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AIBU to be fucked off at road marathons?

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JesusOnAYamaha · 07/10/2024 22:22

Once a year in London is one thing but they're bloody everywhere now and it's not like the organisers put diversions in so you can get to where you're going. We had one in our town a couple of months ago and I couldn't leave my (no through) street because they blocked it off so people could spend a day running past it. I mean I couldn't even cross the road at the end of my street, on foot. Now I've just found out that I can't get to where I need to be for a family event later this month because another load of joggers are closing down a bunch of roads into/in this other place.

AIBU to think they could just run round a park? Or a field? Or a racecourse? Or a hill? Or somewhere where they're not in the way of residents and other people who just want to go about their business.

I know I probably am BU. It's probably nice that people get to run around if they like running. They probably enjoy spending a day running past my street and I should be happy for them. But, I am a bit fucked off with it all.

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NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 30/10/2024 15:33

it happens way more than twice a year ;)

BuzzieLittleBee · 30/10/2024 11:49

1 - if it's twice a year (Marathon and half) then it's 1/26 of your weekends, not 1/20

2 - see my earlier post - Manchester Marathon have moved the finish for next year's event, so it doesn't come back into Old Trafford, which will mean the roads will open much earlier. So that will make quite a difference.

JesusOnAYamaha · 29/10/2024 19:19

Well you might think it and I'm sure you have a nice time to yourself thinking it but everyone on here who lives within a marathon "loop" is telling you differently lol.

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sharpclawedkitten · 29/10/2024 17:43

NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 29/10/2024 10:32

Right Well you don’t live through it and you don’t know. Roadworks and traffic are minor inconveniences which affect your life on a constant and small manner. Not being able to get away from your home for one twentieth of your weekends when you have disabled family members and you work full time is quite another.

Once again, it’s not a few hours. Surrounding roads shut for twelve hours at least. The road to the rest of the world shuts at 3am and opens again after 3pm (pretty much when everything is shut).

But I will tell my disabled relatives who cannot leave home to think of the greater good.. the charities with their boards on six figure salaries.. Whitbread corporation and its shareholders etc

I still think constant roadworks are far more of a problem than very occasional road races.

sharpclawedkitten · 29/10/2024 17:42

Frankly, as someone who used to live on that route as well, I was always far more inconvenienced by the football every other week.

I worked with someone who lived near Highbury when Arsenal played there and she used to have their home games marked in her work calendar. Presumably so she could be somewhere else!

FeelinTwentySixPointTwo · 29/10/2024 17:08

Not being able to get away from your home for one twentieth of your weekends when you have disabled family members and you work full time is quite another

You really are over-egging it though. It's twice a year that Manchester holds major road races. And only one of those (the main marathon in April) is the full 12hr closure you refer to - during the half in October everything is reopened by 4pm.

So essentially you're seething because, on one Sunday in April, around 40,000 runners raise a huge amount for charity and also bring in thousands for the city's economy.

Frankly, as someone who used to live on that route as well, I was always far more inconvenienced by the football every other week. And the cricket.

Allfur · 29/10/2024 12:14

widelegenes · 29/10/2024 10:40

What do you think the answer is?
To stop holding the events?

Absolutely, nothing must stop the free movement of the 34 million cars that clog up uk roads

widelegenes · 29/10/2024 10:40

NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 29/10/2024 10:32

Right Well you don’t live through it and you don’t know. Roadworks and traffic are minor inconveniences which affect your life on a constant and small manner. Not being able to get away from your home for one twentieth of your weekends when you have disabled family members and you work full time is quite another.

Once again, it’s not a few hours. Surrounding roads shut for twelve hours at least. The road to the rest of the world shuts at 3am and opens again after 3pm (pretty much when everything is shut).

But I will tell my disabled relatives who cannot leave home to think of the greater good.. the charities with their boards on six figure salaries.. Whitbread corporation and its shareholders etc

What do you think the answer is?
To stop holding the events?

NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 29/10/2024 10:32

sharpclawedkitten · 29/10/2024 09:37

No need to be so condescending to the other poster. It's not a good look.

The point is that roadworks and traffic cause problems every day, yet people whinge about a couple of hours a year.

