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To wonder why I haven't powdered my lady parts before!!

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CableCar · 12/10/2024 21:16

Today I got some powder for my lady parts and it has transformed how I feel.... I actually can't believe it! I have been suffering a sweaty, chaffing, post-baby, peri-menopausal, swollen mess of a down below, and wow... It has just transformed how I feel! Anyone else??!! Why isn't this talked about!!!

OP posts:
CableCar · 13/10/2024 13:27

Jillybloop393 · 13/10/2024 10:32

Marvellous stuff .... changed my life when I started going through the menopause. Hot flushes didn't leave me a sweaty mess once I'd had a dusting of it. I still use it, wouldn't be without it.

Yes! I feel like it was some sort of hidden secret. It's all the talk of peri-menopause that has made me look into this and I'm so glad I've found the powder!

OP posts:
CableCar · 13/10/2024 13:24

marshmallowfinder · 13/10/2024 04:12

Says someone not in perimenopause or menopause! Dear God, the dryness and itching require more on a daily basis. I've never used powder, but I have to use vaginal and vulval moisturiser at the very least. Just wash and go is no longer remotely possible sadly.

This is where I am at!!

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Vitriolinsanity · 13/10/2024 12:50

Just mind how you go OP. I sprinkled some talc around in the summer (strapless bra wouldn't spin round on damp body).

I then slid halfway across the bathroom when I went back in with dry feet.

CableCar · 13/10/2024 12:24

MrsLBrown · 12/10/2024 22:35

Femfresh

That just says it all.

It's suggesting your body smells and needs to smell 'feminine'.

Just shower twice a day .

How does powder make you feel more comfortable?

How do you feel without it?

Just asking.

Edited

It's not the smell, just the comfort. I honestly didn't realise it'd work as well as it has, hence my apparently controversial post... I honestly feel like this is such a taboo and was genuinely interested in whether other women know the same!!!

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CableCar · 13/10/2024 12:21

Skirtandshirt · 12/10/2024 22:29

Yeah I don’t often hear genuine ladies using the phrase “lady parts”.

I assure you I am a lady and not a man 😂

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CableCar · 13/10/2024 12:18

Frankensteinslittlefriend · 12/10/2024 21:30

Why do people feel the need to share this with millions 😂

Because I daren't share it without being anonymous 😂

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Jillybloop393 · 13/10/2024 10:32

CableCar · 12/10/2024 21:25

Fem fresh?! It's talc free and designed for the intimate area... Surely it's safe? I knew talc was bad as it used to contain asbestos...but the fem fresh is corn starch based?

Marvellous stuff .... changed my life when I started going through the menopause. Hot flushes didn't leave me a sweaty mess once I'd had a dusting of it. I still use it, wouldn't be without it.

HorsePeopleAreStablePeople · 13/10/2024 10:28

Tomatina · 13/10/2024 05:48

Why would the correct terms for parts of the female anatomy be "off putting"? Every woman on the planet has a vulva and a vagina - surely in 2024 we don't need to resort to coy, childish euphemisms like 'lady parts', 'intimate area' or 'down there'.

As said to another poster it's not coy or childish to not want to hear about peoples genitals. Several other PPs have agreed with me. I don't want to her about testicles, scrotums, anuses, defalcation or urination either. Just because everyone does it and knows what it's actually called doesn't mean I or most people want to hear it.

Theres a reason people say I'm going to spend a penny or pop to the loo rather than I am going to defecate. Because despite it being factually true and is all knowing what you're doing anyway, no one wants to hear it.

HorsePeopleAreStablePeople · 13/10/2024 10:24

ChiefEverythingOfficer · 13/10/2024 02:29

Have I timewarped and nobody told me.

Vulva, labia and vagina are what they are called. Like the brain is the brain, the foot is the foot, the ear is the ear.

How on earth are those words off-putting? Sheesh - your subscription to the patriarchy is obviously pre-paid for life. There is no shame in our genitals, we all have them.

You do you though.

Edited

Hahahaha fuck me how is finding certain terms off-putting a lifelong subscription to the patriarchy? 😂 That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard! Some women are just desperate to turn everything into mens fault when it really has nothing to do with them.

Anus, scrotum, testicles etc. are all equally off-putting and nothing to do with women. Men often talk about dicks, balls and banjo strings rather than penises testicles and frenulums because it's all just a bit manky.

There are plenty of factual terms people replace with euphemisms when chatting because it's all a bit TMI and no one wants to hear it.

Tell someone in real life your vagina is moist and watch them squirm, because despite being factually correct most people find it a bit manky to hear.

Somehowgirl · 13/10/2024 07:18

Go back and look at your statement which started this debate. You were taking about talc, not baby powder. Keep stomping your feet and deflecting though, it's fun.

Your investment in this is insane.

People still call baby powder talc even though it isn't real talc anymore.

AnImaginaryCat · 13/10/2024 06:59

I presumed the OP meant powdering her groin rather than she is squirting power internally (because there's no sweat glands in the vulva) so no chance of paste forming and things getting stuck together.

Getting sweating in the groin is very uncomfortable and not solved by showering. Unless you stay in the shower of course - but that would be be awkward when it comes to socialising and attendingTeams meetings.

. a.

mathanxiety · 13/10/2024 06:14

raffegiraffe · 12/10/2024 22:22

Talc has never been shown to cause cancer. No studies have shown this. There is a theoretical risk if contaminated with asbestos. The lawsuits against talc making companies is because the companies cannot prove the talc they produced didn't contain asbestos because their testing policies were lax

The companies are liable because their talc product, "talcum powder", has qualities of a carcinogen, which they knew as far back as the late 1950s, but they hid this from consumers and regulators.

