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Please help, Ménière's disease

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Tiredmumno1 · 05/10/2024 12:27

Sorry for posting in AIBU, but I really need some advice or help.

I have been suffering for more than a year and a half, it all started with what I now know as drop attacks, I would be severely dizzy and getting sick on these attacks, and the burning up was horrendous.

I was diagnosed a couple of weeks ago with Meniere's, it did come as a bit of a shock, I couldn't think of any questions at the time my mind just went blank.

I had been on Betahistine (3 a day) for a couple of months, the ENT consultant gave me Prochlorperazine, and told me to take when I was out if I felt really bad.

I haven't felt normal in such a long time, I am constantly lightheaded feeling like I am going to pass out. This feeling has been getting worse again and yesterday had another attack, I tried to take what the ENT had given me, but i got sick about 10 minutes later.

I went to bed and slept quite a lot, but have woken still feeling shaky and lightheaded every time I move my head, it's debilitating. It's scaring me and don't know what to do.

Please, please can anyone advise anything that will help me, I can't do this much longer.

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HoppingPavlova · 03/06/2025 14:13

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HoppingPavlova · 11/11/2024 06:55

If it is Meniere's and you are like this, you should be seeing an ENT that sub-specialises in Meniere’s (other ENT’s should know who these are). Exploring steroid injections, and if that fails possibly gentamicin injections (esp if it’s made you deaf/hearing decreased anyway), or in severe instances not responsive to any treatments removal of your labyrinth system on that side, for which you will need intensive vestibular rehab afterwards for your body to readjust to this being the new normal. Obviously really low sodium, no caffeine, cut out the alcohol etc as baseline management. Easy to say reduce stress but I’ve never understood that if people are severe as obviously the condition itself and never knowing when you will have an attack causes constant stress.

Naliny · 11/11/2024 06:33

Hi @Tiredmumno1 is your hearing affected at all? If not, you might also want to look into Vestibular Migraines which has very similar symptoms (and is often misdiagnosed for MD). A lot of people have both (I think I do).
Drop attacks often occur with VM, as does that light headed feeling, brain fog and feeling of derealisation. They are treated differently though. Might be worth seeing a vestibular/balance specialist (in addition to ENT).

Tiredmumno1 · 07/10/2024 19:39

@merryandbrightdelight I really feel for your Aunt too, it's horrible knowing you can't just take a tablet and it'll all just vanish, the anxiety part is horrid, the only time I go out now is shopping with my husband or in the car and that's it, I feel so restricted.

Thank you for your message.

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Tiredmumno1 · 07/10/2024 19:35

@VestaTilley yes, the balance part is really difficult, I have to try so hard not to fall over, luckily I can hang on to my husband when we are out, I shall look up the support groups, thank you.

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merryandbrightdelight · 06/10/2024 23:01

Hi op, sorry you're feeling this way with this. My Aunt has had it for a number of years, and when she has a flare up, she feels the way you are for a day or two after the initial attack. Hope you feel better soon

VestaTilley · 06/10/2024 22:27

So sorry OP. Just to say, my late DGM had Menieres, it came on in middle age. I know she had a really rough few years with it (not aware if she was medicated as this was in the 1970s/80s) but it did calm down. Her balance wasn’t great and her hearing declined (not sure if the latter was related), but I think the nausea and general illness symptoms faded. Obviously every case is different, but do hang on in there and look up specialist support groups/helplines.

Tiredmumno1 · 06/10/2024 22:22

@turkeyboots I had read about that somewhere but was u sure whether to try it, are there any side effects that you know of, or is it totally safe. I feel so anxious about everything, that I end up questioning my own decisions.

Do any of have any problems with remembering things, my memory has being awful at points, I forget words, trip over what I am saying, it's actually getting me down, I used to be quite sharp. Now it can take me a while to get out what I want to say if that makes sense.

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Tiredmumno1 · 06/10/2024 22:19

@MiddayLibrary it's good to know you drink squash too, I am u sure of the diet think tbh, I really don't have much of the things that are mentioned but still have the attacks, they scare me so much.

