I know, not very feminist to admit to it but hear me out before you vote YABU (then by all means … 
)
DH has worked in his company for nearly twenty years, and he has a lot of benefits but it isn’t close by. The office is a good hour and a half away on a good run. Then he sometimes has to work away. This week he is in Northern Ireland (we’re in England.) Changing jobs isn’t simple or easy because he does have some flexibility which allows him to WFH two days a week when he’s not away and plus he isn’t trained for anything else and there’s absolutely no way he could get the equivalent salary elsewhere.
So as a result pretty much all the childcare and house stuff falls on me. I can’t honestly say I mind exactly but I find balancing it with my own work almost impossible. I’m a teacher and I work three days a week but I can feel all the other stuff I have to do on top of actually teaching piling up and it is so stressful.
I don’t think there’s an answer here as we do need my salary and I recognise the usual arguments re pensions and if DH left. It’s just so stressful at the moment and next year will only be worse in some ways!