It's comments like that, that push these people to get more surgeries.
She may have done some questionable things, but all you grown arse women bullying her, shaming her and mocking her appearance are much more vile than someone with severe body dysmorphia trying their best to care for a disabled child.
This woman has been raped, sexually assaulted, harassed, bullied, cheated on, as well as much more. These are traumatic life events. Has she made the best choices? No. Have you walked in her shoes? No. She may be a lot of things but she's always been a fantastic mum to Harvey, mostly as a single parent.
Perhaps if you bullies back off and leave her be, she won't feel the need to get these surgeries to change herself.
The women who shame and mock people for having surgeries who say 'I could never get my fave touched' yes, we can tell. You probably need it most with all your snarling and years of judgemental frowning at people who have fuck all affect on you.