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turkeyboots · 06/10/2024 22:07

Oddly, I was prescribed diuretics to help manage my Menieres by my London based consultant ages ago. Drying out my system seemed to help more. It's seems rather hit and miss what works for any one person.

MiddayLibrary · 06/10/2024 16:45

@Tiredmumno1 Honestly, nothing I’ve eaten or drunk or not eaten or not drunk has seemed to have any effect apart from making sure I drink enough. It’s almost as if the gunk in my ear gets thicker the more dehydrated I get so I just drink a lot of squash.

Tiredmumno1 · 06/10/2024 08:24

Thank you all for your time, I appreciate it so much. I am sorry I didn't return yesterday, I just felt awful.

@Puppupandaway

I have been taking Betahistine for months, I hadn't had a big attack for a little while, just the awful feeling everyday. I shall give ENT a call tomorrow. I don't really have a lot of caffeine, no coffee, barely any chocolate and decaf tea.

I am on 16mg, 3 times a day. I will also check out the FB group, thank you.

@Hungerbegone

Thank you for your advice, I have been trying for a while with the salt thing so will try harder. I drink robinsons no added sugar orange. I struggle to drink water on its own. Do you think that makes a difference?

@Drinkdrinkduuurink

It really is awful, so feel for your brother. Thank you for also recommending the FB group will check it out.

@MiddayLibrary

Thank you for being honest regarding the injections it may have to be something I look into. Also do you feel that your diet has no affect on it?

@turkeyboots

Thanks for that link, very helpful. When I took that tablet it was just ten minutes later that I got sick. I was obviously thinking how is it anti sickness if that's what happened.

@TherealmrsT

Thank you, I really am going to have to go back, at the moment I feel like I am just existing. I will be going through everything that everyone has said though, I just want my life back.

@WoolerOwl

I shall certainly ask the doctor for a referral as I hadn't thought of anything like that. I will also talk to them about my medication to see if things can be changed. I only have decaf tea and do not drink alcohol anymore. I hate flickering lights, I also hate being out like in a supermarket, it disorientates me, same as walking up and down stairs. I am very glad you are doing well now and I definitely appreciate the hug and advice.

Honestly everyone thank you, for taking time to talk to me, and for the hugs and good wishes

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WoolerOwl · 05/10/2024 19:53

I'm so sorry you are experiencing this. I understand how scary and debilitating it is. My Dad has Meniere's and I was initially diagnosed with the same, but actually have non-headache vestibular migraine, which can have similar symptoms.

I highly recommend asking for a referral to the neuro-otology department of UCLH, wherever you live. They are incredibly specialist and I felt very well cared for by them in the five years or so that I was under their consultants.

The first thing is to be sure that the diagnosis is correct. They need to do all the tests to work out if this is an inner ear or a central brain issue. GPs are not always good at knowing what is what.

For the vestibular migraine diagnosis (so more brain related than ear), there are other treatment options. I am on propranolol and very low dose amitriptyline, which have been great at controlling the symptoms. I also have the buccal version (under my top lip) or prochlorperazine, which I carry as a rescue medication in case of an attack. It works quite quickly to stop the rotational vertigo.

For Meniere's, some people do have success with betahistine, but it takes a while to build up and take effect.

I did the Cooksey-Cawthorne exercises previously, and also watched YouTube videos of scrolling blind and horizontal patterns to desensitize myself and get my brain used to the kinds of images that would sometimes set off my vertigo. I'm very careful to use saltwater spray and decongestant when I get a cold virus to keep my Eustachian tubes clear.

Very low caffeine and no alcohol has helped me. Also avoiding flickering lights.

Please push for a clear diagnosis and treatment plan. I also had CBT to help with the anxiety symptoms that it brought, because I was scared of having an attack in public/at work (I have a public facing and exposed role).

I am now doing well. There is hope. But sending a hug because I know that the symptoms and consequences can feel overwhelming.

DoNOTShakeItOff · 05/10/2024 19:41

No advice, other than to say that Prochlorperazine is simply an antiemetic, meaning that they're just anti sickness pills

TherealmrsT · 05/10/2024 19:33

I had attacks in 2020 then clear to end 2022, then clear to August this year then lots of attacks.

