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Baby P witch hunt

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the7Vabo · 05/10/2024 22:44

I watched a full documentary on Tik Tok about Baby P today.

The thing I’m most struck by is that social worker/s were fired, a doctor is in permanent psychiatric care, social workers received death threats and in the middle of it all the mother receives a minimum 5 year jail sentence and has been in & out of jail since 2013.

There were clear failing but a lot of it was against the background of an overwhelmed system. In particular the clinic where the doctor worked had been flagged as dangerous to senior management by two doctors who resigned and another doctor was on stress leave. There was no access to notes at this clinic. The doctor who last saw Baby P had no access to notes, wasn’t familiar with procedures around child protection in the UK, was working without the assistance of a nurse who might have helped her. She saw Baby P for a specific reason to rule out underlying conditions that might explain his injuries. She was blamed for missing that he had a broken back but it’s not clear when his back was broken.
Her face was plastered all over the papers and she went to train stations multiple times with thoughts of ending her life, asked for her name to be removed from the register and is now in psychiatric care.

The social worker directly involved might have been able to do more but she did a lot including removing Peter, taking him to hospital, contacting the police and immediately contacting the mother when she heard she had a boyfriend.

The head of the area had serious death threats and was fired.

I know people say the different agencies between them had contact 60 times and they shouldn’t have missed it. But that also means there was a lot of effort being made to protect him.

There were reports written immediately afterwards blaming various social workers, the police and medical staff involved with the exception of that doctor seemed to get off more lightly.

The thing that floors me is the mother got min 5 years and was first released in 2013!!! It’s bloody extraordinary. I saw a clip of her speaking to social workers, she was v convincing!

I just can’t get over how a doctor can have a nervous breakdown but the mother is meanwhile out & about!!!! She back in now for breach of conditions I think. I keep thinking about that doctor.

AIBU?!

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SensibleSigma · 06/10/2024 08:37

The system exists to thwart the inadequacy or malevolence of individuals. We can’t do much about individuals, which is why systems have to work.

There will always be predators- but the met exists to thwart them not cover for them. That’s the issue when protecting the system becomes more important than protecting the public.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 06/10/2024 08:29

I don't think anybody is suggesting the people who harmed and killed Baby P weren't to blame. But there will always be people like that with children in their care and the role of social services is to identify which children are at risk and figure out whether they can remain with their parents with additional support in place or whether they need to be removed and put into care.

I don't agree with demonising individuals, but when something like this happens despite multiple interactions between the family and social services/the medical profession, the system has failed to do its job and it's important to try and figure out how and why it was allowed to happen.

Ponoka7 · 06/10/2024 07:55

"I’m not a social worker and I don’t personally know any, but it seems like an almost impossible job to me."

It isn't an impossible job. You might not affect the outcome for the child, but if you've done your job to the best of your ability, then you use reflection and hopefully come to peace with that. If you look at a packed A&E department, it would look impossible for a doctor to get through the workload (especially on a 12/14 hour shift). But the doctor uses their training, the tools at their disposal, their colleagues etc. Are you making excuses over the death of Marina Young, or do you think that simple procedures should have been followed?

Ponoka7 · 06/10/2024 07:45

The case reviews will be available, for Baby P and Victoria Climbie. Baby P, should have been removed at weeks old when bruises were seen on his body. People didn't do their jobs. They didn't follow procedures. The SWs were more interested in having Connelly perform on camera for the department. CP had stopped being about the children. Baby P's siblings were also physically and verbally abused.
basw.co.uk/policy-and-practice/resources/serious-case-review-baby-peter

Do we consider the MET officers as being blamed for the failings of society and working under difficult circumstances? The Firebrigade? Or do we hold them responsible for not doing their jobs?
I'm from Liverpool, so regardless of the failings, I obviously think the Sun shouldn't have been allowed to do what it did. But in the majority of the deaths of babies I read about and the toddler who died of dehydration next to his father, the SWs didn't follow the CP/Court plan. I've experience the Police not following their CP/safeguarding procedures. Posters on here would be up in arms if their children's teachers did the same. Have you not read the threads from Mothers whose SW has got it so wrong, it's farcical?

TotteringonGently · 06/10/2024 07:22

the7Vabo · 06/10/2024 06:34

Is that the review that was written in two weeks after Ed Balls demanded it? Because the social workers said the facts were inaccurate and they never got a right to respond.

I’m not a social worker and I don’t personally know any, but it seems like an almost impossible job to me.

