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Need a hand hold

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Imbluedalale · 17/10/2024 23:39

That’s just it really. I really need a cuddle but that’s not possible so can anybody just support me right now? My mental health is on the floor right now I’ve never felt as low it’s making me feel so ill

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PeggyMitchellsCameo · 30/10/2024 06:05

Imbluedalale · 30/10/2024 05:58

Hi PeggyMitchellsCameo,
Thank you 🙏
I had a cup of tea at the police station not had anything to eat as I didn’t feel upto it xx

I am thinking of you. Only found your thread last night.
Know it’s so tough for you right now but you have lots of people here cheering for you.
What struck me in your posts is what a beautiful writer you are. You are clearly a very kind and loving person and that’s why so many have responded to your words.
You are in my thoughts and prayers and I’m so glad about your room.
Keep posting today to let us know how you are doing.
I know we are all only a bunch of strangers but I think I can speak for everyone - please stay.
Hang on to your spoon.
💗

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Imbluedalale · 30/10/2024 05:58

Hi PeggyMitchellsCameo,
Thank you 🙏
I had a cup of tea at the police station not had anything to eat as I didn’t feel upto it xx

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PeggyMitchellsCameo · 30/10/2024 05:41

@Imbluedalale glad you can stay an extra few nights. Hope you have been able to have a cuppa and something warm to eat? X

PeggyMitchellsCameo · 30/10/2024 05:35

TealPoet · 30/10/2024 01:24

I let you share only because I know how many people here want to know that you’re safe and what the situation is going forward :) we’ll have to put our thinking caps on tomorrow and work out how we can move forward.

Happy to help! X

TealPoet · 30/10/2024 01:24

I let you share only because I know how many people here want to know that you’re safe and what the situation is going forward :) we’ll have to put our thinking caps on tomorrow and work out how we can move forward.

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Imbluedalale · 30/10/2024 00:56

Wow, wow, wow,
I am honestly speechless and lost for words right now.
@TealPoet has booked me into the travel lodge for an extra 3 nights! I have never known kindness like it and all the thank you’s in the world will never be enough for how much I appreciate what this lady has done, thank you so much TealPoet you have touched my heart with your absolute lovely kind , thoughtful gesture xx

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Imbluedalale · 30/10/2024 00:16

I just wanted to let you all know I’m safe. Feel utterly broken but I’m safe. The police picked me up from the train station. I was waiting for 90 mins for a fast train to come past so I could leap in front of it but turns out I was on the wrong platform for that. I’m sorry that you have all been worried that’s the last thing I wanted but I didn’t even answer the phone to the police and they put a tracker on my phone. The police have been in touch with Doncaster out of hours emergency housing and explained everything and they have got me emergency accommodation for 1 night only at the travel lodge at lakeside so I’m here now. I won’t be able to sleep because I’ve got to go through all this again tomorrow and I really don’t think I can. The tiny bit of strength I gained from the havon has been used to the maximum today. I’m sorry I have only just replied I have been at the police station. I’m shaking like a leaf and can’t stop crying. Thank you for all your kind words. I’m sorry xx

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Ruralretreating · 30/10/2024 00:06

@Imbluedalale hoping we will hear from you. Thinking of you and sending hugs

Itiswhysofew · 29/10/2024 23:47

Imbluedalale, will* *let us know where you are? We're all waiting to hear that you're coping and are safe 😊

TealPoet · 29/10/2024 23:12

Me too - still praying for you and sending hugs

Munchyseeds2 · 29/10/2024 22:05

Lovely
I hope you found your way to somewhere safe and warm and are being looked after xx

Ruralretreating · 29/10/2024 21:41

@Imbluedalale horrified to hear the situation you’ve been left in. Like others here am very worried about you and the idea of you saying goodbye. Please come back to this group, we care and you are a wonderful person who can get through this. Hoping you are found and somewhere safe x

RaspberryBeretxx · 29/10/2024 21:32

PeggyMitchellsCameo · 29/10/2024 20:37

Would gladly chip in x

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Same here ❤️

RaspberryBeretxx · 29/10/2024 21:32

You’ve touched all of us and we are rooting for you. You’ve been through so much and we are here for you and desperately want to make sure you’re ok. Just come back in your own time 💕💕🌺🌺.

ChoccieCornflake · 29/10/2024 21:18

Laura - in the hope that you are still reading this thread, even if you can't reply, please know we are all thinking about you. You have sparked such deep feelings in such brief contact as we've all had here - that speaks to how awesome and incredible you are. ❤

PeggyMitchellsCameo · 29/10/2024 20:37

TealPoet · 29/10/2024 20:36

Yeah, I could even find one with an accessible room tonight, but without details I couldn’t book it :( Laura please let us help you, we really care!

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Would gladly chip in x

TealPoet · 29/10/2024 20:36

PeggyMitchellsCameo · 29/10/2024 20:20

Have just Googled ‘hotels Doncaster’ ok Travelodge ones £35 a night or so.
Feel so frustrated like everyone following this thread we can’t do more.

Yeah, I could even find one with an accessible room tonight, but without details I couldn’t book it :( Laura please let us help you, we really care!

PeggyMitchellsCameo · 29/10/2024 20:20

Have just Googled ‘hotels Doncaster’ ok Travelodge ones £35 a night or so.
Feel so frustrated like everyone following this thread we can’t do more.

AdmittowearingCrocs · 29/10/2024 20:15

Really worried about you @Imbluedalale. I would suggest this situation constitutes a safeguarding matter as you have care and support needs and are a vulnerable adult. If I knew your personal details I would contact the local authority adult social services to make a safeguarding referral. But you could do this online yourself. Have you contacted your social worker to let them know the situation? Hopefully they can intervene on your behalf.
Keep in touch with is here so we know you are safe 💐

TealPoet · 29/10/2024 20:11

Same here - we’re watching out for you praying you’re ok and will come back to us soon ❤️

RaspberryBeretxx · 29/10/2024 20:05

Still here and checking in and praying you’re ok @Imbluedalale . Sending love xx

PeggyMitchellsCameo · 29/10/2024 19:39

Have just read this thread for the first time got to the end and just want OP to be found.

Apolloneuro · 29/10/2024 19:24

Well done @ChoccieCornflake.

@Imbluedalale listen to me. Going and sitting in a&e is better than sitting on a park bench, regardless of your fear of hospitals.

Keep an eye on your phone battery xxx

RaspberryBeretxx · 29/10/2024 18:35

ChoccieCornflake · 29/10/2024 17:49

Laura, I hope you don't think I'm stalking you but there was enough information in your posts for me to find a phone number for Rethink and call them. They too are desperately worried about you and have the police looking for you (trust me, if I was near Doncaster I'd be out there too). HOLD ON MY FRIEND, this is not the end.

Ah, well done @ChoccieCornflake . Please check on if you can @Imbluedalale . We are all so worried. Big hug. Xx

TealPoet · 29/10/2024 17:52

We’re all here for you 😭 big hugs! Thank you ChoccieCornflake I hadn’t thought of that. Hopefully someone can find you and help you Laura. I sent you a PM please let me know if I can help!