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the7Vabo · 12/10/2024 19:25

I have spent an unproductive day on TikTok and despite wanting to scream at the algorithm I have been subjected to multiple TikToks about the Aldi wooden toy sell-out.

If I have to see one more “those selling on Vinted have robbed poorer parents of their chance to get their child a Christmas present”, or a picture of a huge Aldi toy haul I might delete the app (which would make me more protective!)

What kind of collective consumerist madness is this?! I was in Aldi this evening (in Ireland they didn’t seem to take off here to the same extent), the toys look fine but they are clearly for v young kids, the toy kitchen looks tiny so you’d only get 3 ish years out of them max.
Personally I wouldn’t give a wooden painted toy to a child that puts things in their mouth.

I just hate it. I go into work and all the company can talk about is sustainability and how we have targets to do X & Y by 2050 to save the planet.

Meanwhile people are losing their minds over toys for kids so small they don’t know the difference.

Need a toy kitchen on a budget - Facebook Marketplace, job done.

It’s madness!!

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Pickled21 · 13/10/2024 16:58

I got an aldi wooden toy kitchen for dd1 when she turned 3. She's now 8. We've had 2 other children who have played with it and I often find all 3 kids playing with it. Over the years numerous kids have visited and played with it and it's still in good nick. It has a 4 burner hob, buttons that click and.a washing machine , fridge , freezer section and was proved at £90. It went to half price and I snapped it up.

There is hysteria on toktok over everything. Years ago it was the aldi nappies and now it is their wooden toys. Ours have been longlasting and in my view good quality for the price. We have a toys shop and musical instruments that are still going strong.

PleaseAskSomeoneWhoGivesAFuck · 13/10/2024 12:39

the7Vabo · 12/10/2024 19:35

Lots of them look cute I agree but that’s not the point.

If say someone liked the mini coffee set and got that and maybe a couple of other bits grand. But equally if they didn’t no big deal, just get something else.

Its the hysteria that drives me nuts.

You clearly were too young for the Tagamochi, cabbage patch doll and numerous other toy crazes that are moaned about every so often

PleaseAskSomeoneWhoGivesAFuck · 13/10/2024 12:38

DinosaurMunch · 12/10/2024 19:31

All unnecessary consumerism and use of materials is bad for the environment, obviously

How do you define unnecessary consumerism?

the7Vabo · 13/10/2024 12:27

Superworm24 · 13/10/2024 11:30

The tik tok algorithm will feed you stuff that you engage with. Even if you don't comment you will be spending more time watching these clips and probably will read the comments. I get a lot of undercompsuption, buying christmas gifts for charity shop and frugal cooking clips. Don't think because you're seeing it on tiktok that it's the norm.

I get that, but also I’m looking around at friends, family, colleagues.
They aren’t buying every toy in Aldi, but they buy tons of clothes, toys and go on multiple flights a year.
Most people do the basics like dropping to charity shops, recycle bins but I really don’t think they think much beyond that i.e. that a lot of this stuff ends up in African landfill.

Its great that unconsumption or what is probably normal consumption to a lot of people trendy but it’s just not enough.

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Superworm24 · 13/10/2024 11:30

the7Vabo · 13/10/2024 09:22

Lots of stuff is cheap though, we are drowning in cheap stuff. A quick google search throws up many affordable options.

I feel the biggest threat to sustainability is that people just aren’t prepared to give up certain things. They will tell themselves oh but it’s Christmas/holiday/birthday/a treat etc so I/my kids need X or Y. And we have more and more occasions now eg baby showers and throw more tat at things like Halloween.

There s loads of stats about how there is way more baby & kids stuff in the world than kids.

Tiktok awash with emotional posts about how the babies of poorer parents are now missing out on Christmas is utterly ridiculous and shows how utterly consumerist we have become.

The tik tok algorithm will feed you stuff that you engage with. Even if you don't comment you will be spending more time watching these clips and probably will read the comments. I get a lot of undercompsuption, buying christmas gifts for charity shop and frugal cooking clips. Don't think because you're seeing it on tiktok that it's the norm.

