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Baby P witch hunt

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the7Vabo · 05/10/2024 22:44

I watched a full documentary on Tik Tok about Baby P today.

The thing I’m most struck by is that social worker/s were fired, a doctor is in permanent psychiatric care, social workers received death threats and in the middle of it all the mother receives a minimum 5 year jail sentence and has been in & out of jail since 2013.

There were clear failing but a lot of it was against the background of an overwhelmed system. In particular the clinic where the doctor worked had been flagged as dangerous to senior management by two doctors who resigned and another doctor was on stress leave. There was no access to notes at this clinic. The doctor who last saw Baby P had no access to notes, wasn’t familiar with procedures around child protection in the UK, was working without the assistance of a nurse who might have helped her. She saw Baby P for a specific reason to rule out underlying conditions that might explain his injuries. She was blamed for missing that he had a broken back but it’s not clear when his back was broken.
Her face was plastered all over the papers and she went to train stations multiple times with thoughts of ending her life, asked for her name to be removed from the register and is now in psychiatric care.

The social worker directly involved might have been able to do more but she did a lot including removing Peter, taking him to hospital, contacting the police and immediately contacting the mother when she heard she had a boyfriend.

The head of the area had serious death threats and was fired.

I know people say the different agencies between them had contact 60 times and they shouldn’t have missed it. But that also means there was a lot of effort being made to protect him.

There were reports written immediately afterwards blaming various social workers, the police and medical staff involved with the exception of that doctor seemed to get off more lightly.

The thing that floors me is the mother got min 5 years and was first released in 2013!!! It’s bloody extraordinary. I saw a clip of her speaking to social workers, she was v convincing!

I just can’t get over how a doctor can have a nervous breakdown but the mother is meanwhile out & about!!!! She back in now for breach of conditions I think. I keep thinking about that doctor.

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Firefly1987 · 08/10/2024 05:12

Frankensteinian · 05/10/2024 22:55

echoes of Lucy letby and Kate and Gerry McCann. Obvs totally different stories but the blame fell on them. People look for a nice juicy villain, they don’t want the obvious villain, they want the macabre story

Lucy Letby is 100% guilty and even if she wasn't I'm not sure who you believe the "villain/s" to be? Not everything is a conspiracy but for some reason people are in huge denial about her. As for Kate and Gerry McCann, the people responsible are almost always the parents so obviously suspicion fell on them. I still don't know what I believe with that case but they are very strange people.

the7Vabo · 08/10/2024 03:54

TizerorFizz · 07/10/2024 23:28

@croydon15 They are not all light sentences by any means. The sentencing guidelines must take various factors into account. In this case the sentence was indefinite - minimum 5 years. So the mum had to keep asking the parole board. Her release, twice, was because she met the conditions set by the parole board. This is not a retrial of the first offence. She didn’t reoffend as far as I’m aware. She didn’t meet her licence conditions so was recalled to prison.

Now I believe there are 4 categories of culpability in a crime like this and then 3 ranges of sentences. It seems she was not sent to prison for murder but that’s surely a CPS decision. Keir Starmer was head of CPS. The only logical reason they didn’t go for murder was lack of evidence. Others might know more from the legal side.

With respect I think you are getting caught up in the legal technicalities.

The sentence imposed on the mother is one of the biggest failures in this case. If she couldn’t be tried for murder and I understand why technically, I’m sure there are more than enough crimes on the statute book to ensure she spent a long time in jail, so yes CPS failed.

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TizerorFizz · 08/10/2024 00:22

Stepfather.

TizerorFizz · 08/10/2024 00:22

Have you looked at the sentencing guidelines? Plus P didn’t live with his father. The boyfriend was convicted - see attached.

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Acornsoup · 08/10/2024 00:15

Baby Ps parents deliberately murdered him. They lied repeatedly about their intentions. There is nobody that could have stopped them IMO. I feel very badly for people with that kind of responsibility pushed on them. No social worker ever wants to work on a case like that. GP's are trying to heal people. 5 years is an absolute joke, the justice system in this country is far to lenient when dealing with family crimes.

