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Ryanair made 4yr old sit alone

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LHGL · 13/10/2024 19:18

We had a really stressful experience recently and I don’t know if it’s just me who finds this completely unacceptable but I just feel the need to get this out there.
Family of 5; DH, myself, DD 4 and 9, DS 7. Both DD’s get very travel sick.
Just under 3 hour flight to Italy and we check in online in advance, and I notice nobody is sitting together. I mean nobody is even on the same row - 5C, 32F,19B etc. We click ‘change seats’ but there are no options. I read up on kids sitting alone and am relieved to hear that Ryanair policy is that anyone under 12 needs to sit next to an adult.
We get to the airport and tell the Ryanair woman at baggage, she’s says not to worry and they’ll make sure we’re sitting together at the gate. Get to the gate, same story but the cabin crew will sort us out.

we board the plane and the two flight attendants tell us the flight is busy and they can’t help. DH reminds them of the policy of kids and adults sitting together, and they shrug and tell us we’re blocking the aisle. After a little more polite protestation we’re told they’ll sort us out once seated.
They don’t. We tried to swap with people ourselves but only managed to get the two youngest together, people weren’t terribly helpful and luck was against us with language and some odd folk.
The long and short of it was that the flight was a very distressing experience for all, not least the kids, and I was really taken aback by how uncaring the Ryanair attendants were. They put more effort into trying to sell us scratch cards than attempting to stop my kids being terrified of ever getting on a plane again.

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NinetyNineOrangeBalloons · 13/10/2024 22:36

SpringYay · 13/10/2024 22:33

Case and point. Ryanair are bastards, but also I would swap my seat to let a 4 year old sit beside their care giver I wouldn't stoop to that level too. Seems like lots would though.....meh , I just have more faith in humanity....obviously I am misguided. Ah well....

I’d swap if the seat was like for like, but I have specific requirements due to a disability so it would depend on what seat they were offering. Every time I’ve seen people want to swap they’ve only been offering middle seats, which I can’t use.

Notfinanciallyresponsibleforyou · 13/10/2024 22:36

This is how Ryan air and easy jet make money. If you want to sit together you pay per seat per flight. Same as the speedy boarder bollocks

CrazyGoatLady · 13/10/2024 22:36

SpringYay · 13/10/2024 22:17

Yep, this thread is full of horrible people driven by the " well I've paid for my bit of the world so to hell with everyone else" attitude. Including a wee 4 year old needing to sit away from their care giver.

So...if others have paid to sit with their own children, the family that didn't pay should take priority I assume?

If you don't like having to pay to have your "bit of the world" for the duration of a flight, the solution is very simple. Don't fly with budget airlines. Everybody hates their rip off policies, but most people are not entitled enough to think they should be the exception to them.

magicstar2020 · 13/10/2024 22:36

No33 · 13/10/2024 19:21

Pay for seats together.

Nobody on that plane is responsible for you sitting together apart from you.

Gosh poppet had a hard day?

SpringYay · 13/10/2024 22:33

MumChp · 13/10/2024 22:30

The parent didn't offer to refund people their fee for a seat did they?

Case and point. Ryanair are bastards, but also I would swap my seat to let a 4 year old sit beside their care giver I wouldn't stoop to that level too. Seems like lots would though.....meh , I just have more faith in humanity....obviously I am misguided. Ah well....

booksunderthebed · 13/10/2024 22:33

I have booked flights with Ryanair with kids many times, and am always forced to pay a smallish amount to have one adult sit with the kids. I don't really understand how you can get through the booking process without doing this.

Unless they changed aeroplans and seating plans got messed up this doesn't make sense.

I usually find people are pretty happy to switch seats on aeroplanes as long as similar seat. And who wants to sit next to someone elses 4 year old?

OnaBegonia · 13/10/2024 22:33

Another OP acting outraged and entitled, choose your seat at time of booking!! Ryanair constantly offer this on their site.
Nobody MADE a child sit alone, her stupid parents coasted this.
I've just been in 2 Ryanair flights and two of us were seated together at no extra cost.

DirectionToPerfection · 13/10/2024 22:32

SpringYay · 13/10/2024 22:28

None of the people had a 4 year old, all the people just refusing to swop "because they paid their money". I didn't say they should leave their children. You're trying to be smart but it's not working.

I'm simply responding to what you actually said.

You called @Whaleandsnail6 horrible because she would not swap in this situation (because she would not want to be separated from her own children). It's there in black and white.

ASD33 · 13/10/2024 22:32

If you absolutely need to sit beside who you are flying with just pay the few pounds ffs, its a well known policy. I can think of at least half a dozen times we got abuse from strangers when my DH refused to move. Every flight we book a row of 3 seats for myself and the 2 DC (both SEN) and book DH a seat across the aisle from us. Multiple times people have gotten arsey with him that he won't move as - in their words - he's just sitting on his own. We paid extra for him to be on hand for our DC, why should he move and I have to take care of my 2 SEN DC solo on a flight because others were so entitled they thought they shouldn't have to pay and then demand his seat? He wouldn't have swapped with you in your scenario either OP.

ClareBlue · 13/10/2024 22:32

Bombalarino · 13/10/2024 22:15

I've had this problem. I DID book seats for my family and I to sit together - then Ryanair changed the aircraft, booted my 4 year old out of her seat and stuck her up the other end of the aeroplane.

