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To say this is reasonable?

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RhythmAndBlues64 · 05/10/2024 18:06

To say that if you live with adult kids, it's still my house my rules?
I want to set up an office for DP. It will be in the bedroom my son has just vacated. DP will be taking a lot of zoom calls in there. It is directly opposite my daughters room.
Adult DD seems fed up about it. She is often here during the week as works alternate days which can fall on a weekend.
She is saving hard to move out so I can sympathise but it's still what we want to do.

OP posts:
RhythmAndBlues64 · 05/10/2024 18:18

The noise does carry and DP does have a loud booming voice so I sort of get it. She hasn't said anything but I know her well enough to know she isn't happy about it.
My son was barely at home to be honest as was always at his partners.

OP posts:
blackfriday1 · 05/10/2024 18:10

I'm not really sure I understand what her issue is? Can't she and your DH both just shut the doors to the rooms they are in?
What is the difference between your DH using the room and your son using the room? She's being a bit precious I think OP, sorry.

MillyMollyMandHey · 05/10/2024 18:07

Yanbu