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ClearB21 · 03/10/2024 16:59

So yes I am unreasonable because I went through his internet history and seen that he often logs on to Twitter and then will search a girls name followed by porn. So I got suspicious. He's never mentioned he has a Twitter account why is he on it so much. And I have Twitter, I know sometimes porn things come up on there. So it turns out he's just following porn and sex accounts on Twitter. Then he finds a girl he likes and searches them on the internet for like porn videos and pictures. I'm struggling to understand how this is different to Only Fans (except for paying for content). It's not a him problem it's a me problem. Because it makes me feel like I'm not enough.
And to top it off I can't even speak to him about it without blowing myself up for bloody snooping in the first place. So feel free to tell me how unreasonable I'm being please 😂

Also I should just add, he works away and is only looking at this kind of thing when he's not at home. In case that makes me less unreasonable

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Itsgettingbettetman · 03/10/2024 17:11

I really don't understand why you're getting so het up about some innocent porn usage, if it isn't affecting your relationship and he is faithful what is the issue? Maybe watch it together sometime, it may enhance your relationship

I would argue paying for only fans is actually more ethical if it's just to view content and not engage with the person on a conversational basis. The actress is actually getting paid for their work, whereas a lot of what is posted on twitter is copied from elsewhere and the actress gets nothing.