. Flu is routine due to being asthmatic and I don't mind getting that one. However I'm cautious about getting them both together. My Grandparents and a couple of friends have already had theirs and all of them have been knocked for 6 and had to stay in bed for 3ish days afterwards.

For context I've had minimal reaction to the previous jabs and the flu does make me ill for a period but I can go about my normal day with the symptoms. However I am now a lone parent to a newborn with very little support/childcare options so if it was to affect me being able to function normally then I have no one to step in to look after DS. GP are elderly and quite poorly, friends work and have their own families.

Am I allowed to decline the booster but still get my flu? Could I get the booster at a later date maybe? Has anyone had theirs recently and able to say how it affected them?

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Notreat · 18/10/2024 22:23

I had mine both at the same time and so have all my friends we have been completely ok. Apart from sore arms no side effects. I only know one person who has been ill and he was fine after a day

pizzaHeart · 18/10/2024 22:22

Forget to mention last year Covid jabs were easily available at pharmacies. I booked DD online and again it was very simple. Not sure if they are doing them this year for NHS patients but you can easily google.

PaintedPottery · 18/10/2024 22:22

I had the flu jab last week at the surgery, but I declined the Covid one.

OdeToBarney · 18/10/2024 22:21

I had both on the same day two weeks ago. Felt fine, apart from one sore arm (covid) the next day.

If you can go about your daily activities, you haven't had flu. Who will look after your newborn if you're delirious in bed for three days with flu? And what if you then pass it to them?

Keepingongoing · 18/10/2024 22:20

Are you in England OP? Because I booked my Covid booster through the NHS online system rather than the GP. You get the jabs at local pharmacies.

I can’t see there’d be a problem with just having one of them at your GP practice. Perhaps courteous to let them know in advance.

With the reaction you’ve described to the flu jab, and being a lone parent to a baby, it sounds like it would be wisest, and entirely reasonable, to separate them.

I always feel very poorly for several days after the Covid jab and am allowing 3 weeks between that one and the flu.

Tekphobebruvva · 18/10/2024 22:20

loulouljh · 18/10/2024 22:16

Do you really need these jabs??

Good question. But you’ll get jumped on for saying it no doubt.

godmum56 · 18/10/2024 22:20

if you are entitled to these jabs on the NHS, then it might be worth looking to get them at a local pharmacy rather than the GP. Round me the pharmacies doing it are much more relaxed about booking separately and there was more date and time options. GP's offered me weekend only and both together only so I went elsewhere. Boots do them as well as the independents.

pizzaHeart · 18/10/2024 22:19

I don’t like to have Covid and flu jabs together ( just personal preference) so I do them separately. I did this last year and planned the same this year.
I do Covid jab at the surgery when the appointment is offered and then book my flu jab at the local Boots pharmacy when it’s convenient for me. It’s very simple and straightforward process.
If I were you I would look up online what pharmacies around you do flu jabs. I do it in Boots as it’s easier for me to get there but others do them as well and you can easily book online. There is usually availability on weekends so in practice you might even book something for tomorrow.

EffortlesslyInelegant · 18/10/2024 22:17

I had both one week apart. Flu jab gave me a sore arm and definite cold symptoms for two days which then disappeared as quickly as they came. Had Covid jab last Friday and I've been absolutely floored with a raging cold the last three days. It's not Covid but it's nasty. Might be a coincidence - I just don't know.
Didn't have the Covid booster last year and really really regretted it when I got very ill indeed with Covid. Twice. Never really know what to do for the best.

loulouljh · 18/10/2024 22:16

Do you really need these jabs??

Portakalkedi · 18/10/2024 22:10

I had the flu jab a week ago and refused the Covid. Thank goodness I did, as the flu jab was rather violently administered, my arm swelled up and I had to go to the GP a couple of days later as there was a hot red patch on my arm, which was growing. Have to take antibiotics for it. I won't be having a flu or covid jab again.

