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Please help, Ménière's disease

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Tiredmumno1 · 05/10/2024 12:27

Sorry for posting in AIBU, but I really need some advice or help.

I have been suffering for more than a year and a half, it all started with what I now know as drop attacks, I would be severely dizzy and getting sick on these attacks, and the burning up was horrendous.

I was diagnosed a couple of weeks ago with Meniere's, it did come as a bit of a shock, I couldn't think of any questions at the time my mind just went blank.

I had been on Betahistine (3 a day) for a couple of months, the ENT consultant gave me Prochlorperazine, and told me to take when I was out if I felt really bad.

I haven't felt normal in such a long time, I am constantly lightheaded feeling like I am going to pass out. This feeling has been getting worse again and yesterday had another attack, I tried to take what the ENT had given me, but i got sick about 10 minutes later.

I went to bed and slept quite a lot, but have woken still feeling shaky and lightheaded every time I move my head, it's debilitating. It's scaring me and don't know what to do.

Please, please can anyone advise anything that will help me, I can't do this much longer.

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Tiredmumno1 · 05/10/2024 16:54

Oh my goodness, thank you so much everyone for replying, I didn't think I'd have any responses.

I will have a proper read through soon, I'm having a hard time digesting any information today, after last nights episode, really has left me out of sorts.

That is exactly how I have felt with this just so alone, I would say it's nice to know that others understand how I feel, but I really wouldn't want to wish this on anyone. I had kind of reserved myself to the fact I will feel like this forever.

I will be making an appointment on Monday with the GP, and ask for a referral to the ENT again(or someone who specialises in Meniere's). I really hope I don't get fobbed off, although I don't think my husband will let them do that to me again.

I will take a look at all of your suggestions of course because I really needed to hear from others. I really appreciate you all taking the time to respond, I honestly do.

Thank you.

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Foostit · 05/10/2024 14:51

A family member has this, it’s very debilitating. She was referred to a specialist centre who prescribed medication which has really helped. I think there are a few around the U.K., it might be a good idea to get your GP to refer you.

unsync · 05/10/2024 14:48

You need to make sure you are fully hydrated and have a really low sodium diet, literally cut out all added salt and all foods with added salt. It helps to stabilise the viscosity of the fluids within the ear IIRC.

Also, when you have an attack, you just have to stop what you are doing and sit down for as long as it takes until it passes.

My father has this. I can remember when it first started, it was almost like he was drunk. He would then change colour as the blood drained and then he would just sweat from everywhere, you could see it beading it was that bad. I remember him sitting for hours at a time with a towel round him and then having to change clothes once it had passed.

It's a horrible disease, you have my sympathy. Have you had a look at https://www.menieres.org.uk/information-and-support/symptoms-and-conditions/menieres-disease ?

If you haven't done already, you need to be seen by a consultant who specialises in Menieres. My father had an operation to put a shunt in to drain fluid and relieve pressure. He was seen by one of the leading consultants (now retired unfortunately).

What is Ménière’s disease / syndrome? - | Ménière’s Society

Meniere’s is a long term, progressive vestibular condition affecting the balance and hearing parts of the inner ear.

https://www.menieres.org.uk/information-and-support/symptoms-and-conditions/menieres-disease

Jifmicroliquid · 05/10/2024 14:43

Mine went into remission OP. It lasted about 8 months and then disappeared. I was on betahistines.
Sending best wishes x

MiddayLibrary · 05/10/2024 14:41

Hi @Tiredmumno1 👋

I was diagnosed with Ménière’s about 7 years ago now. I’m really sorry you’re going through this. It’s scary, unpredictable and can be quite debilitating. That said, there are ways to improve things and my life is basically back to normal now.

First up, the betahistine did sod all for me and my ENT told me that it was effectively used as a placebo. The other drug is the one to take when you start to feel sick as it helps with the throwing up.

Secondly, the thing that worked for me was having steroid injections into my eardrums. I had three rounds of 4 of those and have not had a spinning attack for the last 4 years as a result. I would recommend getting the ENT to consider those.

Third, try and work out what the triggers are. For me it was definitely stress, tiredness and dehydration. I also have to be careful to make sure I keep my sinuses clear so I used anything decongestion related as soon as I start to feel even a bit stuffed up. Sudafed (the stuff you get from the pharamacist with the pseudoephedrine not the over the counter stuff) is the best to get. Basically anything that might be creating any pressure in your sinuses/inner ears. I’d drink a lot of fluids too. Also, for me, if I was tired then I’d sleep as much as I could. Stress plus tired = shit Menieres symptoms (for me at least).

I can see you said you’d think about going to the GP - I’d get them to refer you back to the ENT or if you’ve got it call the ENT’s secretary and ask for an appointment explaining your symptoms aren’t being managed well. It was when I had a spinning attack on a bus and had to be removed into an ambulance because I couldn’t walk that the ENT started to take it more seriously for me.

There are lots of different ways to manage the symptoms and it’s a bit of trial and error. Check out the Menieres Society website too - that’s got lots of good advice. There was a section on there my ENT Consultant told me to refer my employers too.

I’ll keep an eye out for a reply - I’m really sorry you’ve going through this. It’s horrible but you’re not alone. Once you start telling people you’ve got Menieres it honestly seems like the world and his wife have got it too.

Tiredmumno1 · 05/10/2024 14:29

BurbageBrook · 05/10/2024 13:32

Just bumping for you OP.

I don't know anything about this but sounds like it would be worth pushing to go back to ENT and tell them this medication is making you feel worse.

Thank you for that.

I just thought or hoped someone on here may have more knowledge, just to get me through the weekend. Will make an appointment with gp next week. Won't hold out much hope though.

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BurbageBrook · 05/10/2024 13:32

Just bumping for you OP.

I don't know anything about this but sounds like it would be worth pushing to go back to ENT and tell them this medication is making you feel worse.