NotSayingImBatman · 13/10/2024 11:20

GraySweatpants · 12/10/2024 21:29

Our DD is really interested in kitchen stuff at the moment and I have been looking at toy kitchen for weeks! The Aldi one is definitely the cheapest by far so I was really looking forward to getting one this week.

Naively I thought they’d still be there on Friday so I thought cool will pop in after work. Just empty shells! Tried another Aldi today and it’s even emptier. Screw those resellers!

Definitely recommend keeping an eye out for a second hand IKEA kitchen. I gave ours away when the kids outgrew it and it looked as good as the day I bought it. There’s load of tutorials on TikTok and whatnot for upcycling them and they sell on Facebook marketplace in my area for £20-30. They’re far superior in quality to the cheap ones from Aldi and Asda and the like.

TheWayTheLightFalls · 13/10/2024 10:26

the7Vabo · 13/10/2024 10:16

My point is less about TikTok and more about sustainability.

You have witnessed this in real life. Shopping centres are full of cheap, clothes and toys. I walk into somewhere like H&M Kids and all I can see is landfill.

Halloween is next. People have gone mad decorating their house. And Tesco etc will sell out of witches costumes even though there s probably plenty to go around already.

Small numbers of people do freecycling etc most don’t think about the environmental impact or don’t care.

I hate this too - and oh the irony, people going nuts in Aldi buying "sustainable" wooden toys when most children are happy as Larry building a toy kitchen out of Tupperware, cardboard, sticks and leaves which is actually better for imaginative play.

But all you can do is amend your own behaviour and guide your children accordingly. We hand clothes and toys down, and also use others' hand-me-downs. We talk about things like Halloween way in advance and I explain that if we plan ahead we can always find/buy/borrow/make a costume rather than order single-use shite from Amazon. We organise clothes and costume swaps and so on. I think you can have a genuine influence in your own life and with those around you. Not enough to stop the avalanche of crap but at least something.

the7Vabo · 13/10/2024 10:16

Grepes · 13/10/2024 09:52

Just get off TikTok. I haven’t witnessed this behaviour in real life.

My point is less about TikTok and more about sustainability.

You have witnessed this in real life. Shopping centres are full of cheap, clothes and toys. I walk into somewhere like H&M Kids and all I can see is landfill.

Halloween is next. People have gone mad decorating their house. And Tesco etc will sell out of witches costumes even though there s probably plenty to go around already.

Small numbers of people do freecycling etc most don’t think about the environmental impact or don’t care.

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Grepes · 13/10/2024 09:52

Just get off TikTok. I haven’t witnessed this behaviour in real life.

the7Vabo · 13/10/2024 09:22

LottieMary · 13/10/2024 08:54

This is true but equally the weird scalping that seems to go on with almost everything is really grubby and horrible; that is definitely taking advantage.
the Aldi toys are decent quality (we have a couple new from previous years and a kitchen from Facebook going into its fourth year with us and still great). They’re also cheap which for many families is important.

the ‘hail’ culture is really awful too and I’m sure many of them will be unlabelled brand ambassadors.

Lots of stuff is cheap though, we are drowning in cheap stuff. A quick google search throws up many affordable options.

I feel the biggest threat to sustainability is that people just aren’t prepared to give up certain things. They will tell themselves oh but it’s Christmas/holiday/birthday/a treat etc so I/my kids need X or Y. And we have more and more occasions now eg baby showers and throw more tat at things like Halloween.

There s loads of stats about how there is way more baby & kids stuff in the world than kids.

Tiktok awash with emotional posts about how the babies of poorer parents are now missing out on Christmas is utterly ridiculous and shows how utterly consumerist we have become.

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LottieMary · 13/10/2024 08:54

This is true but equally the weird scalping that seems to go on with almost everything is really grubby and horrible; that is definitely taking advantage.
the Aldi toys are decent quality (we have a couple new from previous years and a kitchen from Facebook going into its fourth year with us and still great). They’re also cheap which for many families is important.

the ‘hail’ culture is really awful too and I’m sure many of them will be unlabelled brand ambassadors.