TizerorFizz · 07/10/2024 23:28

@croydon15 They are not all light sentences by any means. The sentencing guidelines must take various factors into account. In this case the sentence was indefinite - minimum 5 years. So the mum had to keep asking the parole board. Her release, twice, was because she met the conditions set by the parole board. This is not a retrial of the first offence. She didn’t reoffend as far as I’m aware. She didn’t meet her licence conditions so was recalled to prison.

Now I believe there are 4 categories of culpability in a crime like this and then 3 ranges of sentences. It seems she was not sent to prison for murder but that’s surely a CPS decision. Keir Starmer was head of CPS. The only logical reason they didn’t go for murder was lack of evidence. Others might know more from the legal side.

riceuten · 07/10/2024 23:17

As I recall, one of the social workers involved tried to raise concerns with her manager, who was an evangelical Christian and only wanted to talk about God. The former was hung out to dry by her employers. I read the book about the case by the then Haringey Head of Children’s Services (Sharon Shoesmith) who was completely thrown to the wolves by the government keen to find a scapegoat.

I do wonder who are the kind of people who write death threats for people they don’t know. Probably the same kind of people who write begging letters to lottery winners.

croydon15 · 07/10/2024 22:28

What l don't understand is the light sentences in the majority of children death by parents, do the judges think that torturing a child to death justify just a few years in jail, in the case of Emma Tustin she is being protected in jail. Is that right definitely not in my eyes.
Life should mean life for anyone torturing/killing a child.

BurnoutGP · 07/10/2024 21:50

Faldodiddledee · 07/10/2024 20:33

Why were no notes available at the clinic?

I can answer this- hospital wards and GPs surgeries do not have an integrated system of information. I have been treated in a hospital where they didn't even have access to each other's notes in different departments, let alone different hospitals (top London hospital). I also attend two hospitals only an hour away from each other, but each one has their own IT system and when I turned up at the second one, they had no notes from the first.

GPs use about four or five different off the shelf system, they are not integrated with each other or the local hospital.

The local hospital releases results on one system (NHS app), the GP on another system.

They still send letters to each other, by post, to communicate.

Add then into notes from safeguarding, social services, and the whole thing is a mess of non-information,

Any doctor is often dependent on the person in front of them telling them their medical history, it's a recipe for disaster, including for safeguarding where people have something to hide.

So frightening.

This is not entirely true and hasn't been for some time. There remain some difficulties but overall the IT systems are better and more joined up

TizerorFizz · 07/10/2024 21:28

@NowImNotDoingIt The serious case review revealed shortcomings of the services or we would not know about them. It was not just a focus on the individuals although the media did.

Obviously a mum is held to a greater standard than a father. She alone should have prevented this? Was she capable of that? As far as I’m aware, the sentence for his mother was not called in as being unduly lenient. This presumably means guidelines were followed. However lenient it might seem. Although there were recall clauses so she was released on licence it appears.

Supersimkin7 · 07/10/2024 21:22

@the7Vabo couldn’t agree more re the doctor. That’s democracy for you.

I’m in awe of social workers - who knows how many lives they save daily. We should know, shouldn’t we. Doesn’t mean they’re all competent and/or supported tho.

Supersimkin7 · 07/10/2024 21:15

Isn’t the ‘mother’ back in prison? As of last month she broke licence and she’ll have trouble getting out now.

A propos of nothing, I don’t think I’ve ever seen pix of an uglier human being. So unusual to look as wrong outside as you are inside.

the7Vabo · 07/10/2024 21:13

Supersimkin7 · 07/10/2024 21:06

Trouble is, these systems only exist to stop this sort of killing.

Most of the time they do - but when they don’t, you can just wave a murder away.

Some people can’t do some jobs. Being fired isn’t a terminal illness. Nothing to stop everyone who was let go doing something else.

I wouldn’t say they only exist to stop killing, their primary purpose is support for those struggling I would have thought.

That’s true but being blamed for the death of a baby and having your picture published constantly in red tops isn’t just being fired.

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Supersimkin7 · 07/10/2024 21:06

Trouble is, these systems only exist to stop this sort of killing.

Most of the time they do - but when they don’t, you can just wave a murder away.

Some people can’t do some jobs. Being fired isn’t a terminal illness. Nothing to stop everyone who was let go doing something else.

