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Men and strip clubs

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GretchenWienersHair · 17/10/2024 12:46

My cousin’s DH recently went on a stag, and she is “chuffed” because he didn’t get a lap dance out there, when all of his (also married) friends did. AIBU to think that this is a pretty low standard?

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whatatodoaboutnothing · 17/10/2024 13:43

course he didn’t

i bet all the other wives have been told the exact same story

ParliamentofBadgers · 17/10/2024 13:29

What a hero.

What did he do instead, have a coffee in a cafe and read “Pride and Prejudice”?

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GretchenWienersHair · 17/10/2024 13:25

I mean I agree with you all, but whether he actually did or didn’t isn’t really the question. She believes him so who am I to say otherwise. My concern is, even if he is telling the truth, the bar is still on the floor.

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Wherehasallthetimegone · 17/10/2024 13:18

Well I would assume if all the other men did then he also had a lap dance but just didn't tell her. She has absolutely no idea what went on and what he did.

Why do women think a "stag do" excuses men from cheating in this way?

Just going in a strip club would be a relationship ender for me.

username3678 · 17/10/2024 13:17

I bet he doesn't watch porn either.

FootbalIslife · 17/10/2024 12:48

He says he didn’t… yes it’s a low bar. If the roles were refused and women had naked men on top of them at a party, then men wouldn’t like it! For some reason in the context of a strip club they think it’s ok? It’s strange we’ve ended up here.

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