IceStationZebra · 13/10/2024 08:29

I like the Aldi and Lidl wooden stuff, we’ve had quite a few bits over the years and it has longevity, it’s all still around and DS plays with almost all of it. Not aware of any hysteria though, just give social media a rest and you won’t see it! I hate waste, luckily there are a couple of specialist baby & children’s second-hand shops in my city so I get plenty of used stuff and donate plenty too.

Tadpolecat · 13/10/2024 08:25

YANBU.

Went to ours yesterday to see if I could understand the hype but as usual, hardly any toys there! I don't think they've been snapped up, ours just doesn't seem to stock everything. From what I've seen on TT though, nothing I've seen would I buy. It is age appropriate for my 2 year old, but none of it appeals to me. I kinda feel bad for the kids that are getting the whole lot. It's all more of the same!

the7Vabo · 13/10/2024 08:01

Florians · 13/10/2024 07:53

Overconsumption of any material is bad. Aldi wooden toys are poor quality, we've had a few over the years and none were in much of a fit state to pass on to someone else (and generally toys are well looked after here). Something plastic or a well made wooden toy would probably be able to be enjoyed again and again rather than sent to landfill. Invariably the best option if possible is to buy second hand, followed by buying some okay quality and questioning whether you really need it, I suspect no child needs one of every item. It's also not sustainable when they create hype knowing there aren't enough products; fear of missing out and scarcity are all well known tactics for getting people to impulse buy aka spend more without applying a tonne of thought. I bet once the yay I got it dies down there'll be some regrets.

100%

I saw a mum saying I actually wasn’t going to get a kitchen but I went in and everyone else had one in their trolley so I got one.

I got freecycle Melissa & Doug wooden food, and they’ve held up fine and will be freecycled again once we are done. Our freecycle IKEA kitchen is also going strong and will be passed on.

I struggle to believe many people mass buying in Aldi have thought about the products ending up in landfill.

This is why the world is fecked because no one cares.

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Florians · 13/10/2024 07:53

TheHeadOfTheHouse · 12/10/2024 19:29

I thought it was plastic toys that are bad for the environment

Overconsumption of any material is bad. Aldi wooden toys are poor quality, we've had a few over the years and none were in much of a fit state to pass on to someone else (and generally toys are well looked after here). Something plastic or a well made wooden toy would probably be able to be enjoyed again and again rather than sent to landfill. Invariably the best option if possible is to buy second hand, followed by buying some okay quality and questioning whether you really need it, I suspect no child needs one of every item. It's also not sustainable when they create hype knowing there aren't enough products; fear of missing out and scarcity are all well known tactics for getting people to impulse buy aka spend more without applying a tonne of thought. I bet once the yay I got it dies down there'll be some regrets.

the7Vabo · 13/10/2024 07:50

People are also making TikTok's with same price alternatives, and there’s loads of options.

There just isn’t the need for the Aldi hysteria.
Its not 1) Aldi or 2) my 1 year old doesn’t get a first Christmas present as many on TikTok are claiming.

No small child actually needs any of this stuff and they certainly don’t need all of it.

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TickingAlongNicely · 13/10/2024 06:05

GraySweatpants · 12/10/2024 22:33

Trust me I was not following all the hype at all.

It’s just Aldi is where we do our weekly food shop and money is tight. The cheapest toy kitchen I could find was on Asda for £60. All the second handed ones around us are asking for £30-£80, and it’s the faff of having to pick it up, squeeze it in the car and put it back together again. You just can’t beat the Aldi kitchen for £35 brand new.

Symths toys?
https://www.smythstoys.com/uk/en-gb/toys/wooden-toys-and-puzzles/wooden-kitchens/kitchen-corner-wooden-play-kitchen/p/219079

Pardon Our Interruption

https://www.smythstoys.com/uk/en-gb/toys/wooden-toys-and-puzzles/wooden-kitchens/kitchen-corner-wooden-play-kitchen/p/219079

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 13/10/2024 05:59

I stand corrected! 😱 41 people have favourited it?!

