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To detest people that think they own beautiful parts of the world?

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Bumpitybumper · 03/10/2024 14:19

I grew up in a very ugly and undesirable part of the country and now live in a tourist hotspot. I am becoming increasingly frustrated by people that are born and raised here trying to restrict tourism or stop 'outsiders' moving here. The houses are expensive here because it's such a lovely place to live but there isn't much employment except for from tourism. Despite this many locals that I know feel that tourism should be restricted as it makes the town extremely busy in high season. They also think housing should be subsidised for locals.

I feel that there are only so many beautiful places and those lucky enough to be born in them are no more entitled to live and enjoy them than the rest of us who by luck were born elsewhere. This would effectively condemn future people like me to live and visit only the less desirable of areas whilst my children could stay in this lovely area and be subsidised for doing so. It just feels incredibly unfair!

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Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 17:14

hairbearbunches · 04/10/2024 17:08

OP, are you Kemi Badenoch?

your viewpoint is utterly depressing. If you’ve already bought and enjoy living in one of these chocolate box villages, what the fuck do you care whether locals are given a helping hand to stay there if they have ties? I’ll repeat my assertion that you just don’t want someone to get something subsidised that you had to pay full price for. A true blue view.

I care for the sake of future people like me who aren't lucky enough to be born here but may want to live here in the future. Why on earth can't they? Why should it be made harder for them because some people already here think they are entitled to live here forever? My kids are born and bred here but I absolutely don't think they deserve to be subsidised to stay here.

If that makes me like Kemi then so be it. I didn't know she prized social mobility and equality so much but hey ho.

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hairbearbunches · 04/10/2024 17:08

OP, are you Kemi Badenoch?

your viewpoint is utterly depressing. If you’ve already bought and enjoy living in one of these chocolate box villages, what the fuck do you care whether locals are given a helping hand to stay there if they have ties? I’ll repeat my assertion that you just don’t want someone to get something subsidised that you had to pay full price for. A true blue view.

sharpclawedkitten · 04/10/2024 17:06

FunnysInLaJardin · 04/10/2024 16:05

they are as affordable as most of the UK for locals

They are significantly higher.

sharpclawedkitten · 04/10/2024 17:06

twistyizzy · 04/10/2024 13:45

It's the truth though. Housing estates being built with no thought as to amenities and infrastructure = no svhool places, doctors full, no public transport so more traffic on the roads. All driven by greed of developers.

Yes, it's not racist or xenophobic or nimbyish to worry when a town with 20,000 inhabitants has big estates built on the outskirts with another 5000 homes and no thought about roads, new schools or medical care. Those 5000 homes won't be bought by locals, they'll largely be bought by incomers.

I know because I was one of them! I bought a new build house in the area I live in now and had no connection with the area, it was just handy to commute to London. I lived there for four years.

As for Jersey it used to be even more restrictive - you couldn't even rent, you could only have a licence for a room. Of course if you're rich you can do what you like. There are a few houses that are open market but they tend to be very expensive. An acquaintance had family there and when her aunt died she inherited her house in Gorey. She couldn't move and live in it, she had to sell it to a local. Even with the restrictions the population has grown to about 100,000 people. Goodness knows where they all live - as a pp said, prices are not remotely cheap.

FrippEnos · 04/10/2024 16:52

The alternative is supporting unearned and state subsidised intergenerational privilege. I am shocked how many people can't understand this!

How to tell people you are entitled without telling people you are entitled.
JFC.

Alternatively, the government and companies could invest in these areas so that the younger generations can travel to work near home and get a decent wage for it. Whilst also improving the infrastructure of the area.

But the OP doesn't want this as they would then not have such a nice area to live in.

FunnysInLaJardin · 04/10/2024 16:05

rainfallpurevividcat · 04/10/2024 14:47

Have you seen property prices in Jersey? I don't think they are affordable for locals.

they are as affordable as most of the UK for locals

FunnysInLaJardin · 04/10/2024 16:04

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 14:36

The CI are a crown dependency so completely different than tourist areas actually in the UK. They are financially self sufficient and have a level of autonomy that areas in the UK don't have.

Nowhere in the UK would be able to enact these kinds of policies. It would raise huge practical and ethical questions, especially if the area was in receipt of state subsidies.

however without housing control, the CI would have the exact same problems as the desirable places in the UK

twistyizzy · 04/10/2024 14:50

Somanypiessolittletime · 04/10/2024 14:46

Well because your argument seems to be that the countryside (or beautiful places) should be kept for the farmers. So seems pretty hypocritical to me.

No I never said that. I said it is an issue in rural areas that farming land is being sold off for (usually expensive) housing and that isn't sustainable. That houses are built with no thought to local infrastructure or that if we contune to sell off all the farming land that there will be repercussions. I never said the countryside should only be for farmers..

Crunchymum · 04/10/2024 14:47

Try being a born and bred Londoner 😮

rainfallpurevividcat · 04/10/2024 14:47

Have you seen property prices in Jersey? I don't think they are affordable for locals.