Tomatina · 13/10/2024 05:48

HorsePeopleAreStablePeople · 13/10/2024 00:26

I really don't see the problem with lady parts, a lot of people find the terms vulvas vagina and labia off putting.

Why would the correct terms for parts of the female anatomy be "off putting"? Every woman on the planet has a vulva and a vagina - surely in 2024 we don't need to resort to coy, childish euphemisms like 'lady parts', 'intimate area' or 'down there'.

3hrMax · 13/10/2024 05:21

You really think that the OP is a man who has been making frequent non-controversial posts, which identify them as woman, for at least 6 months (under this particular username) to lay the groundwork for getting some racy stories about vaginally discomfort?

Sounds a bit barmy to me.

FergusSingsTheBIues · 13/10/2024 04:51

Lakrads · 13/10/2024 00:29

Why am I reading this in a David Walliams, Little England voice? "I'm a laydeeeee"

Because it’s clearly a fucking man posting 🙄

Boobygravy · 13/10/2024 04:49

I used baby powder, I also drink alcohol.
Drinking alcohol is much more likely to give me cancer.
In fact even light drinkers increase their risk of breast cancer by 104%.

marshmallowfinder · 13/10/2024 04:12

Mum2jenny · 12/10/2024 21:21

Do not powder your lady parts, it’s not good for you. Just wash the externals with a neutral shampoo/ shower gel/ baby shampoo and do nothing more.

Says someone not in perimenopause or menopause! Dear God, the dryness and itching require more on a daily basis. I've never used powder, but I have to use vaginal and vulval moisturiser at the very least. Just wash and go is no longer remotely possible sadly.

Ownedbyabeagle · 13/10/2024 03:58

I use vagisil as I work in a very warm environment and am menopausal and I was very uncomfortable and self conscious.
I don't understand why this is such a controversial post when it's something lots of women have a problem with. I've read a lot worse on here!
I wish I'd known about this sooner so I think it's fine to share.

NautilusLionfish · 13/10/2024 03:35

ladyland · 13/10/2024 02:24

That reminded me, I was going to make a sour dough loaf today.

Sounds yum. I need a sourdough starter. Send me some?

3hrMax · 13/10/2024 03:27

Skirtandshirt · 12/10/2024 22:50

Guess we must know different kinds of ladies.

To me it’s very “Hey ladies, first-time poster here with a raunchy question just between us girls ;)”

I think that's just you (well, and a couple of other posters).

The OP is an established poster and "lady parts" is a fairly common phrase on Mumsnet and elsewhere.

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 13/10/2024 02:53

Tightropewalker67 · 13/10/2024 00:53

Spare me the ‘why would you want to put women and baby girls in harm’s way?’ shit. Nobody here is doing that. As we’ve all established, baby powder doesn’t contain talc anymore and I’m sure no mothers out there are going out of their way to source (and pay over the odds for) actual talcum powder to dust their daughters’ genitals with.

As is not uncommon on Mumsnet, a woman comes on to share something she’s found helpful and it quickly descends into derision and mockery. The cancer chat was fine up to the point that OP clarified the product she’s been using. And then someone else pointed out very clearly that the talc/cancer link just isn’t there like some have said it is. But still it continued. There comes a point when information sharing is just plain scaremongering and that’s my read of it. Hence my comments.

However, it doesn’t matter to me or anyone else what your views of my take of this situation are so please do stop telling me.

Go back and look at your statement which started this debate. You were taking about talc, not baby powder. Keep stomping your feet and deflecting though, it's fun.

dottiedodah · 13/10/2024 02:32

I would be careful. For a long time.i used baby powder.it may be a coincide, e but I have been diagnosed with ovarian cancer.hopefully been caught early.6 chemo sessions are not pleasant!

ChiefEverythingOfficer · 13/10/2024 02:29

HorsePeopleAreStablePeople · 13/10/2024 00:26

I really don't see the problem with lady parts, a lot of people find the terms vulvas vagina and labia off putting.

Have I timewarped and nobody told me.

Vulva, labia and vagina are what they are called. Like the brain is the brain, the foot is the foot, the ear is the ear.

How on earth are those words off-putting? Sheesh - your subscription to the patriarchy is obviously pre-paid for life. There is no shame in our genitals, we all have them.

You do you though.

ladyland · 13/10/2024 02:24

That reminded me, I was going to make a sour dough loaf today.

Tightropewalker67 · 13/10/2024 00:53

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 13/10/2024 00:07

If something's safety is inconclusive (I don't know what the fuck 'decidedly inconclusive' means) enough to scare a multinational into shelling out that kind of money, how can you possibly think it's unreasonable for women to be wary of using the product on themselves or their baby girls? Why the insults and scorn from you?

Spare me the ‘why would you want to put women and baby girls in harm’s way?’ shit. Nobody here is doing that. As we’ve all established, baby powder doesn’t contain talc anymore and I’m sure no mothers out there are going out of their way to source (and pay over the odds for) actual talcum powder to dust their daughters’ genitals with.

As is not uncommon on Mumsnet, a woman comes on to share something she’s found helpful and it quickly descends into derision and mockery. The cancer chat was fine up to the point that OP clarified the product she’s been using. And then someone else pointed out very clearly that the talc/cancer link just isn’t there like some have said it is. But still it continued. There comes a point when information sharing is just plain scaremongering and that’s my read of it. Hence my comments.

However, it doesn’t matter to me or anyone else what your views of my take of this situation are so please do stop telling me.