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Ryanair made 4yr old sit alone

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LHGL · 13/10/2024 19:18

We had a really stressful experience recently and I don’t know if it’s just me who finds this completely unacceptable but I just feel the need to get this out there.
Family of 5; DH, myself, DD 4 and 9, DS 7. Both DD’s get very travel sick.
Just under 3 hour flight to Italy and we check in online in advance, and I notice nobody is sitting together. I mean nobody is even on the same row - 5C, 32F,19B etc. We click ‘change seats’ but there are no options. I read up on kids sitting alone and am relieved to hear that Ryanair policy is that anyone under 12 needs to sit next to an adult.
We get to the airport and tell the Ryanair woman at baggage, she’s says not to worry and they’ll make sure we’re sitting together at the gate. Get to the gate, same story but the cabin crew will sort us out.

we board the plane and the two flight attendants tell us the flight is busy and they can’t help. DH reminds them of the policy of kids and adults sitting together, and they shrug and tell us we’re blocking the aisle. After a little more polite protestation we’re told they’ll sort us out once seated.
They don’t. We tried to swap with people ourselves but only managed to get the two youngest together, people weren’t terribly helpful and luck was against us with language and some odd folk.
The long and short of it was that the flight was a very distressing experience for all, not least the kids, and I was really taken aback by how uncaring the Ryanair attendants were. They put more effort into trying to sell us scratch cards than attempting to stop my kids being terrified of ever getting on a plane again.

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SquashGnocci · 13/10/2024 19:21

It's about a tenner per flight extra to choose your seats I think? Probably worth it for at least the youngest and one parent.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 13/10/2024 19:21

Why didn’t pay when you booked the flight to book the seats as well?

downwindofyou · 13/10/2024 19:21

NinetyNineOrangeBalloons · 13/10/2024 19:19

That’s bad. But couldn’t you have booked seats together when you booked the flight?

But as long as they were happy to sit each with one child they shouldn't have to pre book.

If an airline has a policy to seat under12s with an adult then why would anyone think they would ignore their own policy. 4 years old ffs

BarbaraHoward · 13/10/2024 19:20

They should have seated the children near an adult (although if memory serves the legal definition of that is pretty broad and certainly isn't one I'd be happy with with my own similarly aged DC).

But honestly, flying Ryanair with young DC? You need to consider the seat reservation fee as part of the ticket price.

Babbadoobabbadock · 13/10/2024 19:20

Why did you not book seats ?

FionnulaTheCooler · 13/10/2024 19:20

Was there not an option to pay to prebook seats together?

Womblewife · 13/10/2024 19:20

Could you pay for the seats to be together? I always do this when we fly as I don’t want to risk it.

NorthFaceofthelaundrypile · 13/10/2024 19:20

When you booked tickets were there no options to assign each member of the family a seat?

NinetyNineOrangeBalloons · 13/10/2024 19:19

That’s bad. But couldn’t you have booked seats together when you booked the flight?

coronafiona · 13/10/2024 19:19

I can't stand Ryanair and refuse to fly with them. They have no respect for the people who pay them.
Either pay to book seats together in future or fly with another airline I guess

Zarbies · 13/10/2024 19:19

That’s pretty shit, I’d complain.