Bit of background, my ex was very controlling. Would check what kind of underwear I had on before I went out with my friends, rummage through the bin for any receipts I had thrown out, put up cameras in the garden to watch me coming and going. The final straw was when I found a tracker on my car, and I eventually ended it.
Since then, I do not like having him in my new house. I do 99% of the dropping off and picking up DS to avoid him coming round. The past 3 weeks, he has found a reason/excuse to come round to see DS, and has sat here for over an hour each time.
DS was unwell last night. Throwing up in the small hours. When ex called to check up, he said "I'm thinking about popping round for half an hour to see him".
DS is OK now, albeit a bit tired. I'm already seeing him a bit less next week due to a work trip, and I really just want a chilled night with him watching Harry Potter, and relaxing in our PJs.
WIBU to tell ex no? I know he'll be worried about DS, but I just really don't like him in my home.