DH regularly asks me to wake him at a certain time e.g 9am/9:30 latest (earlier in the week) but doesn’t get up when I wake him and just goes back to sleep. If I then go back and wake him again saying ‘it’s 10am, you said you wanted to get up 9:30 latest’ he gets annoyed and says I am pressurising him. Full disclosure we do have a general issue where I would rather get up earlier and get started when we do things together and he prefers to sleep in which causes arguments - but on a day when we don’t have plans until later (or he is just getting up for work) if he asks me to wake him shouldn’t he get up when I do or at least not complain? I am considering just telling him I won’t do it any more, not in a sulky way but as a boundary. We don’t have kids though and hope to at some stage, at which point I might regret saying I’m never going to wake him up if I have to live with the consequences. There are MH related reasons why he sleeps late so although imo not a healthy coping mechanism I don’t want to be too harsh. Thank you