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Small house for a family

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sillygoose111 · 05/10/2024 12:13

Went to look at a house today as we are looking for something bigger to rent (currently in one bed). It’s a nice location, close to school for my soon to be 4 year old and it’s a cute little house. I’m just wondering if it’s not too small and if I’m not being unreasonable thinking we can do it?

Ideally we would love to buy in couple of years or so, so it would be temporary. I know it on us to decide and know what’s best for us but I just want so me opinions 😅

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Tulipvase · 05/10/2024 14:10

Small is relative. We lived in a 2 bed flat for years with 3 children so I do understand.

What would concern me is the width. I’d struggle with that I think. But if you are renting, it would be easy enough to move after a year if it’s really hard to live with.

CrispieCake · 05/10/2024 14:00

I have a friend who makes her own Christmas decorations each year because she says she doesn't have room to store any. She and the kids make them out of cardboard and spray paint with gold glitter paint and dry orange slices and hunt for pine cones and all that. They have fairy lights up all year long and just put them on the tree at Christmas. She buys second-hand suitcases for going on holiday and donates them to the local family refuge at the end of the summer, together with all their summer clothes. She is very, very good at not accumulating stuff though - she was really into "toy libraries" when her kids were young and asks parents for £2 rather than presents for her kids' birthday parties. She even puts on the invite "Sorry we have a small house and so can't accommodate presents, so a card or £2 would be lovely, thank you" apparently 😂.

TheLurpackYears · 05/10/2024 13:48

It is narrow, but it's a step up from you current place and you have a plan to buy then it could be perfect .
Is it a back to back, it looks like the type that would be I the end of a terrace with to others b2bs joining it so potentially noisy?

Suzuki70 · 05/10/2024 13:43

It's not about spare rooms etc, but I asked if there's a loft because if they wanted to keep stuff for a hypothetical baby no 2 e.g. side sleeper cot, clothes, bouncer etc there is very little space to keep it. Ditto suitcases, Christmas decorations.

pizzaHeart · 05/10/2024 13:41

I think personally that location is very important. If it’s good for school, work and local amenities go for it.
Do you have a garden and a shed or garage? You can buy storage shed did the garden for bulky items it will help , make place tidy and will add resale value.
Tidying up the loft for storage is another option for things like Xmas decorations and summer chairs.

Toseland · 05/10/2024 13:30

It's fine for 3 - we live like that but have a bigger garden which we use a lot in the summer.

ticklecrabs · 05/10/2024 13:22

It'll be fine with three of you. My old house was almost exactly this floor plan and we only moved out because we wanted another child.

Loft storage, a shed and/or waterproof storage in the garden will all help. You will need to be a ruthless declutterer. But it's totally doable long term.

Monkeysatonthewall · 05/10/2024 13:15

MakeItRain26 · 05/10/2024 13:11

@Monkeysatonthewall I mean it IS a small house, there’s no point in pretending otherwise. It is smaller than the house I share with just my DH which I mention to point out that we will be looking for a bigger house in a few years as we feel the need for more space despite having an extra bedroom and toilet, and the reception room and kitchen being larger than on this floorplan. The OP is being sensible in considering the limitations on space, ability to host, ability to keep tidy etc. which are always present in a smaller house.

That is not the same as it not being doable, and not the same as it not being an improvement on what they currently have, which it obviously is.

Well, she's managed in a single bed with no garden so not sure why she needs strangers' validation for spending couple years in this house.

Or maybe it's the effect if all those threads where unless you have three bathrooms, a spade bedroom, a study and a playroom, your life sucks.

MakeItRain26 · 05/10/2024 13:11

@Monkeysatonthewall I mean it IS a small house, there’s no point in pretending otherwise. It is smaller than the house I share with just my DH which I mention to point out that we will be looking for a bigger house in a few years as we feel the need for more space despite having an extra bedroom and toilet, and the reception room and kitchen being larger than on this floorplan. The OP is being sensible in considering the limitations on space, ability to host, ability to keep tidy etc. which are always present in a smaller house.

That is not the same as it not being doable, and not the same as it not being an improvement on what they currently have, which it obviously is.

shesamarshmallow · 05/10/2024 13:03

CrispieCake · 05/10/2024 12:47

There is no storage nor any places to shove any junk.

Are you fairly minimalist? Are you very efficient at shovelling outgrown clothes/discarded toys out of your living space?

That would be my downfall. I'm not. They tend to hang around for months (even years 😬!). I have a small loft that I shove stuff into, until I can get round to sorting/binning/taking to the charity shop.

If you're good at keeping stuff to a minimum, it could work for you (and will certainly be better than a 1-bed flat!).

And if you’re not good at this, a small house will force you to improve!

Allthecatseverywhereallatonce · 05/10/2024 13:03

Looks perfect and with a good location and a garden, I would snap it up.

SockFluffInTheBath · 05/10/2024 13:03

It’s very narrow, is it one of those London infill/garage conversions? Would be fine for 3 though. Like others have said you just need to be on clutter alert.

Monkeysatonthewall · 05/10/2024 12:59

You have one child, what exactly is small about this house?

Jeeeezo.

MakeItRain26 · 05/10/2024 12:56

Well it’s certainly a lot bigger than the one bedroom flat you currently have so it will definitely be an improvement. If you are hoping to buy then it doesn’t make sense to spend any more on rent than you absolutely need to so looks like a good option

juniperbramble · 05/10/2024 12:47

We live in a 2 bed. It was perfectly doable for a while, and allowed us to save money to now hopefully buy a bigger place (fingers crossed, as offer accepted). And a garden is so brilliant to have with little ones.

My one issue with the house above is that you can't keep an eye on your child if DC plays in the living room and you are in the kitchen, where there is not a lot of space for them to do so. My unusually energetic child would not be able to remain unsupervised for even the briefest moments, but I know many others of their age are a lot less tricky, and yours is a bit older.

CrispieCake · 05/10/2024 12:47

There is no storage nor any places to shove any junk.

Are you fairly minimalist? Are you very efficient at shovelling outgrown clothes/discarded toys out of your living space?

That would be my downfall. I'm not. They tend to hang around for months (even years 😬!). I have a small loft that I shove stuff into, until I can get round to sorting/binning/taking to the charity shop.

If you're good at keeping stuff to a minimum, it could work for you (and will certainly be better than a 1-bed flat!).

AhBiscuits · 05/10/2024 12:37

I think you'll be fine and can make it work.

lopdoo · 05/10/2024 12:37

I'm sure for 3 of you with a view to buy you'll make it work for a few years! When I saw the 4 I thought you meant 4 of you which I think would be verging on stressful, but 3 I'm sure you'll be fine.

Anotheranonymousnameismine · 05/10/2024 12:35

Looks lovely - you’ve got a nice size lounge / living space which should serve you well!
id go for it
No point in going huge for rental if you’re saving for buying
Sometimes a smaller place can have benefits - eg easy to keep an eye on little one, cheap to heat and easy to clean!

Notreat · 05/10/2024 12:29

It looks plenty big enough. Enjoy your new home

halava · 05/10/2024 12:27

It looks so cute and a huge step up from a 1 bed apartment. And a little garden for the little one also, couldn't be better! If the area suits you, and the rent is within your budget, go for it! Best of luck.

Suzuki70 · 05/10/2024 12:25

Does it have a loft?

KirstenBlest · 05/10/2024 12:25

Looks fine to me.

Dinosaursdontgrowontrees · 05/10/2024 12:24

I would go for it. Sounds perfect to me!

sillygoose111 · 05/10/2024 12:23

@Growsomeballswoman 2 adults and a toddler (3,5 yrs)

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