Somanypiessolittletime · 04/10/2024 14:46

twistyizzy · 04/10/2024 13:47

Why does it matter? So only if I farm something can i have an opinion?

Well because your argument seems to be that the countryside (or beautiful places) should be kept for the farmers. So seems pretty hypocritical to me.

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 14:36

FunnysInLaJardin · 04/10/2024 14:07

I think on balance the CI have it right. Without housing restrictions the islands wouldn't be affordable for locals, well even less affordable than they are now!

The CI are a crown dependency so completely different than tourist areas actually in the UK. They are financially self sufficient and have a level of autonomy that areas in the UK don't have.

Nowhere in the UK would be able to enact these kinds of policies. It would raise huge practical and ethical questions, especially if the area was in receipt of state subsidies.

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ArabellaScott · 04/10/2024 14:16

SundayBloodySunday · 04/10/2024 13:35

ArabellaScott · Today 13:12

So, I gather the proposal is that only rich people should live in the pretty places, while all the poor people should jolly well move to the 'less desirable' places and stop moaning about the loss of their ties to family and community.
Quite depressing, really.

No more depressing than having a ring block around desirable areas, for the few that have the fortune of being born in the place. It's ridiculous. You are hardly supporting a meritocracy.

A 'ring block'? Where on earth have you got that idea from?

FunnysInLaJardin · 04/10/2024 14:07

Demonhunter · 03/10/2024 15:32

I think a lot of places would love to be like the CI where the restrictions are crazy.

In Jersey, if you aren't a Jersey bean, and are only a registered resident not entitled or licenced, then you are restricted to only being allowed to rent certain properties. Licenced people can rent most properties and depending on the terms of the licence, may be able to buy qualified properties.

Same as jobs, unless the employer is willing to obtain a permit for you and make you a licenced resident, you are only registered and are restricted to what jobs you can apply for as a registered resident. You have to have been residing and working there for 10 years before you can apply for entitled status so you are free to apply for any job or buy any property.

Then of course there are high value residencies, which can be granted to people who they think will make a valued social or economic impact on the island.

I think on balance the CI have it right. Without housing restrictions the islands wouldn't be affordable for locals, well even less affordable than they are now!

twistyizzy · 04/10/2024 13:49

GreenTeaLikesMe · 04/10/2024 13:47

Apparently the UK uses more land for golf courses than for the growing of fruit and vegetables (about 2 per cent of total land). If we are concerned about food security, we should probably be asking hard questions about golf courses, rather than refusing the building of housing. Housing shortages are also a major factor behind young people leaving rural areas.

This, by a man who grew up in a village near Leeds and has worked in fruit picking as an adult, was interesting. It also talks about the EU, but scroll down a bit to see discussion about housing and NIMBYism.

https://www.tomforth.co.uk/strawberries/

”Traffic has increased around the Balloon Tree farm shop in the past decade as more people wait to enter and exit the car park. That was a main reason why it took years to secure planning permission to expand.
“In the nearest town, Stamford Bridge, the old single-lane bridge on the main road causes longer tailbacks than it once did. Plans to expand the bridge to two lanes have been discussed since I was a child but in the face of considerable local objections are no closer to happening today. The Balloon Tree’s business rates have helped fund a cycle lane from the town to Gate Helmsley that has helped a bit, but most people prefer to drive.
“Many people in Bishop Wilton, the village where I grew up, lament the change brought about by agricultural labour being done by fewer and fewer people. Bishop Wilton’s farms have closed, driven out by high house prices and local complaints about the smell of manure they were bought by farms from outside of the village to form larger more efficient units. With them went the petrol station, the agricultural engineers, and a short-lived furniture factory. The village shop and post office teeters on the edge of viability and the pub survives only by selling meals to tourists. A village that housed 1200 people at its agricultural peak now houses less than half that number. It rejects growth and then laments the changes that its self-imposed stagnation brings.
“The village has robustly refused to build enough new housing to maintain its population. That means that all of my generation — even those with children who would love to return — have left for the cities.
“A 2-bedroom bungalow in Bishop Wilton costs over £200k today. I can buy a 2-bed home in central Leeds for half that. There is no way that a young family doing agricultural work could ever afford this. No homes are available to rent for miles. I know of only two friends who still work in Bishop Wilton. One is the village school’s head teacher and her husband runs his Dad’s recording business. They both live in York and commute back to the countryside every day.”

Don't disagree with you about golf courses/priorities

GreenTeaLikesMe · 04/10/2024 13:47

Apparently the UK uses more land for golf courses than for the growing of fruit and vegetables (about 2 per cent of total land). If we are concerned about food security, we should probably be asking hard questions about golf courses, rather than refusing the building of housing. Housing shortages are also a major factor behind young people leaving rural areas.

