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Would you choose Dubai as a holiday destination?

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Letshopenextyearisbetter · 16/10/2024 09:24

Colleague told me excitedly she has booked to go to Dubai with her family for two weeks. I said ‘Oh wow!’ But really I was thinking 😬
I realise we all like different things, but just curious if you’d choose to spend your money on going to Dubai? I can personally think of some really lovely places to go for that amount of money, especially over Christmas

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spottedinthewilds · 16/10/2024 18:59

We are going very soon and I can't wait!

We wanted winter sun and there were few options.

I like a bit of bling, I can totally get it's not everyone's cup of tea, but I think it will be mine.

WomanFromTheNorth · 16/10/2024 18:42

Not even if it was a free holiday with spending money. It would be my idea of hell.

Orangebadger · 16/10/2024 18:36

You could not pay me to go to Dubai. Mostly on moral grounds but also all the bling and pretence just does not appeal to me at all.

However it seems so many people are going there on family holidays for winter sun etc. totally beats me but each to their own I guess.

DoYouReally · 16/10/2024 18:33

I went once when I was in my early 20s. Never again.

It's a horrible place. They are so many human rights issues and the distance for women is off the charts.

There's a real seedy uncurrent there.

I couldn't wait to leave and if I was there any longer, I would have probably been arrested for something. It's very difficult to watch people treat you and others like shit and it's dangerous to call them out on it.

Horrible place.

QuintessentialDragon · 16/10/2024 18:25

Absolutely NOT, never, I'd pay NOT to go there.

I'm a woman and my family member is gay. Why on earth would I go to a place where I have to significantly alter my appearance and still be thought of as that 'disposable, cheap Western whore' by locals. But that's nothing, compared to what would happen to my family member, should he dare to show who he is.

Dubai is like Kim Kardashian of cities. Soulless, vapid, shallow, plastic, overblown, vulgar, cheap and fake. There's NOTHING there for me. I'm not into pools/beaches/cocktails/mocktails/restaurants/shopping/'sun hols'. And there's nothing more there than that.

Furthermore, I know I'm a snob, but I wouldn't be friends with a person who chooses to travel there more than once. Once - ok, maybe, curiosity. More? Let's just say, that kind of person is not for me. You can sun yourself and visit designer Boutiques in multiple countries, no need to go to a hypocritical abusive shithole.

Waltdisnerd · 16/10/2024 18:18

Yes, I've been 4 times so far. Hopefully again soon

coxesorangepippin · 16/10/2024 18:12

No

thesunisastar · 16/10/2024 18:11

Hateam · 16/10/2024 15:21

Absolutely true.

It is impossible to live and function in a modern Western country without benefiting from exploitation of workers in poorer countries.

The workers who mine cobalt for smart phone batteries are treated abysmally - may are children.

We all draw the line where we're comfortable. It's choice we all.have to make.

It's a fair point.

Choosing not to have a smartphone is pretty difficult now, though, because so bloody much is reliant on them - communication, travel, banking etc.

Whereas not spending your holiday pounds in country with an appalling human rights record is a pretty easy choice to make.

katscamel · 16/10/2024 17:53

Yep, I go quite regularly as it's a 2 hour flight from where I live now and a chance for some 'normality'. I don't go for the malls, the plastic Dubai lifestyle and that wasn't my thing when I lived there. I go for the sunsets over the creek, for the grittier backstreets of Deira and Bur Dubai, for being able to walk round at any time and feel safer than I do in the UK (and many other places).
And the shopping.... well .... for the things I can't get here.. of course.

JohnTheRevelator · 16/10/2024 17:24

No, mainly because of their attitudes towards women. Also the fact that the place was built by slave labour.

BrokenBeeWing · 16/10/2024 17:24

GnusSitOnCanoes · 16/10/2024 17:17

I’m pretty sure that was Qatar, no? A Qantas flight departing from Doha?

My mistake, yes you're right. But the poppy seed incident was definitely Dubai.

GnusSitOnCanoes · 16/10/2024 17:17

BrokenBeeWing · 16/10/2024 10:01

Never. For all the reasons listed above. I won't even transit through, after the awful human rights abuses of female passengers a few years back, who were strip searched and internally examined, when the authorities were trying to identify who had given birth recently. The stuff of nightmares. Didn't someone also get arrested and incarcerated for being a drugs trafficker as airport staff found a poppy seed in their clothing, which turned out to be from a seeded roll?

I’m pretty sure that was Qatar, no? A Qantas flight departing from Doha?

catin8oots · 16/10/2024 17:06

Nope. It's a dreadful dump.

username3678 · 16/10/2024 17:03

It's not my idea of a holiday never mind the way women are treated.

Arran2024 · 16/10/2024 17:01

My daughter and her boyfriend went last month. I have strong views about Dubai and was disappointed they chose to visit but it's their lives and I didn't say anything - she knows what I think.

