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So if your friend lost 5 stone in 6 months .. would you wonder how ?

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AboutVattime · 05/10/2024 19:33

Just inquisitive.. my best friend has always been obese. About 22 stone. I have worried about her health silently for a very long time.. she started Mountjaro in April and is now 14 st. I am completely thrilled for her . Her blood pressure is now 'upper' but not ' see your healthcare provider' .. her heart 'murmurs' have ceased.. I am worried that when she come to the end of her treatment she's will just gain it all again. It is without a miraculous drug.. she has struggled to afford...she is incredibly good with money and financially planned every inch of her journey so that her treatment equalled less than her cost of food consumption.. but only in the short term ( she planned 8 months but goal in 6)

My AIBU is ..I see the amazing difference , she is so happy for the first time in a long time after years of weight watchers, slimming world, Cambridge diet.. low carb, NHS gastric band..(15 years ago which helped but only ever got her to 16 stone before piling it back on) .. she has found one of the Mountjaro providers who will prescribe a maintenance dose...

But she can't afford it long term. It will be £189 per month without a discount.. AIBU to say I can pay this for her. She is my very best friend . I love her new found sense of self confidence.. and don't want it to go.. the money is not an issue for me . I am extremely comfortable and struggle to spend. However would love to help someone I love very much.

Just for complete transparency I had crept over into 'unhealthy' zone as also had osteoporosis in knees. Also took Mountjaro for 2 months and know how incredible it is. I have kept it off for 5 months without a maintenance dose .. it just reinforced healthy eating recipes for me . . But I haven't been morbidly obese

OP posts:
Tulip8 · 05/10/2024 19:43

Yeah actually your post title makes it sound like you were going to write a completely different 'story'.

Poppyseed14 · 05/10/2024 19:42

Where is she buying MJ from at that price?! She needs to shop around.

bevelino · 05/10/2024 19:42

OP, why would you pay for your friends weight loss treatment. I am sure she is now on a healthy eating and exercise path? Focus on you own health journey.

As other posters have remarked your title is inconsistent with what you are asking.

tarheelbaby · 05/10/2024 19:41

I'm interested to hear about both your experiences.

Many times, people who have lost weight find that they are able to stay at the new weight more easily since bodies are (scientists tell us) designed to maintain a weight, whatever it is (which is one of the reasons why losing is so hard). But your post suggests that you are backsliding (sorry if this is unkind) so needed a 'maintenance' dose ... And that means your friend might be in the same boat but like you might only need it occasionally?

Mrsphilmiller · 05/10/2024 19:40

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SweetSakura · 05/10/2024 19:39

I can't figure out the connection between the thread title and the post?

CorbyTrouserPress · 05/10/2024 19:38

How did you get Mounjaro if you just crept into the ‘unhealthy’ zone? You need a BMI of 30 to be prescribed it.

TerfTalking · 05/10/2024 19:38

Eh! why the title? You know how she’s lost it, your post is about offering to pay for her maintenance dose.

AIright · 05/10/2024 19:37

I’m so confused as your thread title doesn’t match the post at all…?

Anyway, yes- it would be a lovely thing to do for her if you’re able to.

Tulip8 · 05/10/2024 19:37

That would be amazing and very kind of you.

NippyChippy14 · 05/10/2024 19:37

If you were my friend and offered this to me I would be extremely grateful, but I can’t know how your friend might react.