I have asked everyone I have seen what I can do to help myself and consistently have been told:

  • vestibular physio - exercises regularly
  • low stress
  • low alcohol
  • low sodium
  • low caffeine
  • drink lots with a suggestion of 3l a day.

I have the buccal version of prochloroperzine which the consultant gave me just in case which helps if I take it just as an attack starts, and just started betahistine but whilst I know it doesn't work for everyone seems to be helping at the moment.
I am with the ENT at Guys and told to get in touch if I am having attacks.
Finally, I found attacks were triggering BPPV so also do the Epley manoeuvre if I feel generally a bit off balance.

Chaiilatte · 05/10/2024 19:14

I was diagnosed with this a few years ago in the hospital at ENT clinic. They told me I had it and sent me on my way. After reading the comments I feel like I've been massively fobbed off not being given anything to help it 😮

turkeyboots · 05/10/2024 19:11

Buccastem is a version of prochloroperzine (forgive my spelling!) which you put between your gum and cheek and is really good for the vomiting attacks. It's available OTC.

I've had Menieres for years and second all low salt diets, and would add in low caffeine too. It also seems to get worse just before my period.

And there is specialist physio you can do to train your inner ear to adjust. Get your ENT to get you some support, but you can follow the basics at home. This is a US site, but will give you the basics
www.webmd.com/brain/what-are-cawthorne-cooksey-exercises

MiddayLibrary · 05/10/2024 19:10

They numb your eardrums for the injections so it doesn’t hurt so much as feel uncomfortable and odd. The liquid going in does sting but for about 1 minute and it’s worth a shot.

It’s odd to see the other advice being given to other MD people. The ENT MD specialist I see (I’m in Norfolk if that helps I can always say who I see - he’s very well regarded/ does lots of research) says that diet has been proven to have zero effect. He told me to eat all the salt and drink all the caffeine I fancied. Which was lucky because I really, really love tea!

Drinkdrinkduuurink · 05/10/2024 18:43

My brother has it OP. When it was at its worst it was like the room was spinning. He had to lay down stationary for a few hours.

As @Puppupandaway mentioned, use the support group so you can learn more about it and what others do to treat it. Best of luck.

Hungerbegone · 05/10/2024 17:33

Hiya, my husband has menieres Disease and it is totally debilitating when having attacks as you describe. Firstly you need to drastically reduce your salt intake and secondly drink as much water as you can stomach so that you urinate more and flush the salt out. Also low sugar.

You need the ENT to prescribe you with a heavy dose of steroids to reset you.

My husband went round and round in circles with the NHS and eventually went private and saw an amazing specialist. If you need any other advise give me a message and I can put you in touch with my husband.

Puppupandaway · 05/10/2024 17:08

There's a wonderful support group on Facebook (choose the uk version). They've helped me enormously since I started with menieres symptoms last year.

Puppupandaway · 05/10/2024 17:06

What strength betahistine are you on?

Puppupandaway · 05/10/2024 17:04

Hi, I have suspected menieres. Betahistine needs to build in your system, usually takes about six weeks to take effect. They don't stop it completely but do reduce attacks.

If you've already seen an ent you don't need another referral, instead find out the phone number of the secretaries for the department and phone them asking for another appointment. That's what I did and I got seen within a month. You are on their books now so should have direct access.

Cut out all caffeine,so no chocolate, coffee etc unless it's decaf.

Take it easy, rest as much as you can. Things will improve.

Tiredmumno1 · 05/10/2024 16:58

@MiddayLibrary I am so sorry you had to go through that bus scenario, that's what scares me everytime I walk out the door, and yes to the other poster who spoke about the drunk like feeling, I feel like that everyday.

I have heard of the injections, but thinking about that scares me, do they hurt really bad?

I don't even know what ear is causing it, I am already deaf in one ear (since birth) is it possible that a deaf ear can cause this?

Sorry I'll probably need that answer from the doctor, I will ask that when I see them.

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