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To think people say all the right things in interviews?

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YourDearHazelHare · 09/10/2024 11:14

I’ve noticed that during interviews, people seem to say exactly what they think the employer wants to hear. Everyone presents themselves as perfect for the job, but then in reality, it doesn’t always match up. AIBU to think that most people are just rehearsing the right things to get the role, rather than being honest about their true abilities or work ethic? Have you experienced this, either as an interviewer or interviewee?

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Chowtime · 09/10/2024 11:18

I blame shitty recruitment practices. Years ago , recruitment used to be a specialist issue dealt with by a particular department with trained staff. Now any old body can conduct an interview.

It really and truly is down to the interviewer to establish a robust method of interviewing people to be able to cut to the chase.

And yes,, as a PP said, the company needs to be honest too.

Magnastorm · 09/10/2024 11:15

Well, obviously.

If people were always honest in interviews they aren't getting jobs.

It goes both ways. If companies were honest about their shit jobs, then they don't get applicants.

PennyCrayon1 · 09/10/2024 11:15

well of course they do. How else would they get the job?

”actually I’m a bit flakey and will call in sick at the drop of a hat but at least I’ve been honest…” - hired!