SabreIsMyFave · 18/10/2024 22:09

Righteouspuppy · 18/10/2024 22:07

Why would the flu jab give you an asthmatic reaction? If it does you need to go to the doctor to understand why as you may have some kind of allergy. It’s not at all normal to be unwell for 2 weeks after it. Ditto Covid.

Yes @8lbOfSugar those reactions to the jabs don't sound remotely normal. I have zero reaction to them. (Covid and flu jabs.)

Righteouspuppy · 18/10/2024 22:07

Why would the flu jab give you an asthmatic reaction? If it does you need to go to the doctor to understand why as you may have some kind of allergy. It’s not at all normal to be unwell for 2 weeks after it. Ditto Covid.

8lbOfSugar · 18/10/2024 22:04

I'm also assuming that nothing from these jabs can be passed on to my baby? Or would that give them a slight bit of immunity through BF? (That probably sounds like a really dumb question sorry)

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MuchTooTired · 18/10/2024 21:57

I had both together. Only issue I had was one arm hurt like hell for a couple of days afterwards, but other than that I was business as usual just a smidge slower. I had the jab with my parent, they had no side effects at all.

8lbOfSugar · 18/10/2024 21:57

If I'm honest the flu jab regularly makes me ill for about 1-2 weeks anyways to the point where I can't lie down without choking with coughing so I need to sleep sitting up as it seems to trigger some asthma reaction. It happens every year at exactly the same time my review and jab is due for the same length of time so I'm used to being able to manage that. It's just that paired with the symptoms people I know are saying they've had after having it at the same time as the covid booster that I don't know how ill be able to manage. Though I've not had to deal with the pressures of a newborn either during these bouts of reaction so I could be being dramatic.

Both jabs are already booked in so I'm not sure how easy it would be to reschedule one of them, especially since its already to get any sort of appointment with the doctors anyways.

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stichguru · 18/10/2024 21:56

Has both together last week. A bit tired that evening. Fine otherwise. You don't have to have a covid booster at all, or you can book them separately. Up to you.

Getitwright · 18/10/2024 21:54

I am probably at least twice your age, and last week had covid and flu at same time, one in each arm, then six days later Shingles jab. No reaction to any of them. I give thanks every day that we can now be protected from the worst effects of some horrible illnesses. Split them up if you are really worried, but hundreds of thousands of folks have them together without problems. Hope things go well🙂

Notquitegrownup2 · 18/10/2024 21:53

I had the Covid booster last week but asked if I could separate them. No problem to book and go back for flu anytime. I normally don't have any reaction to either but had a headache and slight fever this time, which was easily treated with paracetamol. Glad I didn't have both.

NinetyPercent · 18/10/2024 21:52

katedan · 18/10/2024 21:36

I had both my flu and covid jab 2 days ago ( one on each arm) apart from a slightly sore arm where I had the covid jab for a few hours I have been fine with no side effects.

Me too. No side effects. And until last year whenever I had the Covid jab I had to have a day in bed feeling awful. I got Covid last summer and since then the Covid jab doesn’t seem to affect me. When did you last have Covid and last have the Covid jab? If you’ve never been affected by it before why do you think it will affect you this time? It does mean both arms are sore but that’s it!

LockForMultiball · 18/10/2024 21:51

Had both yesterday. Today I feel okay but as though my muscles are all a bit weak — like I've suddenly become heavier, and it takes more effort to do things like standing up. But it's totally manageable, and IMO worth it to a) get them both over with and b) get protection from both illnesses as early as possible. But everyone will react differently.

saveforthat · 18/10/2024 21:51

I had both in the same arm a couple of weeks ago. No side effects apart from sore arm for a few days.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 18/10/2024 21:49

How easy would it be for you to look after a newborn on your own with Covid and asthma?

RandomMess · 18/10/2024 21:48

I always book them at least a week apart.

SabreIsMyFave · 18/10/2024 21:48

Don't worry @8lbOfSugar Just have them both close together. Some people I know have. A couple of people I know had them on the same day. I had them 4 days apart.

We were ALL OK by the way.

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