Online chat, check in and cabin crew were entirely unhelpful. Fortunately the woman sitting next to said 4 year old was very nice and probably didn't want to entertain a pre schooler for 2 hours (fair enough) so swapped with DH.

So yeah... Paying for a seat wasn't very helpful in our situation

So why didn't your DH just go to the other end of the plane when your 4 year old was kicked out of their seat.

FrancisSeaton · 13/10/2024 22:31

SpringYay · 13/10/2024 22:22

Do Ryanair have a bunch of their PR with MN accounts or something? This thread is so pathetic in parts.

'My money: your problem so fuck off'

Very depressing.....

Tell us you're an entitled fuck without telling us you're an entitled fuck

Soontobe60 · 13/10/2024 22:30

ClareBlue · 13/10/2024 22:24

Ryanair ask you twice in the booking process if you want to book seats together AND they state if you don't book seats you will be randomly allocated seats AND you then have to tick a box saying you are happy with randomly allocated seats. They ask you again near the flight AND when you check in before they randomly allocate the seats.
So....

It’s not letting me proceed with a booking without selecting seats. The booking process prevents anyone from not selecting a seat when travelling with an under 12 child.

MumChp · 13/10/2024 22:30

SpringYay · 13/10/2024 22:28

None of the people had a 4 year old, all the people just refusing to swop "because they paid their money". I didn't say they should leave their children. You're trying to be smart but it's not working.

The parent didn't offer to refund people their fee for a seat did they?

SpringYay · 13/10/2024 22:28

DirectionToPerfection · 13/10/2024 22:26

You are completely misinterpreting people's posts.

Why do you think a parent who paid to sit with her own children should give up her seat (and be labeled a horrible person for refusing)? What about her poor little 4 year old?

None of the people had a 4 year old, all the people just refusing to swop "because they paid their money". I didn't say they should leave their children. You're trying to be smart but it's not working.

Cyclebabble · 13/10/2024 22:28

I pay for an aisle seat as I have a medical condition that means I might need prompt access to a toilet. Sorry but it is very clear at the point of booking that to guarantee you are all sat together you need to pay. I would not have moved.

DirectionToPerfection · 13/10/2024 22:26

SpringYay · 13/10/2024 22:17

Yep, this thread is full of horrible people driven by the " well I've paid for my bit of the world so to hell with everyone else" attitude. Including a wee 4 year old needing to sit away from their care giver.

You are completely misinterpreting people's posts.

Why do you think a parent who paid to sit with her own children should give up her seat (and be labeled a horrible person for refusing)? What about her poor little 4 year old?

Soontobe60 · 13/10/2024 22:26

So to continue with my test booking, I have selected seats in both directions, an all seats have cost me the enormous sum of £0.
The OP is making this up!

Ryanair made 4yr old sit alone
samarrange · 13/10/2024 22:25

To all the people saying "Fly with a less cheap airline where you don't have to pay for your seats": DP and I took a flight in business class with Qatar Airways last year and were amazed to discover that we needed to pay $80 each if we wanted to select our seats. As it was we were going to sleep all the way and so we didn't bother, but paying to choose your seat is pretty much standard on almost every airline now.

ClareBlue · 13/10/2024 22:24

Ryanair ask you twice in the booking process if you want to book seats together AND they state if you don't book seats you will be randomly allocated seats AND you then have to tick a box saying you are happy with randomly allocated seats. They ask you again near the flight AND when you check in before they randomly allocate the seats.
So....

HisNibs · 13/10/2024 22:23

SpringYay · 13/10/2024 22:14

Sure, your money is more important than a 4 year old's well being.....not horrible in the slightest.....

Are you suggesting that the poster who paid to be sat with her children (that you don't know the ages of btw) should relocate herself or her children to accommodate people who couldn't be bothered/too tight to pay? That's crazy.

justasmalltownmum · 13/10/2024 22:23

You have to pay to sit together.

MigAndMog · 13/10/2024 22:22

"Ryan Air made 4 year old sit alone" isn't an accurate headline as they were actually sitting with a sibling? And then why didn't a parent sit with the 4 year old and move the 7 year old?

SpringYay · 13/10/2024 22:22

Do Ryanair have a bunch of their PR with MN accounts or something? This thread is so pathetic in parts.

'My money: your problem so fuck off'

Very depressing.....

Hoardasauruskaren · 13/10/2024 22:21

Ryanair deliberately seat members of the same party apart in the hope of getting more money out of you! It’s the only airline I have ever flown with that my companion(s) have been completely separated!

DD (19) & I flew Ryanair recently for a cheap city break. We weren’t bothered enough to pay to pre book. & when we did online check in were allocated seats several rows apart. Despite the fact that there were still seats available together! The row across from me had 2 empty seats.

To seat small children away from their parents is ridiculous & just disgusting greed & would put me off flying with any airline that do this! We used to fly as a family of 5 & were always seated together and never paid extra for this.

SpringYay · 13/10/2024 22:20

MumChp · 13/10/2024 22:17

Tbh yes.

You can't expect random people to care about other people's children onlybecause their parents won't pay seating.

Really we can't expect people to care about 4 year old kids' well being? Jeezo, this is really sad. Hope they're not parents themselves then with that attitude.

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