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Is bf losing interest?

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Fuzzybear88 · 09/10/2024 18:35

Together 2 years. When we met he was just crazy about me. Used to say things about how attracted to me he was, how I was incredible, etc etc.

he’s still lovely now but I feel he’s more cutesy and just repeats things I say. So more just like “awww me too” “i adore you too” “I am very excited about X” but in a cutesy tone rather than it sounding genuine?

He used to call me on the way home from work each day because he was so excited to talk to me.

Today, I called to ask what time he will be home and he said he was just finishing up at work and will call me in 5.
Half an hour later I text him with a “?” He calls me back and says “I’m so sorry, I was trying to decide whether to get fuel, and I was distracted by that, and I just forgot”

He’s never forgot before. I thought if he really wanted to talk to me, it’d be on his mind.

Could he be losing interest?

OP posts:
Fuzzybear88 · 09/10/2024 18:45

He was literally driving in silence when he normally calls me (and is normally excited about it!)

OP posts:
BabyR · 09/10/2024 18:44

Maybe he’s just busy at work. You can’t expect someone to fawn all over you 24/7.