All the males in my house wander around in their pants.

Your husband started this behaviour and so should be modelling respectful (and self respectful) behaviour to his sons.
Those of you who think this male entitlement is acceptable... when they have a flat share will it be OK to parade around, like this in front of other women?
Too hot is a ridiculous excuse.

My step dad, step brother, and I would only wear or FTL basic white briefs in and around the house after or showers. And all day during the summer

All my family walk around in their undergarments male and female. What is it about the human body you are worried about?

In the middle of the night when you haven't noticed before you sit down.

I remember ony too well.
It's one of the reasons I was quite relieved to no longer have to spend time in the House. 🤮

That's very odd! DH and 4 boys between us and none of them have ever worn pants in the house (underclothes excepted!) Is the house too hot? I would prompt them to put shorts on.

stop wasting money on having the heating so high

Also, I empathise as the only woman in my house. I once had a breakdown over wee on the loo seat.

Wander around in yours to make a point.

Skipped from 7ish yesterday evening to this evening to now to ask those if you'd wear a bikini to a wedding? Your pants and bra to Asda? Your PJs to work?

But somehow your house, where different people, women, girls, men boys, being related, should somehow be okay with near nudity in the home? Despite people being uncomfortable with it?

Is it briefs or boxers? Because boxers look like shorts whereas briefs are more revealing. Sometimes I just chill out in my knickers and t shirt at home. DH wears briefs and t-shirt around the house if its hot

Words like "decent" and "basic respect" are quite subjective in this context.
There is nothing inherently disrespectful in having one layer of clothing on. There is nothing inherently disrespectful in nudity either (thought a case could be made for a hygiene)
It is just a clash of preferences.

Yes, in this case the older son shows he isn't happy to give others the same liberty he is taking, so that's a good point to address, but in general there is no good and bad here, just some people perceive/wish for a social norm which isn't really there

The beach is not just any 'public place' though is it. You can't sit in a cafe (except a beach one maybe) in a bikini so why should OP have to put up with near nudity in her home if she doesn't want to. They should be decent in front of the opposite sex as it's basic respect.

OP doesn't want to endure penis all day through gaping boxers. It's not unreasonable.

Correct
It's the home of children who happen to have penises
Why does that matter?
It's their home too, girls arent more important than boys

Mine wear jama shorts. Similar but different.

What a peculiar thread. My brow has furrowed right out of the back of my head in confusion as I've read through it 😂.

Mum of 3 boys, 2 still at home & aged 15 & 17. They are constantly in a state of undress, especially the 17yo who dresses really nicely for college but the minute he gets in it's all off & he's in either his pants (fitted boxers) or a onesie & it's never crossed my mind to be bothered. I will walk around, when getting ready, in my pants & bra & sometimes not even a bra! THE HORROR!

Until this thread it hadn't even crossed my mind to think it odd (& I still don't!). DH is more a stickler for Being Dressed (himself, not anyone else) & that's fine too.

I guess I'm just not sure what there is to be uncomfortable about when it's your own kids?

Never been to a nudist camp and don't see the appeal, but we regularly wander around in just underwear in our house, especially on hot days. No bra for me either. I hate wearing bras. Also am very comfortable with communal showers, mixed-gender naked saunas, which I know lots of people find shocking. I've just always been comfortable in my own skin and really don't care what other people look like, as long as they're not smelly or unhygienic.

So for me this would be a non-issue, unless unclean bits start hanging out and coming into contact with the upholstery.

This post reminded me of a girl when I was at school who made some comment that let peers know everyone goes naked in her house. She was completely unaware this wasn't normal and got mercifully picked on for it for a while.

My ex used to walk around in t shirt and no boxers/pant. He said it was too restrictive on his testicle. I'd find ginger pubes on the dark sofa. Fucking disgusting

I don't think being in just pants in your own home is a problem in itself. If someone is uncomfortable about it then it becomes a problem and I think being uncomfortable with nakedness trumps being uncomfortable with clothes when deciding how to resolve it

I couldn’t get upset about this, maybe I’ll feel differently when they’re older? DS 5 is permanently naked once in the door. DS 13 (trans FtM) walks around in boxers and tshirt all the time.

DH is a freak of nature and would sleep in pjs + dressing gown + duvet once September rolls around so he’s never undressed unless it’s proper boiling.

I guess even then he’d usually be in shorts not boxers but he’s an adult? Wouldn’t ever be bothered about the kids being in whatever when they’re at home just the 4 of us.

DH removes his trousers as soon as he's home if we have no guests and DS sometimes does the same, which I just find quite funny.

I can imagine it might feel a bit icky if you're the lone woman in the household though.

Usually with mine the only time I see it is when he wants additional food and has to make it himself, the rest of the time he's sat in a chair wrapped up in a blanket like a bloody burretto 🤣

I agree, I have two adult sons , they both wander around in their pants, I really can't see the problem here.

I’m not totally sure where I sit on this except for hands down the pants and meals. Hands down the pants I’d send them to wash their hands, and meals no one would be fed if they weren’t dressed. If I had to mention it several times I’d have a special dessert for everyone who I didn’t have to mention it to and those who weren’t respecting my rules in my house for a meal I’d cooked would miss out.