Aldi wooden toys
BeingATwatItsABingThing · 13/10/2024 05:53

GraySweatpants · 12/10/2024 21:29

Our DD is really interested in kitchen stuff at the moment and I have been looking at toy kitchen for weeks! The Aldi one is definitely the cheapest by far so I was really looking forward to getting one this week.

Naively I thought they’d still be there on Friday so I thought cool will pop in after work. Just empty shells! Tried another Aldi today and it’s even emptier. Screw those resellers!

Not sure how true this is but my mum was saying each Aldi only got two toy kitchens to sell.

Happy to be corrected but are people reselling the kitchens on Vinted? Seems like a nightmare to post!

GraySweatpants · 12/10/2024 22:33

the7Vabo · 12/10/2024 21:44

I’m assuming your daughter is fairly young if she wants a kitchen. Lots of options. My kids got an IKEA kitchen from a freecycle page which came with some wooden food & they were happy out.

Ive done the hype stuff too, I bought an Aldi mud kitchen because I thought my toddler just had to have one and it rotted in the back garden.

Sorry I probably sound patronising, that’s not my intention, I’m very concerned about the state of our planet and I just find all this mass buying & freak outs feels like a dystopian nightmare.

Trust me I was not following all the hype at all.

It’s just Aldi is where we do our weekly food shop and money is tight. The cheapest toy kitchen I could find was on Asda for £60. All the second handed ones around us are asking for £30-£80, and it’s the faff of having to pick it up, squeeze it in the car and put it back together again. You just can’t beat the Aldi kitchen for £35 brand new.

Avanet · 12/10/2024 22:13

I just had a look. Don't get it. Who are these things supposed to appeal to? A child's desire to play or their parent's desire to virtue signal about climate issues etc or to be seen as trendy?
And what's with all the wooden "food". Some of it looks tiny and screams choking hazard to me. Are these things bigger than they look. I swear I heard the sole of my foot saying ouch just looking at these little lumps of wood.

I truly don't get it. Oh dear. I think I must be very out of touch. I'll get me coat.

the7Vabo · 12/10/2024 21:44

GraySweatpants · 12/10/2024 21:29

Our DD is really interested in kitchen stuff at the moment and I have been looking at toy kitchen for weeks! The Aldi one is definitely the cheapest by far so I was really looking forward to getting one this week.

Naively I thought they’d still be there on Friday so I thought cool will pop in after work. Just empty shells! Tried another Aldi today and it’s even emptier. Screw those resellers!

I’m assuming your daughter is fairly young if she wants a kitchen. Lots of options. My kids got an IKEA kitchen from a freecycle page which came with some wooden food & they were happy out.

Ive done the hype stuff too, I bought an Aldi mud kitchen because I thought my toddler just had to have one and it rotted in the back garden.

Sorry I probably sound patronising, that’s not my intention, I’m very concerned about the state of our planet and I just find all this mass buying & freak outs feels like a dystopian nightmare.

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Martymcfly24 · 12/10/2024 21:33

Lemonadeand · 12/10/2024 20:46

Are people really spending £20 on vinted for stuff that was £8 in Aldi? Madness!

I would have liked the £8 wooden birthday cake for my son, but it had sold out. Would rather buy him a £15-20 one from scandiborn or Great Little Trading Company than pay £20 for an Aldi knock off one on Vinted!

I just can’t imagine who is paying that kind of mark up, plus postage.

Exactly..I thought the only point of the Aldi stuff was it was cheap. It's literally pointless to pay over the odds. Just buy the originals.

GraySweatpants · 12/10/2024 21:29

Our DD is really interested in kitchen stuff at the moment and I have been looking at toy kitchen for weeks! The Aldi one is definitely the cheapest by far so I was really looking forward to getting one this week.

Naively I thought they’d still be there on Friday so I thought cool will pop in after work. Just empty shells! Tried another Aldi today and it’s even emptier. Screw those resellers!

LadyKenya · 12/10/2024 21:26

CuteOrangeElephant · 12/10/2024 20:32

I've noticed the same with Bluey toys from build a bear. It's insane behaviour for some polyester and it seems to be the mums driving it, not the kids.

Always has been, and always will be. There were displays of disgraceful behaviour over the cabbage patch dolls at the time.

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