Im in Ireland where the view of UK SS is that they are heavy handed. It’s not uncommon for people to bring their kids to Ireland to try to escape them.

Constance Marten's case shows exactly why child protection workers need to be 'heavy handed' sometimes.

the7Vabo · 06/10/2024 06:34

Wallingtonhall · 06/10/2024 06:28

The professionals definitely made mistakes. For facts read the Serious Case Review. All SCRs are in the public domain.

However it is right to question the witch hunt and to recognise how difficult cp work is in failing, underfunded systems.

Is that the review that was written in two weeks after Ed Balls demanded it? Because the social workers said the facts were inaccurate and they never got a right to respond.

I’m not a social worker and I don’t personally know any, but it seems like an almost impossible job to me.

Im in Ireland where the view of UK SS is that they are heavy handed. It’s not uncommon for people to bring their kids to Ireland to try to escape them.

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Wallingtonhall · 06/10/2024 06:28

The professionals definitely made mistakes. For facts read the Serious Case Review. All SCRs are in the public domain.

However it is right to question the witch hunt and to recognise how difficult cp work is in failing, underfunded systems.

Astrak · 06/10/2024 06:18

For many years, I was a Local Authority child protection social worker in a very deprived area in South East England. I worked closely with the police, health care professionals and education providers. Some parents and families were able and willing to work with us, others not, due to their lack of trust in the system, learning disabilities and/or a belief that they could outwit "the system". I had family members try to kill me, frighten me off by setting vicious dogs on me, my car brakes tampered with, and making unsupported complaints about my behaviour towards them. I survived all this by being calm at all times, validating the family's feelings, having access to supportive colleagues and good clinical supervision. In cases where it was proven that families were unable to work together with professionals, the Family Courts made the final decisions about the welfare of the children and the timescale for the plans made for them which had been agreed.

MumChp · 06/10/2024 06:15

Too easy to hunt and blame doctors, nurses or social workers instead of a run down and broken NHS and SS.
People should be ashamed.

the7Vabo · 06/10/2024 06:11

Pat888 · 06/10/2024 06:02

Ed Balls who iwas Health Secretary at the time sacked the poor woman who was head of Social services and Education for ?Essex publicly in Parliament before she had even been informed -such a big brave man - as if she could have had that much input
She was suicidal.
Babies die 1 to two a week at the hands of carers and I have NEVER heard of a Head of SS being sacked for it.
Feeble government being manipulated by the press.
MPs doing whatever to save their own skins.

The mother & the two men got more fair procedures than she did.

A lot of public ire was and still is directed at that woman.

Did anybody on their witch hunt stop to think about the impact on those women on publishing their faces in the paper constantly.

That doctor never recovered, she’s paid a higher price than Baby P’s own feckless mother has.

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Pat888 · 06/10/2024 06:02

Ed Balls who iwas Health Secretary at the time sacked the poor woman who was head of Social services and Education for ?Essex publicly in Parliament before she had even been informed -such a big brave man - as if she could have had that much input
She was suicidal.
Babies die 1 to two a week at the hands of carers and I have NEVER heard of a Head of SS being sacked for it.
Feeble government being manipulated by the press.
MPs doing whatever to save their own skins.

the7Vabo · 06/10/2024 05:41

Ponoka7 · 06/10/2024 00:18

Baby P's dad took him and was arrested, contact stopped and was told that he would be charged with kidnapping/harrasment.

Star Hobson's family were told that they were over involved and homophobic.
Arthur Labinjo-Hughes grandparents had him removed from their care and called bitter and malicious.

Who else are you taking about? Parents can refuse to have any contact with any member of the family. One grandmother phoned the fire brigade saying she saw flames. Her granddaughter was hours away from death. She was still initially arrested because SS had helped the Mother get a restraining order.
I was doing my CP SW training when Baby P's findings were published. There were massive failings by all professionals and it was correct that they were publicly criticised.

I am wondering if perhaps I’ve been taken in by a biased documentary!

If you don’t mind me asking what massive failings do you think they were?

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Ponoka7 · 06/10/2024 00:23

Just to add, the doctor was a scapegoat so Great Ormand Street wasn't put under scrutiny.

Ponoka7 · 06/10/2024 00:18

Hoardasauruskaren · 05/10/2024 23:20

One thing that always angers me is when family
members are interviewed in the media condemning the authorities who allowed their GC, neice or nephew to be abused! Where were they? Why were they not looking out for the child’s welfare ? People are far too quick to blame social work, hv, gp etc!