This, by a man who grew up in a village near Leeds and has worked in fruit picking as an adult, was interesting. It also talks about the EU, but scroll down a bit to see discussion about housing and NIMBYism.

https://www.tomforth.co.uk/strawberries/

”Traffic has increased around the Balloon Tree farm shop in the past decade as more people wait to enter and exit the car park. That was a main reason why it took years to secure planning permission to expand.
“In the nearest town, Stamford Bridge, the old single-lane bridge on the main road causes longer tailbacks than it once did. Plans to expand the bridge to two lanes have been discussed since I was a child but in the face of considerable local objections are no closer to happening today. The Balloon Tree’s business rates have helped fund a cycle lane from the town to Gate Helmsley that has helped a bit, but most people prefer to drive.
“Many people in Bishop Wilton, the village where I grew up, lament the change brought about by agricultural labour being done by fewer and fewer people. Bishop Wilton’s farms have closed, driven out by high house prices and local complaints about the smell of manure they were bought by farms from outside of the village to form larger more efficient units. With them went the petrol station, the agricultural engineers, and a short-lived furniture factory. The village shop and post office teeters on the edge of viability and the pub survives only by selling meals to tourists. A village that housed 1200 people at its agricultural peak now houses less than half that number. It rejects growth and then laments the changes that its self-imposed stagnation brings.
“The village has robustly refused to build enough new housing to maintain its population. That means that all of my generation — even those with children who would love to return — have left for the cities.
“A 2-bedroom bungalow in Bishop Wilton costs over £200k today. I can buy a 2-bed home in central Leeds for half that. There is no way that a young family doing agricultural work could ever afford this. No homes are available to rent for miles. I know of only two friends who still work in Bishop Wilton. One is the village school’s head teacher and her husband runs his Dad’s recording business. They both live in York and commute back to the countryside every day.”

My positive case for the EU.

The expansion of the EU was the best thing that happened to Britain in my life. My experience picking strawberries.

https://www.tomforth.co.uk/strawberries

twistyizzy · 04/10/2024 13:47

Somanypiessolittletime · 04/10/2024 13:43

@twistyizzy I think you must have unfortunately missed my earlier question. What do YOU farm?

Why does it matter? So only if I farm something can i have an opinion?

twistyizzy · 04/10/2024 13:45

zileri · 04/10/2024 13:43

twistyizzy
Sorry, but the way you talked about pressure on schools and doctors from 'incomers' sounds exactly like Farage when he's talking about immigrants.

Everywhere - cities, farming areas, coastal areas, suburbia - has 'incomers' of some description. Whether they're moving from down the road, other parts of the UK or abroad. And everywhere has 'outgoers' too. Such is human history and always will be.

It's the truth though. Housing estates being built with no thought as to amenities and infrastructure = no svhool places, doctors full, no public transport so more traffic on the roads. All driven by greed of developers.

Somanypiessolittletime · 04/10/2024 13:43

@twistyizzy I think you must have unfortunately missed my earlier question. What do YOU farm?

zileri · 04/10/2024 13:43

twistyizzy
Sorry, but the way you talked about pressure on schools and doctors from 'incomers' sounds exactly like Farage when he's talking about immigrants.

Everywhere - cities, farming areas, coastal areas, suburbia - has 'incomers' of some description. Whether they're moving from down the road, other parts of the UK or abroad. And everywhere has 'outgoers' too. Such is human history and always will be.

twistyizzy · 04/10/2024 13:39

zileri · 04/10/2024 13:37

Yes of course farmers don't only produce meat. But those who do primarily produce meat will hopefully soon be few and far between and they will need to adapt as consumer tastes change.
Liverpool had to adapt when shipbuilding ended. The last coal fired power station had just closed. Mining towns had to adapt when we shifted away firm coal. And farmers will have to adapt as we shift away from meat farming practices, many of which are abhorrent. As humans evolve places change. Otherwise they become obsolete.

They are already doing that but I go back to my previous point, if there is no land to farm then there will be no farmers and we will all be eating food grown in labs. Not a dystopia I want.
However as you are so acutely prejudiced your opinion really doesn't matter to me

zileri · 04/10/2024 13:37

Yes of course farmers don't only produce meat. But those who do primarily produce meat will hopefully soon be few and far between and they will need to adapt as consumer tastes change.
Liverpool had to adapt when shipbuilding ended. The last coal fired power station had just closed. Mining towns had to adapt when we shifted away firm coal. And farmers will have to adapt as we shift away from meat farming practices, many of which are abhorrent. As humans evolve places change. Otherwise they become obsolete.

Blessedbunny · 04/10/2024 13:37

Agree. So parochial it’s awful really. Sort of like NIMBYism. Same sort of selfish me me me.

SundayBloodySunday · 04/10/2024 13:35

ArabellaScott · Today 13:12

So, I gather the proposal is that only rich people should live in the pretty places, while all the poor people should jolly well move to the 'less desirable' places and stop moaning about the loss of their ties to family and community.
Quite depressing, really.

No more depressing than having a ring block around desirable areas, for the few that have the fortune of being born in the place. It's ridiculous. You are hardly supporting a meritocracy.

twistyizzy · 04/10/2024 13:34

zileri · 04/10/2024 13:31

'' and put even more pressure on scarce local resources such as doctors and schools.'

Spoken like a true Brexiteer.

Oh Lord another sweeping assumption coming to the wrong conclusion. So because I live rurally and support farming I voted Brexit? Prejudiced much?!