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What are the totally flexible jobs? Do they exist?

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HolyGrailSeeker · 14/10/2024 09:43

Since having DC1, I have not worked. But now, with DC1 at school, and DC2 starting in childcare for a couple of days a week, the luxury of being a SAHM is hitting its expiry date, and it’s time for me to start working again.

But here is the conundrum:

  • No family nearby to help with childcare
  • DH works extremely long hours, and often has to go away for the night/week with only a few hours notice. So I need to be entirely flexible/available to do every drop off/pick up/taking to afterschool activities.
  • Hours I could work: (max 3 days a week) 9am-2pm, maybe 1-2 days a week I could do 9-5pm. But ideally a totally flexible job and I could do some extra hours when children asleep / at the weekend.
  • I love love love being a Mum, and don’t want to go down the getting a nanny/au pair route. I love the time I get to spend with my children and want to protect the afterschool time with DC1 for at least 2 days a week and really don’t want DC2 in childcare for more than 3 days a week.
  • Live in London so childcare is expensive so need to be earning more than spending on any additional childcare. Looking for a take home of £1000pcm as a minimum so maybe £25+ p/h.
  • 2:1 from a top university - social sciences degree
  • extremely low self confidence right now due to toxic environment and negative experiences at job pre-DC. Returning to that industry not an option as it was extremely un-family friendly (and I hated it).
  • open to studying for a new qualification if necessary, but ideally I would be able to start earning something sooner rather than later.
  • ideally WFH / very local for most of the time.

What job can I do? I’m at a total loss as to where to start looking. No idea too crazy (although keep it legal please and I have no interest in doing anything X-rated!)

I’d love to hear what flexible jobs others do that fit my criteria and how you got into it.

Thank you!

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MujeresLibres · 14/10/2024 22:19

HolyGrailSeeker · 14/10/2024 13:58

Interesting, will look into this. Did you train on the job or do a qualification first?

I did a masters conversion course, but did a lot of learning on the job too. Not all the jobs I've had have been as flexible as the one I have now, but IT companies do tend to 'work smart' and allow hybrid working.

HolyGrailSeeker · 14/10/2024 21:11

TakeMeToTheSeahorseDisco · 14/10/2024 20:01

@HolyGrailSeeker annualised hours can cover all sorts, Ambulance Technician, Exams Officer (school), Maintenance Operative, Service Manager, Travel rep, other NHS jobs (I think it's quite common in certain areas of the NHS). Talking of the NHS, I recently saw a job advertised for a Pharmacy tech in a hospital that had flexible hours and no weekends. Any jobs that say flexible working are worth a conversation with the employer.

Also there's a fab website www.ten2two.org that has school hours jobs on. I hope that helps 😊

So helpful - thank you! ☺️

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LouiseTopaz · 14/10/2024 20:17

I worked at a small Asda store as a student and they were very flexible.

TakeMeToTheSeahorseDisco · 14/10/2024 20:01

@HolyGrailSeeker annualised hours can cover all sorts, Ambulance Technician, Exams Officer (school), Maintenance Operative, Service Manager, Travel rep, other NHS jobs (I think it's quite common in certain areas of the NHS). Talking of the NHS, I recently saw a job advertised for a Pharmacy tech in a hospital that had flexible hours and no weekends. Any jobs that say flexible working are worth a conversation with the employer.

Also there's a fab website www.ten2two.org that has school hours jobs on. I hope that helps 😊

Recruitment Agency Ten2Two | Flexible Working & Part Time Jobs

Ten2Two is a recruitment agency helping local companies recruit experienced professionals and executives for part time and flexible working jobs.

http://www.ten2two.org

fistsoffury · 14/10/2024 20:00

@HolyGrailSeeker

Yes, it's a fantastic job once you're fully qualified and gets better the more experienced you become. But it's a long road to get there. Since Covid there is a huge amount of remote work available as well.

At pre-interpreter level you can get communication support work in schools but it doesn't pay well unfortunately.

HolyGrailSeeker · 14/10/2024 19:52

fistsoffury · 14/10/2024 19:20

I'm a sign language interpreter and charge upwards of £50 ph depending on booking. Very flexible. I choose my own work. Husband is similar to yours and works away, not too often thankfully. He earns a lot which means I can be even choosier with the work I accept.

However, it's years of training to qualify and also expensive to study.

Wow lucky you! That’s great to know. Yes, BSL is its own language isn’t it? Not just English with signs. Sounds rewarding but as you say, a huge amount of training. I can do the BSL alphabet and a few signs but that’s not much of a start!

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HolyGrailSeeker · 14/10/2024 19:49

TakeMeToTheSeahorseDisco · 14/10/2024 18:53

Perhaps something with annualised hours? I have this and as long as I hit my hours for the year I can work when I can

Any suggestions as to the kind of roles that have this? I’ve not heard of it before

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HolyGrailSeeker · 14/10/2024 19:49

Ezzee · 14/10/2024 18:32

Nope PAYE but run my own diary.
I do mental health, neurodiverse within work mentoring/coaching.
I'm a fully qualified psychotherapist but my previous life was in HR.

Ah thank you

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fistsoffury · 14/10/2024 19:20

I'm a sign language interpreter and charge upwards of £50 ph depending on booking. Very flexible. I choose my own work. Husband is similar to yours and works away, not too often thankfully. He earns a lot which means I can be even choosier with the work I accept.

