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AIBU to ask GP for weightloss jab?

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FriendlyFriend · 15/10/2024 23:57

Im 43, bmi 37, 5ft 8inc, size 18. Ive recently had my over 40s health MOT at the doctors and ive got high blood pressure and cholesterol (they text and want me to go in a statin). Ive not really discussed my results properly yet with them as we keep missing each other on the phone.

i saw the GPs will prescribe it for those classed as obese (me) and have high BP.

morally should i? Could i use this opportunity with the weight loss jab to change my lifestyle/habits?

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Mary35 · 29/06/2025 21:37

Hi,whats the update 😍

soupfiend · 19/10/2024 09:06

FriendlyFriend · 18/10/2024 21:51

That’s interesting re the extra dose, my friend said something similar and i wasn't sure what she meant. Yes i could spend £30 a week on this for sure. Im going to do it. Its worth it. Im worth it.

i think in the back of my mind i feel people will think ive cheated, taken the easy route etc. but with so much to lose and ££ im giving myself one chance only. Then will be so strict with my eating when i come off it eventually. I just think if its available for weightloss, it works and its approved medically, then why the hell wouldn’t we use it?

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You have to take other people out of the equation. Your health and medical choices are no one elses business.

hughiedoesntfight · 19/10/2024 06:08

FriendlyFriend · 18/10/2024 23:16

Its going to be a bit obvious though if it works for me

It’s not going to obvious you are taking the jab though.

My partner knows. And have lost almost 2 stone. People can see I have lost weight. That’s it.

People may speculate but it’s entirely up to you what you say. It’s not cheating. Just like taking anti depressants isn’t cheating. But if you don’t want to tell people it’s entirely your choice. Just tell people you have been making an effort to eat better.

IamnotwhouthinkIam · 18/10/2024 23:43

Not the point of your post @FriendlyFriend , but try to think how lucky you are to be only a size 18 at a BMI of 37! I understand the weight has health implications for you but visually you must not look that big - I’m exactly the same height, age and dress size as you (age 43, 5 foot 8 and size 18- and I’m a single mother too!) but my BMI is 29. You must be very toned and muscular to be a size 18 at that weight, good for you 🤩- when my BMI was 37, I think I was about a size 24!

Btw YANBU to ask for the jabs if that’s the route you want to go down, as don’t ask, don’t get etc (although I would be very surprised if they agreed without making you go through every other possible NHS weight loss hoop first) - but just bear in mind it might be worth sorting out the underlying cause for your weight gain first, otherwise imo you risk gaining it all back again once you finish the jabs.

I went from a BMI of 48 to 29 over a long period of time through diet alone and have kept the weight off - but I did have to understand the psychological reasons behind my weight gain in the first place in order to make lifestyle changes I could keep up. I have physical issues (PCOS and back problems) that make weight loss tough, so I fully believe that if I can do it, then most people can! Good luck Flowers

Oakcupboard · 18/10/2024 23:29

It is worth a try but mine wouldn’t prescribe it to me and I’m diabetic 🙄 I have to buy mine - that said it is worth every penny

Searchingforthelight · 18/10/2024 23:25

@FriendlyFriend Why does this matter?

For any fools out there who think this is 'cheating', it's no different to someone with hypertension 'cheating' by taking their blood pressure meds to have a normal blood pressure etc

Perhaps a few (disturbed) people who easily maintain normal weight are annoyed that this can be achieved now by everyone, that obesity can be treated?

These drugs are a complete game changer and the sooner the NHS delivers them, the better - for our society and for the NHS itself!

Blindoptimism · 18/10/2024 23:24

FriendlyFriend · 16/10/2024 14:40

I think its bmi over 35 plus high blood pressure OR diabetes

i think i might be eligible

There is some draft guidance for the NHS in England saying exactly that.

Page 41 here.

https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/GID-TA11156/documents/draft-guidance-2

It isn’t in effect until they publish final guidance but I think that must be due pretty soon, within months- it will basically tell GPs they should prescribe for BMI of 35 + one obesity related health condition. I think it’s worth saying that you think this is coming up if they say no now

https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/GID-TA11156/documents/draft-guidance-2

FriendlyFriend · 18/10/2024 23:16

Belindabelle · 18/10/2024 22:30

@FriendlyFriend You don’t have to tell anyone. No one will think you have cheated because no one has to know.

Its going to be a bit obvious though if it works for me

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SageBlossomBunny · 18/10/2024 22:59

I weigh more than John's SIL 😳.

I'm fat and in my forties and really don't know if my next step is menopause patches, adhd drugs or weight loss meds.

And the frustrating thing is instead of having a GP to guide me through it she literally said at my last appointment "it's calories in... You could just eat 2 mars bars and that would be fine".

I feel like we're dismissed and overlooked once morbidly obese rather than helped.

Belindabelle · 18/10/2024 22:30

@FriendlyFriend You don’t have to tell anyone. No one will think you have cheated because no one has to know.

JohnTheRevelator · 18/10/2024 22:17

Good luck with that. My SIL has a BMI of 38,weighs 19 stone,has high cholesterol and is pre-diabetic and her GP STILL refuses to prescribe it for her.

FriendlyFriend · 18/10/2024 21:51

That’s interesting re the extra dose, my friend said something similar and i wasn't sure what she meant. Yes i could spend £30 a week on this for sure. Im going to do it. Its worth it. Im worth it.

i think in the back of my mind i feel people will think ive cheated, taken the easy route etc. but with so much to lose and ££ im giving myself one chance only. Then will be so strict with my eating when i come off it eventually. I just think if its available for weightloss, it works and its approved medically, then why the hell wouldn’t we use it?

