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To think my flexible working request will not unreasonable?

237 replies

NameChangedOct · 10/10/2024 08:21

Hello! I returned from maternity leave 3 months ago. I’m full time, but had accrued a LOT of annual leave so have been using this to take every Friday off for the rest of the year, essentially working a 4 day week. From January I was hoping to request a permanent change, 4 days for 80% pay.

However, my manager is saying it’s really difficult for the team/business under my current working arrangement and may not be sustainable permanently. I do appreciate that the work I do comes in (with little notice) as tasks/mini-projects that take 2-3 days and are quite time sensitive. So usually I will start something on a Thursday and unable to finish it, I have to hand it over to a colleague (which I think is fine, only slightly less efficient, or if the colleague can’t get to it then it waits until Monday which delays the output beyond our usual times, but it’s hardly life or death). Everyone else on my team works full time, even those with young kids.

I’ve not put a formal request in but AIBU thinking the above is not a good enough reason for them to refuse this as a legal right as a parent.

i really love my job, colleagues and flexibility (I can WFH), but I also need a day off to spend with my little one.

OP posts:
Nicebloomers · 10/10/2024 08:32

requesting a different day off (Mondays?) might be more favourable to them.

NameChangedOct · 10/10/2024 08:31

Hmmmm okay, thanks for the replies. I was under the impression that the business reason had to be really strong. A one day delay on the tasks I pick up isn’t the end of the world. It wouldn’t be the same client each time and most are understanding. Delays happen for other reasons too - sickness, too much work at once, it’s not a new thing…

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KatRee · 10/10/2024 08:30

Sorry, but I think they can refuse on the reasons they've given. Would you be able to work compressed hours instead, full-time across 4 days?

Catza · 10/10/2024 08:30

It is your legal right to request flexi working. It's not your legal right to be granted it. They can reasonably deny it based on their assessment as it will impact their business operations (which they can clearly demonstrate if deadlines are being missed due to this).

Frowningprovidence · 10/10/2024 08:29

They seem exactly the criteria that can be refused for. Sorry.

But would a Wednesday off work better for the business?

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 10/10/2024 08:29

All staff have the right to request flexible working, not only parents. However, employers can refuse if they have good business reasons for doing so. What you have described in your post sounds like a perfectly legitimate business reason for them to say no - they have effectively tried it, and it has had a negative impact on clients and colleagues.

CatchHimDerry · 10/10/2024 08:28

I’m a working parent and have a “flexible” working rota (it really isn’t, that’s another story) so I know how tough it is

I was denied 4 days just because they don’t want part- timers, it in no way affects our business.

But from your description I’d fully expect it to be refused, sorry.

HaudYerWheeshtYaWeeBellend · 10/10/2024 08:27

The reason they have given are justifiable, it does not meet the business needs, you don’t have a legal right to flexible working.

LIZS · 10/10/2024 08:24

If it is putting work onto others, affecting their output too, and delaying the outcome for clients that is a business reason to refuse.

DustyLee123 · 10/10/2024 08:24

Can you look for another job instead?

Grepes · 10/10/2024 08:23

Those reasons seem to fit the criteria of why a request would be denied.

MILLYmo0se · 10/10/2024 08:23

I'd imagine that it is a justifiable reason to deny tbh