However, it's years of training to qualify and also expensive to study.

TakeMeToTheSeahorseDisco · 14/10/2024 18:53

Perhaps something with annualised hours? I have this and as long as I hit my hours for the year I can work when I can

Ezzee · 14/10/2024 18:32

HolyGrailSeeker · 14/10/2024 13:55

This sounds interesting. What kind of mentoring / coaching do you do? Are you self employed? Did you get a qualification at all?

Nope PAYE but run my own diary.
I do mental health, neurodiverse within work mentoring/coaching.
I'm a fully qualified psychotherapist but my previous life was in HR.

GogAndMagog · 14/10/2024 18:10

Virtual PA sounds perfect.

£25 p/h is a bit optimistic I would say!

notacooldad · 14/10/2024 18:01

Agency care work until you are qualified?

Nottodaythankyou123 · 14/10/2024 17:57

HolyGrailSeeker · 14/10/2024 13:57

You’re the 2nd or 3rd Lawyer to post, I had no idea law could be so flexible.

Yes, would be a long slog to get there, but given the age at which we are likely to retire (I’m currently in my 30s) I’m not against a lengthy retraining process if I’ve got another 30+ years to work

To be fair if you already have a degree then you’ve cut 3 years off the process already!

BunnyLake · 14/10/2024 16:27

lamiconds · 14/10/2024 11:58

Absolutely it can be a long term choice but only if you're actually enthusiastic about working with children, if you just want something to fit around your own, you probably won't want to do it for 20 years

I guess she still needs to earn money and I think she likes not having a ‘boss’ to answer to.

HolyGrailSeeker · 14/10/2024 14:06

NZDreaming · 14/10/2024 11:22

@HolyGrailSeeker i also knew someone in a similar situation to you who became a mortgage advisor. You have to complete a couple of exams which was a few hundred pounds but I think are done online with home study. They worked for a collective called the mortgage mum, you don’t get a salary but make money for every mortgage you process (client fee and bank commission) so entirely up to you how many hours you put in. You do need to have an interest in networking and sales to make it work though.

Interesting, thank you!

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HolyGrailSeeker · 14/10/2024 14:03

WheelySquirrel · 14/10/2024 11:39

Clerk to Governors? Fixed meetings (usually evenings) so you’d have time to either arrange your husband to be back or get alternative childcare. Some meetings on Teams aswell. Rest of the work is completely flexible and can do in your own time. You can work for yourself or a lodal authority or a clerking service or an individual school and with any of those options you can take on as many schools as you want. Doesn’t pay as much as you want but does fit perfectly into the hours you want (I know as I do it for exactly the same reasons!)

This is a great suggestion. Happy for the pay to be a bit lower if I am not paying for extra childcare hours.

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HolyGrailSeeker · 14/10/2024 14:01

Pleaselettheholidayend · 14/10/2024 11:33

No worries, it's a sales advisor role for insurance. Basically on the phones selling products, nothing exciting but I'm interested in progressing and there's lots of opportunities to do that.

It sounds great - congratulations and I hope you enjoy working there!

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Baddaybigcloud · 14/10/2024 14:01

TA at your kids school

HolyGrailSeeker · 14/10/2024 14:00

florasl · 14/10/2024 11:39

Parish Clerks have this flexibility, decent pay around £20 per hour too for a reasonable sized parish when I was unqualified going up after qualification. I did this in evenings/nap times. Now work in local government on flexitime and so long as hours are done, they don’t mind when.

Thank you, another couple of great suggestions

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HolyGrailSeeker · 14/10/2024 13:58

MujeresLibres · 14/10/2024 12:10

Software developer, although deadlines can be stressy. I'm a humanities graduate too.

Interesting, will look into this. Did you train on the job or do a qualification first?

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HolyGrailSeeker · 14/10/2024 13:57

Nottodaythankyou123 · 14/10/2024 12:43

I have a fairly flexible job (lawyer) - not traditionally flexible but my firm is incredibly flexible, I work whilst kids are in childcare and then pick up in the evenings to finish if needs be - they judge based on my results, not hours, so provided I hit my targets and clients are happy they don’t care where or when I work. Not one you can just walk into unfortunately but could qualify into 🤷🏼‍♀️

You’re the 2nd or 3rd Lawyer to post, I had no idea law could be so flexible.

Yes, would be a long slog to get there, but given the age at which we are likely to retire (I’m currently in my 30s) I’m not against a lengthy retraining process if I’ve got another 30+ years to work

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HolyGrailSeeker · 14/10/2024 13:55

Ezzee · 14/10/2024 11:28

Mentoring or coaching, that's what I do now. Totally flexible and great money.

This sounds interesting. What kind of mentoring / coaching do you do? Are you self employed? Did you get a qualification at all?

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ChaoticCrumble · 14/10/2024 13:19

I follow someone on TikTok who's an insurance adjuster and that looks like the kind of job that could be flexible and from home. (she's in the US but same principle I imagine).

Nottodaythankyou123 · 14/10/2024 12:43

I have a fairly flexible job (lawyer) - not traditionally flexible but my firm is incredibly flexible, I work whilst kids are in childcare and then pick up in the evenings to finish if needs be - they judge based on my results, not hours, so provided I hit my targets and clients are happy they don’t care where or when I work. Not one you can just walk into unfortunately but could qualify into 🤷🏼‍♀️