It makes me sad reading these that other people's husbands are not like this.
Here are a few things I recall. That I’m always being told I exaggerate, he says it’s not a big deal is it? Says am
I still mentioning things what have upset me, then he says to other people, she thinks we’re the only people that bicker and argue.
Everyone thinks he’s lovely, very few know what he’s like at home.
So we had the car situation with my DD.
The heater situation where I was cold.
Get told about wrecking the sofa when sitting on it.
Get moaned at for driving places when I apparently don’t need to go there. Or I could go somewhere closer to home.
Told me one year how much money I was allowed to spend on presents, when I challenged him on it, he said well you’re not deciding.
Took the car off me once and said get your own car.
Stepchild came up who’s now a young adult. He started shouting at him for something so my DD got into a row with him sticking up for him saying this is why he doesn’t come round because you shout.
I do all the cooking and food shopping.
He had cleaned downstairs and because I then went into the kitchen to make a home made cheese pie he moaned because he had cleaned! I said I’m a big girl I will clean up after myself.
When my Nan was dying. I asked him to come to the hospital to support me. He wouldn’t and started shouting at me saying he carried his grandads coffin. My memories of just before my Nan died is him shouting at me.
My grandad who is elderly and on his own, his dog had died at home. My mum rang me and said what happened so I offered to go straight round to help. We were about to have lunch, so he said oh well I’m eating now and not waiting because I’m starving.
Went out for a meal with friends. I went a different way home as I was driving, not that much different probably about 5 minutes extra, because of the slightly longer distance he went on and on and on about he couldn’t believe I had gone that way all the way home in front of our friends. Even my male friend said gosh you’re not still going on about that.
Looked at the miles once on the dashboard and said god we’re have you been in the car. Obviously checking the mileage.
I could go on. But this is normal, and couples argue, and I take things to heart and I exaggerate and make things into a bigger deal than they are.