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soupfiend · 18/10/2024 21:26

Once you're no longer attracted to or want certain foods, there are whole aisles of the supermarket that you just dont go down anymore, its amazing how little you can end up with in the basket, thats why its so much cheaper

Belindabelle · 18/10/2024 21:19

@Itsmahoneybaloney google Mounjaro bonus dose.

I do the hard twist method. You can also extract the bonus dose. It’s a whole new world and a bit of a learning curve.

WhoOfWhoville · 18/10/2024 21:00

Tiggiwinklescousin · 16/10/2024 00:11

Of course you could. I could to, as I'm 48, 5'4" size 30 and weigh 23stone (with all the associated health conditions you'd expect). But I won't, because my 80yr old Dad is diabetic and if there's one dose of Ozempic to go around, I'd far rather him have it as he didn't create his condition whereas I do take full responsibility for creating my morbid obesity. However I justify it to myself, whatever shit and trauma Ive been through, however weird my hormones are....I put the food in my mouth to make myself this fat. I did that. I am not a foie gras duck.

So yes, you absolutely could....but it doesn't mean you should.

Or you could just exercise a little bit of self-compassion and allow yourself the help you deserve to improve your life and health. You are worth that, even if you don’t believe it at the moment.

Itsmahoneybaloney · 18/10/2024 20:58

hughiedoesntfight · 18/10/2024 20:56

You might be best googling it and then you are getting pictures as well.

But yes. You can see the plunger hasn’t gone all the way to the end.

Yes, I did 5 jabs at 2.5mg and then moved up to 5.

yes it has a long enough shelf life, as the 5 would be done in under 30 days.

Thank you good to know!

hughiedoesntfight · 18/10/2024 20:56

Itsmahoneybaloney · 18/10/2024 20:51

Silly question but how would I know? Can you see the extra dose in the pen? I havent looked. I've just bought my 5mg pen after 3 weeks (4th jab due on monday) so would I do an extra week on 2.5mg then start using my 5mg pen? Has it got a long enough shelf life to do that? Sorry for all the questions!

You might be best googling it and then you are getting pictures as well.

But yes. You can see the plunger hasn’t gone all the way to the end.

Yes, I did 5 jabs at 2.5mg and then moved up to 5.

yes it has a long enough shelf life, as the 5 would be done in under 30 days.

Cheeseismyfavourite · 18/10/2024 20:56

SageBlossomBunny · 18/10/2024 10:33

I can't afford that. We spend 120-150 a week as a family of 4 on food. I have autistic duaghters who don't eat the same as each other.

We have no space in our budget at all 😭.

We used to spend £125iah a week on a family of five. It’s now down to around £100 a week as I’m eating less it’s amazing how it all adds up. Then on-top of the shop take off a treat here and there and a takeaway once a month and that’s the cost of your pen more than covered.

Itsmahoneybaloney · 18/10/2024 20:51

hughiedoesntfight · 18/10/2024 20:49

Yes.

Silly question but how would I know? Can you see the extra dose in the pen? I havent looked. I've just bought my 5mg pen after 3 weeks (4th jab due on monday) so would I do an extra week on 2.5mg then start using my 5mg pen? Has it got a long enough shelf life to do that? Sorry for all the questions!

hughiedoesntfight · 18/10/2024 20:49

Itsmahoneybaloney · 18/10/2024 20:46

Eh? Why would they sell it with an extra dose. To prime it the instructions just said release the bubbles and a drop of medicine will appear. Does that mean there's an extra dose?

Yes.

Itsmahoneybaloney · 18/10/2024 20:46

hughiedoesntfight · 18/10/2024 20:45

No you can 5 doses out of one pen. Depending on how much you use to prime

Eh? Why would they sell it with an extra dose. To prime it the instructions just said release the bubbles and a drop of medicine will appear. Does that mean there's an extra dose?

hughiedoesntfight · 18/10/2024 20:45

Itsmahoneybaloney · 18/10/2024 20:42

5 weeks?! It's only 4 weeks at a time 🤔

No you can 5 doses out of one pen. Depending on how much you use to prime

Itsmahoneybaloney · 18/10/2024 20:42

Belindabelle · 18/10/2024 19:47

Re the cost. I pay £150 for a pen that lasts 5 weeks, so £30 a week.

Not spending £5 on WW Slimming World etc
Not spending £8 on weekly bottle of wine (gone off it)
Not spending £10 on sourdough and other ‘clean’ food
Not spending £10 on snacks, treats etc

I am actually saving money!

5 weeks?! It's only 4 weeks at a time 🤔

Searchingforthelight · 18/10/2024 19:51

Belindabelle · 18/10/2024 19:47

Re the cost. I pay £150 for a pen that lasts 5 weeks, so £30 a week.

Not spending £5 on WW Slimming World etc
Not spending £8 on weekly bottle of wine (gone off it)
Not spending £10 on sourdough and other ‘clean’ food
Not spending £10 on snacks, treats etc

I am actually saving money!

Totally agree
Spending so little on food

Fitting into lovely clothes that have been waiting in wardrobe

The cost is not what it appears to be when you calculate all this

Belindabelle · 18/10/2024 19:47

Re the cost. I pay £150 for a pen that lasts 5 weeks, so £30 a week.

Not spending £5 on WW Slimming World etc
Not spending £8 on weekly bottle of wine (gone off it)
Not spending £10 on sourdough and other ‘clean’ food
Not spending £10 on snacks, treats etc

I am actually saving money!

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