Husband not letting me txt friends partner

He sounds gross and my money says he's a cheating scum bag.

This absolutely nails it. I reckon he loves making you cry. Twat

Instead of begging him for hours to see your point of view, a perfectly acceptable response to his nonsense is “ok”.

What's this crying and begging him to see your point of view? Tell him to fuck right off and you carry on doing what's right for you.

If you’re at the begging end of a relationship then it’s time to leave. You love him more than he loves you and he is picking fights for petty reasons. Stop crying and start planning your exit. He may be texting people himself so he sees bad in innocent actions. Stay strong x

Your husband is a cunt.
Don't let him upset you, carry on texting to find out more information if you want, go to the party alone you will have more fun.
Don't ever let him see you upset again like this, you have played right into his hands giving him what he wants, which is to make you sad, make you do what he wants and make himself in control of everything, he's probably in bed now very smug that he's making you feel shit.
Personally I'd ask him to leave in the morning, people who love you don't make you feel like he's mad you feel.

You need to take control. I have male friends who text me with jokes, cartoons and chat. My dp isn't keen but I take no notice and he keeps quiet about it. I wouldn't let him control me.

He doesn’t get to ‘let’ you do anything.

He’s not the boss.

How old are you OP? I’d start planning how to leave this horrible environment. Do you honestly think any of this is remotely healthy? And is this what you want your kids to see as a normal relationship? He will not change, he will get worse. Where do you draw the line? Soon he’ll be checking your messages with your female friends too.

No, it really isn't.

Your husband is absurd.

Tell him to shut the fuck up about xx on the end of messages and look at his own birthday message list. Exactly. SHUT UP YOU STUPID LAME FUCK UP.

Just don’t even bother to talk to the twat.

Why do women even bother to give these limp dick disasters the time of day?!

Fml. He is a controlling and insecure man child. Seriously consider do you want to be with someone living the rest of your life like this and make plans to end it. If there is no trust and he is leaving you feeling like this that is not a healthy relationship and you deserve better.

He's deflecting 100%

Why are you crying, though? You've done nothing wrong and I don't see why you are being upset rather than absolutely fuming with your husband. Your reaction is not appropriate at all. If my partner said something like that to me, I'd tell him to do one. If he kept going on about it after that, I'd tell him to shut up and stay home while I go to the party.
I just don't see myself crying all night over something that happens entirely in his own head. Which just tells that your relationship dynamic is not healthy... at all

God, I wouldn't put up with that shit.

It's all too childish, too exhausting.

Speak and text with who the fuck you want to.

This sums it up, but if a man put an x at the end of a text and sent it to woman there would be an uproar on here

To be fair I wouldn’t have put xx on the end. To other women yeah 100% but I would never ever send it to a man and I was like that even when I was single. If you’re husband is just annoyed about that fair enough but if he’s annoyed you’re texting in the first place then he’s being controlling

Yeah, he's an abusive arse, he likes controlling you and making you feel like shit, it makes him feel really good.

1 million% this

Your husbands a cunt.

Is he a big drinker? Because this is exactly how my ex used to go on when he was drinking.

Those who have been in a relationship with a manipulative headworker like this would never think OP was being dramatic or overreacting. Men like this make you feel like you're crazy and drive you to get hysterical with your apologies in order to "deserve" their forgiveness.
I'm so sorry he's treating you this way. I'd seriously consider looking into the freedom programme.

I might be way off but I feel like there's some key detail missing in the story here. I can't exactly put my finger on it.

Is he a lot older than you? Are there cultural dynamics at play? Are you scared of him?

I just can't fathom why you're letting him ban you from the kitchen, tell you how to text etc.

All this crying wailing wanting to jump over bridge over a man who is beyond silly.

He just wants to upset you and you're falling for it. Pull yourself together. Tell him there's nothing going on, you're not entertaining a conversation about nothing, and that's the end of it.

I bet he'd never say anything to your friend's partner for fear he'd get exactly what he deserves.

Sounds as if he doesn't like you much but I suppose there are loads of women out there battling through life with a man who blatantly doesn't like them. All about keeping up appearances