OH was invited on a trip away with friends for 5 nights. Said to me he wasn’t going, I told him he should go but he said he didn’t want to, said he wanted us to go away (we usually go away at the same time of year), I told him I we could go anytime and he should go. Nothing else was said.
we then had an argument and didn’t speak for about 24 hours. A few days after we had resolved things he tells me while we weren’t speaking he committed to the holiday. Now I have no issue with him going but it feels as if he as done it out of spite/to punish me when we weren’t talking.
AIBU to think this way?? Its not him going that’s the issue, it’s the way it has been done, like a fuck you?
happy to hear opinions and if I’m just being over dramatic