It looked utterly boring to me. They went to shopping malls, fancy restaurants, sat at pools...they were treated like royalty and surrounded by excess and opulence and loved it, without really considering why the staff are so helpful.

I have an ex colleague (a woman) who went to live and work in Saudi with her husband. I'm astonished she did this - and it has changed how I regard her. She has suggested meeting up but I just can't do it!

AllyCart · 16/10/2024 16:52

Not a chance.

I spend time there for work and have also stayed over for a couple of days a few times on business trips to Asia, if going straight from the US, to try to help with the jet lag.

I certainly can't imagine going there by choice; it definitely attracts a certain type of person though and if that's you, you might really like it.

It's the same with Las Vegas I suppose. Absolutely hateful place to me, but others love it.

Superhansrantowindsor · 16/10/2024 16:50

So many reasons why I don’t want to go and never will. main two reasons are their abuse of workers and the fact being gay is illegal. Awful. Just awful.

BurntBroccoli · 16/10/2024 16:44

Namechangefordaughterevasion · 16/10/2024 09:42

Tower blocks, relentless heat, shopping malls, multi-lane roads, sand. Pretty much my vision of hell.

Yup same!
I can't even stand shopping malls in this country and get quite claustrophobic.
The heat would be awful too.

NellieJean · 16/10/2024 15:52

Not for me but I love Oman.

TheConvalescent · 16/10/2024 15:35

RaraRachael · 16/10/2024 13:29

Dubai is very popular where I live - all ages - older couples and families. I can't see any attraction and OH calls it a shopping mall in the desert. I'm not that interested in shopping for clothes or jewellery and there doesn't seem to be anything appealing in it at all.

It is, pretty much, a shopping mall in the desert. Or several shopping malls. With a ski slope. And a giant aquarium that was always developing unnerving leaks when we lived there.

If you see the point of hotels being that you've gone somewhere interesting and far away that is too far from home to go home to sleep, hence you stay in the hotel -- in Dubai, the hotel is why you've gone. The accommodation has become the destination.

The Dubai 'government' (by which I mean Sheikh Mohammed and a few trusted family members) have been frantically trying to make there be some other reason to go there other than to stay in a hotel and sit by a pool in perennially hot, dry weather, but there isn't, really. The sea is polluted and too hot for much of the year. A few waterparks, some content-free pseudo-museums/folk parks, malls with clothes for seasons that don't exist locally in the windows. There used to be, maybe still is, a 'Dubai Festival of Shopping'.

There's no 'there' there, or of course there is, but it's not particularly pleasant.

White-collar crime, particularly money-laundering, a disproportionate number of criminals wanted overseas, often the ones who moved on from parts of Spain), a huge population of foreign prostitutes, who, like me (not married to partner and working freelance, so no work visa) are on tourist visas, going over the border into Oman once a month in a minibus, doing a U-turn and coming back, a heavily self-censoring press (because if you don't behave, you're deported, and criticism of the government or ruling family is forbidden), an underclass of exploited domestic and construction labour. Improperly desalinated tap water means a lot of people suffer hair loss unless they use bottled water to wash their hair.

I hope this has changed now, but when we lived in Dubai, it wasn't unusual for local papers to show photos of the dead bodies of labourers (who had run out into traffic so that their families would get the compensation money) to see if they could be identified. I know that some things changed in the legal reforms of 2020 (cohabitation was illegal when we lived there, and there were door to door searches in Sharjah, and I believe children born out of wedlock are now 'legitimate')

TL;DR -- as a tourist, there's no 'there' there. It's probably fine if your idea of a holiday is sitting by a pool, and you actually like the fact that there's nothing cultural or historical you 'should' be doing. As a resident, all the interesting things are nasty ones.

PeloMom · 16/10/2024 15:21

I lived there for almost 2 yrs and would go there on holiday. There’s a tonne to do as well as many ways to have a relaxing holiday.

Hateam · 16/10/2024 15:21

Beezknees · 16/10/2024 15:12

So are people who buy fast fashion and smart phones to be fair.

Absolutely true.

It is impossible to live and function in a modern Western country without benefiting from exploitation of workers in poorer countries.

The workers who mine cobalt for smart phone batteries are treated abysmally - may are children.

We all draw the line where we're comfortable. It's choice we all.have to make.

LlynTegid · 16/10/2024 15:16

Absolutely not. I will not go to countries that treat women like dirt and/or where being LGBT is illegal.

Beezknees · 16/10/2024 15:12

Hateam · 16/10/2024 15:05

You colluding with and benefiting.from slavery.

So are people who buy fast fashion and smart phones to be fair.

Hateam · 16/10/2024 15:05

RIVERDALEHIGH · 16/10/2024 11:36

Yep... going soon & can't wait!

You colluding with and benefiting.from slavery.