NowImNotDoingIt · 07/10/2024 20:58

TizerorFizz · 07/10/2024 20:44

@Pat888 We cannot blame all shortcomings on underfunding. People do have professional responsibility as well. When they see a dc, or indeed don’t, it’s not ok to do nothing. Not ask questions. Not have doubts. I don’t condone hounding anyone but there were individual shortcomings. We don’t accept nhs negligence. and the NHS paid out £2.8 billion in negligence claims last year. Had baby P been an adult, he would have had compensation.

The thing is, by focusing on an individual and their shortcomings, there's no hope in hell to actually fix a broken and fucked up system/procedures.

That doesn't mean individuals are blameless or we should ignore their actions, but there's a much bigger picture here.

the7Vabo · 07/10/2024 20:55

TizerorFizz · 07/10/2024 20:44

@Pat888 We cannot blame all shortcomings on underfunding. People do have professional responsibility as well. When they see a dc, or indeed don’t, it’s not ok to do nothing. Not ask questions. Not have doubts. I don’t condone hounding anyone but there were individual shortcomings. We don’t accept nhs negligence. and the NHS paid out £2.8 billion in negligence claims last year. Had baby P been an adult, he would have had compensation.

I think it’s fair to say there were some shortcomings. But lots of people were trying, so hard in fact that he had 60 contacts with services.

And the mother lied and deceived, and let her awful boyfriend and his brother kick and punch her baby to death. And she left jail not even 5 years later.

You couldn’t pay me enough to be a social worker and have to deal with the shit out there.

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TizerorFizz · 07/10/2024 20:44

@Pat888 We cannot blame all shortcomings on underfunding. People do have professional responsibility as well. When they see a dc, or indeed don’t, it’s not ok to do nothing. Not ask questions. Not have doubts. I don’t condone hounding anyone but there were individual shortcomings. We don’t accept nhs negligence. and the NHS paid out £2.8 billion in negligence claims last year. Had baby P been an adult, he would have had compensation.

the7Vabo · 07/10/2024 20:41

wonderingwhatlifemeans · 07/10/2024 20:34

Having gone through a serious case review as a teacher I would sadly say that the lessons learned from these cases from all agencies seems to be to make sure that the blame is laid elsewhere. It is the worst feeling to think 'what did I miss?' even when you know the child has never disclosed anything about what they were going through and there was nothing you could have reported.

It honestly makes you feel sick when you are being questioned after hearing horrific things that have happened and having to think of every word you are saying because it will be recorded and used against you if possible. There has to be a safer better way of doing this so children are kept safe.

In my experience it is the constant changing of people involved with the child and family including all agencies that leads to things being missed. If you imagine what it is like each time you have to speak to a locum GP and try to go through your medical history to explain what is happening so they can give a knowledgable diagnosis. This is what has to happen each time a new agency person is put onto a child or families case.

This is why I feel so so sorry for the last doctor to deal with Baby P.
Also she wasn’t a good fit for that job, she didn’t have the right experience and it seems to wasn’t trained in child protection procedures.

There were a number of people sanctioned in relation to Baby P including the social worker directly involved and anther doctor.

Having read more about that case I get it to a point, but it’s also hard that this shitty mother managed not only to have her baby son die on her watch, but she messed up so many other people’s lives.

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wonderingwhatlifemeans · 07/10/2024 20:34

Having gone through a serious case review as a teacher I would sadly say that the lessons learned from these cases from all agencies seems to be to make sure that the blame is laid elsewhere. It is the worst feeling to think 'what did I miss?' even when you know the child has never disclosed anything about what they were going through and there was nothing you could have reported.

It honestly makes you feel sick when you are being questioned after hearing horrific things that have happened and having to think of every word you are saying because it will be recorded and used against you if possible. There has to be a safer better way of doing this so children are kept safe.

In my experience it is the constant changing of people involved with the child and family including all agencies that leads to things being missed. If you imagine what it is like each time you have to speak to a locum GP and try to go through your medical history to explain what is happening so they can give a knowledgable diagnosis. This is what has to happen each time a new agency person is put onto a child or families case.

Faldodiddledee · 07/10/2024 20:33

Why were no notes available at the clinic?