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Baby P's dad took him and was arrested, contact stopped and was told that he would be charged with kidnapping/harrasment.

Star Hobson's family were told that they were over involved and homophobic.
Arthur Labinjo-Hughes grandparents had him removed from their care and called bitter and malicious.

Who else are you taking about? Parents can refuse to have any contact with any member of the family. One grandmother phoned the fire brigade saying she saw flames. Her granddaughter was hours away from death. She was still initially arrested because SS had helped the Mother get a restraining order.
I was doing my CP SW training when Baby P's findings were published. There were massive failings by all professionals and it was correct that they were publicly criticised.

SpringYay · 06/10/2024 00:12

Ed Balls effective sacked Sharon Shoesmith on TV.....Peter Connolly's death was at the hands of his supposed care givers. That poor child had a miserable existence and society will always struggle to comprehend that...

Perhaps services might have saved his life if certain things were done, perhaps not but the way the professionals were treated in this case was disgusting.

Social work and health services are in an even worse place now and we should be outraged by this, instead we all have a cry about any suggestion of progressive taxation and (especially on here) 'state interference'. Child protection is incredibly complex and nuanced, with it being very easy to throw that mud.

Almostwelsh · 06/10/2024 00:01

the7Vabo · 05/10/2024 22:55

The whole seems extraordinary. David Cameron stood up on the House of Commons ranting about a 17 year old struggling mother when for starters the woman was 28.

The media have a lot to answer for, they fed this frenzy against social workers. If that doctor had jumped under a train the editor of The Sun would have blood on his/her hands IMO.

I thought the talk about the vulnerable teenager in the house wasn't about the mother, but an underage girlfriend of the brother in law?

the7Vabo · 05/10/2024 23:38

mathanxiety · 05/10/2024 23:31

They should have had the book thrown at them, for sure.

But I think it's appropriate to ask questions about a child protection "system" that actually isn't fit for purpose.

Why were no notes available at the clinic?
Why were various services incapable of communicating and sharing information?

I agree I think it’s 100% appropriate and has to happen.
But what happened in this case it appears was a rush job report under political pressure that pointed fingers whereas it seems multiple aspects of the system failed Baby Peter.

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mathanxiety · 05/10/2024 23:31

BluebellsareBlue · 05/10/2024 23:14

I watched it too, I was disgusted. I know that the failings were because services weren't joined up and things were missed but ffs the real criminals were the mom the step dad and the brother in law. Where is the anger at them?

They should have had the book thrown at them, for sure.

But I think it's appropriate to ask questions about a child protection "system" that actually isn't fit for purpose.

Why were no notes available at the clinic?
Why were various services incapable of communicating and sharing information?

the7Vabo · 05/10/2024 23:31

TheGodOfSmallPotatoes · 05/10/2024 23:26

What is the documentary? Can I watch it somewhere else? I don’t have TikTok

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the7Vabo · 05/10/2024 23:27

Thinking about what PP said about working in a deprived area with a vulnerable population.

SS have an impossible task. They are dealing with people living in poverty, likely poorly educated, no support systems, all the social issues that come with that and these people are trying to raise kids while in a bad way themselves.
And SS are expected never to make the wrong call?!
They often get critised for being to heavy handed.

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TheGodOfSmallPotatoes · 05/10/2024 23:26

What is the documentary? Can I watch it somewhere else? I don’t have TikTok

the7Vabo · 05/10/2024 23:23

Hoardasauruskaren · 05/10/2024 23:20

One thing that always angers me is when family
members are interviewed in the media condemning the authorities who allowed their GC, neice or nephew to be abused! Where were they? Why were they not looking out for the child’s welfare ? People are far too quick to blame social work, hv, gp etc!

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The granny in this case didn’t seem to blame SS although I might have missed her saying it. She said her daughter was v manipulative.

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the7Vabo · 05/10/2024 23:21

ProfTeeCee · 05/10/2024 23:18

I worked in a healthcare role in Haringey at that time - it was an absolute mess! Such a fragmented care system covering a very vulnerable population. St Anne's Hospital was impossible to staff. I still find the whole case so distressing to think about.

Do you mind me asking (no pressure) other than the perpetrators who/what area do you think was responsible?

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Hoardasauruskaren · 05/10/2024 23:20

One thing that always angers me is when family
members are interviewed in the media condemning the authorities who allowed their GC, neice or nephew to be abused! Where were they? Why were they not looking out for the child’s welfare ? People are far too quick to blame social work, hv, gp etc!