A sense of proportion goes a long way.

Right Well you don’t live through it and you don’t know. Roadworks and traffic are minor inconveniences which affect your life on a constant and small manner. Not being able to get away from your home for one twentieth of your weekends when you have disabled family members and you work full time is quite another.

Once again, it’s not a few hours. Surrounding roads shut for twelve hours at least. The road to the rest of the world shuts at 3am and opens again after 3pm (pretty much when everything is shut).

But I will tell my disabled relatives who cannot leave home to think of the greater good.. the charities with their boards on six figure salaries.. Whitbread corporation and its shareholders etc

RunningJo · 29/10/2024 10:10

RunningForMySanity · 07/10/2024 23:04

Read my name and guess where I stand on it 😂

It’s usually no more than a once a year thing in most places (sorry if you live in one of the bigger cities that does have more than one, I guess that is just one of things about living in a big city - there are big events and some of them close roads!) but these events are such a positive thing for so many for so many reasons, with the bigger ones usually raising lots of money for charity too as well as bringing money to local hospitality businesses. It isn’t great if they didn’t communicate to you but in my experience there are usually signs up with pointers to traffic info well in advance and it’ll have been in the local news… that’s my sensible bit of the YABU.

My more selfish bit is that whilst I enjoy off road running for fun, I love racing on the roads to go fast - most parks just aren’t big enough for a marathon without it being a tonne of laps which is just boring (and then the park users moan too - see parkrun threads 👀)

Same with the name thing😂

Allfur · 29/10/2024 10:06

NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 27/10/2024 23:34

Yes but that’s not what we were talking about. That’s an entirely unrelated point. Sorry if this is hard for you to follow.

I was talking about the bigger picture, its all related.

sharpclawedkitten · 29/10/2024 09:37

NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 27/10/2024 23:34

Yes but that’s not what we were talking about. That’s an entirely unrelated point. Sorry if this is hard for you to follow.

No need to be so condescending to the other poster. It's not a good look.

The point is that roadworks and traffic cause problems every day, yet people whinge about a couple of hours a year.

A sense of proportion goes a long way.

widelegenes · 28/10/2024 09:25

notprincehamlet · 27/10/2024 17:29

I have raised a lot of money for The Brain Tumour Charity.
Thank you. My brother died of a brain tumor (glioma). He was 9. There's nothing 'ostentatious' (I mean wow, just wow) about raising funds to help brain tumour patients and their families. It remains the biggest cancer killer of people under 40 and research is desperately underfunded.

💗I'm so sorry to read about your brother.

NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 27/10/2024 23:34

Allfur · 27/10/2024 21:20

The main culprit for holding up ambulances 365 days of the year, is other traffic. Its not the occasional road race that is the problem on our roads

Yes but that’s not what we were talking about. That’s an entirely unrelated point. Sorry if this is hard for you to follow.

Allfur · 27/10/2024 21:20

NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 27/10/2024 16:18

That’s bull. The carers around here are walking to people and parking a considerable distance away. If an ambulance has to take someone to hospital, it doesn’t gain wings and fly. It has to travel down the thin congested roads and get stuck behind all the other traffic. The infrastructure surrounding these closed roads is impacted.

The main culprit for holding up ambulances 365 days of the year, is other traffic. Its not the occasional road race that is the problem on our roads

NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 27/10/2024 20:59

notprincehamlet · 27/10/2024 17:29

I have raised a lot of money for The Brain Tumour Charity.
Thank you. My brother died of a brain tumor (glioma). He was 9. There's nothing 'ostentatious' (I mean wow, just wow) about raising funds to help brain tumour patients and their families. It remains the biggest cancer killer of people under 40 and research is desperately underfunded.

I’m very sorry to hear this. It must have been devastating.

notprincehamlet · 27/10/2024 17:34

if an ambulance or carer needs to get through the marshals will let them
I've marshalled loads and that's always been my experience too

notprincehamlet · 27/10/2024 17:29

I have raised a lot of money for The Brain Tumour Charity.
Thank you. My brother died of a brain tumor (glioma). He was 9. There's nothing 'ostentatious' (I mean wow, just wow) about raising funds to help brain tumour patients and their families. It remains the biggest cancer killer of people under 40 and research is desperately underfunded.

NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 27/10/2024 16:18

sharpclawedkitten · 27/10/2024 15:02

You're really not. Despite the moaning above, if an ambulance or carer needs to get through the marshals will let them.

Marshals receive a briefing before the event. Many of them do the job year after year. It is an insult to their intelligence to say that they don't use common sense and let people through when they need to get through.

That’s bull. The carers around here are walking to people and parking a considerable distance away. If an ambulance has to take someone to hospital, it doesn’t gain wings and fly. It has to travel down the thin congested roads and get stuck behind all the other traffic. The infrastructure surrounding these closed roads is impacted.

sharpclawedkitten · 27/10/2024 15:02

widelegenes · 27/10/2024 12:23

I'm wondering, how do people who may benefit from the money raised feel about being blocked in?
In an ideal world we would not need to rely on charities to support people.

I have raised a lot of money for The Brain Tumour Charity. Now I'm thinking that I'm possibly stopping the very person I'm trying to do my little bit for by..I don't know...stopping their carers being able to get to them, or them not being able to get out and do something they enjoy.

You're really not. Despite the moaning above, if an ambulance or carer needs to get through the marshals will let them.

Marshals receive a briefing before the event. Many of them do the job year after year. It is an insult to their intelligence to say that they don't use common sense and let people through when they need to get through.

widelegenes · 27/10/2024 14:16

MrsBobtonTrent · 27/10/2024 13:54

@widelegenes Does your fundraising need to be so performative? Laudable to raise much for a worthy cause, but isn't it rather ostentatious. That old saying (from the bible maybe?) that the left hand shouldn't know what the right hand is doing. Charity is such a big business these days.

Give to charity. Enjoy your running and challenging youself. No need to mix the two imo.

Fair question. I do give to charity independently of any fundraising I do. It's private and personal to me (but I can say it here cos it's anonymous).
When I ran my first (and ever!) marathon I raised nearly £2000 ie. more than I would give myself. I think the London Marathon is the biggest source of income for many charities.

MrsBobtonTrent · 27/10/2024 13:54

@widelegenes Does your fundraising need to be so performative? Laudable to raise much for a worthy cause, but isn't it rather ostentatious. That old saying (from the bible maybe?) that the left hand shouldn't know what the right hand is doing. Charity is such a big business these days.

Give to charity. Enjoy your running and challenging youself. No need to mix the two imo.

widelegenes · 27/10/2024 12:23

I'm wondering, how do people who may benefit from the money raised feel about being blocked in?
In an ideal world we would not need to rely on charities to support people.

I have raised a lot of money for The Brain Tumour Charity. Now I'm thinking that I'm possibly stopping the very person I'm trying to do my little bit for by..I don't know...stopping their carers being able to get to them, or them not being able to get out and do something they enjoy.

sharpclawedkitten · 24/10/2024 10:31

NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 21/10/2024 18:34

Wtf? If people object to being hemmed in then they must be responsible for antisocial and behaviour? They are clearly impeding the emergency services? Do you not realise how ridiculous you sound?

Not sure how I sound ridiculous - and I didn't say anything about anti-social behaviour (although parking on pavements and in cycle lanes IS anti-social behaviour in my view). People (drivers) moan about pedestrians using the roads for a few hours a year. Well how very dare they.

Even though they routinely block the way to other road users on a regular basis.

It is ridiculous to moan about runners when you routinely park on pavements, for example.

Plan ahead. Easy.

If you're not a motorist the chances are you inconvenience others in other ways. Everyone does. Some try not to do it on purpose, others don't care. And even if you don't drive yourself, you are probably driven at times.

VeloHostage · 24/10/2024 10:23

notprincehamlet · 10/10/2024 21:20

The motorists expressing such deep concern here for the emergency services and for the plight of the old and the vulnerable must be totally different motorists to the ones that routinely block the access of fire engines and ambulances and obstruct roads, pavements, dropped kerbs, cycle lanes etc with their dangerous driving and selfish parking.

Not everyone on this thread is a motorist, thank you.