I can answer this- hospital wards and GPs surgeries do not have an integrated system of information. I have been treated in a hospital where they didn't even have access to each other's notes in different departments, let alone different hospitals (top London hospital). I also attend two hospitals only an hour away from each other, but each one has their own IT system and when I turned up at the second one, they had no notes from the first.

GPs use about four or five different off the shelf system, they are not integrated with each other or the local hospital.

The local hospital releases results on one system (NHS app), the GP on another system.

They still send letters to each other, by post, to communicate.

Add then into notes from safeguarding, social services, and the whole thing is a mess of non-information,

Any doctor is often dependent on the person in front of them telling them their medical history, it's a recipe for disaster, including for safeguarding where people have something to hide.

So frightening.

the7Vabo · 07/10/2024 20:27

Thepurplecar · 07/10/2024 20:10

But we know there are evil people, there always will be, it's not that they're not being blamed, just that it's an indisputable fact. That's the reason we have social services. It's their job and they failed. Medical services are another line of protection, they failed. We do need to understand why they failed but for this case it won't change the catastrophic outcome of their failure. What I do think is wrong, is that individuals took the blame for institutional failure. We prefer to point at a bogeyman rather than accept that we're not willing to pay more for better services. Baby P paid the price for 'efficiencies' - no-one wants to admit that whole looking at a photo of a cute little boy - so let's blame A doctor, A social worker etc. We need a face and a name otherwise we might have to look at the kind of society we've created.

“Look at the kind of society we’ve created” - with the best effort in the world no social worker can save society from its own ills.

There has always been issues in society and there were lots of issues in previous decades but looking back it seemed people had pride before. People had ten children in a 2 bed house & they all came out looking clean and they valued education and taught their kids well, they wanted their kids to do well.

Now per Baby P’s mother you can have a baby & move a new boyfriend in a mere few months later, and he’s abusive and then you let the brother and his minor girlfriend move in.

And social workers are expected to deal with the fallout from all this dysfunction.

And you have people in government a million miles removed from all of it.

In all of it I don’t know what the answer is, but the fact that Baby P’s mother was let out of jail in 2013 shows the extent to which we have failed as a society.

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NowImNotDoingIt · 07/10/2024 20:26

Agathamarple · 07/10/2024 20:19

In all of these cases the first thing I hear is where were social services. This is usually from extended family members, I understand it must be very hard to realise you are related to a monster but I always think, what about the parents that harmed this child. What about extended family, did they not see the signs themselves, surely they would be better placed to notice changes.
But the blame always seems to land of external agencies. Personally I blame the scum bags that harmed the child they had responsibilities for.

Yes but then what? We blame the parent(s) . We put them on trial. We convict them. Then what? You can't stop people like this from existing or having children. So what do we do in order for the least number of children to suffer and die?

Agathamarple · 07/10/2024 20:19

In all of these cases the first thing I hear is where were social services. This is usually from extended family members, I understand it must be very hard to realise you are related to a monster but I always think, what about the parents that harmed this child. What about extended family, did they not see the signs themselves, surely they would be better placed to notice changes.
But the blame always seems to land of external agencies. Personally I blame the scum bags that harmed the child they had responsibilities for.

Thepurplecar · 07/10/2024 20:10

But we know there are evil people, there always will be, it's not that they're not being blamed, just that it's an indisputable fact. That's the reason we have social services. It's their job and they failed. Medical services are another line of protection, they failed. We do need to understand why they failed but for this case it won't change the catastrophic outcome of their failure. What I do think is wrong, is that individuals took the blame for institutional failure. We prefer to point at a bogeyman rather than accept that we're not willing to pay more for better services. Baby P paid the price for 'efficiencies' - no-one wants to admit that whole looking at a photo of a cute little boy - so let's blame A doctor, A social worker etc. We need a face and a name otherwise we might have to look at the kind of society we've created.

CrazyAndSagittarius · 07/10/2024 20:01

Tbskejue · 05/10/2024 22:49

I know; it’s always the systems at fault rather than blaming the parents. I think it’s because society can’t cope with the idea of parents killing their children so would rather blame professionals, particularly when it’s mothers

The point is it’s never the systems fault. Failing and overworked/underesourced systems caused this, but what always happens is that an individual or individuals are dragged through the mud and blamed, and then nothing changes. Its disgusting.