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To detest people that think they own beautiful parts of the world?

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Bumpitybumper · 03/10/2024 14:19

I grew up in a very ugly and undesirable part of the country and now live in a tourist hotspot. I am becoming increasingly frustrated by people that are born and raised here trying to restrict tourism or stop 'outsiders' moving here. The houses are expensive here because it's such a lovely place to live but there isn't much employment except for from tourism. Despite this many locals that I know feel that tourism should be restricted as it makes the town extremely busy in high season. They also think housing should be subsidised for locals.

I feel that there are only so many beautiful places and those lucky enough to be born in them are no more entitled to live and enjoy them than the rest of us who by luck were born elsewhere. This would effectively condemn future people like me to live and visit only the less desirable of areas whilst my children could stay in this lovely area and be subsidised for doing so. It just feels incredibly unfair!

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independencefreedom · 04/10/2024 18:04

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 18:00

I am not the one who is dividing the world by whether an enterprise is economically viable. it is our capitalist society that we are all a part of. Love it or loathe it, this is reality.

A farmer or a fisherman is a business person. are you suggesting otherwise? Do you think they are a charity or social enterprise?

It's not the only reality though, it is? What about planning? What about the regulation of housing? As well as a capitalist world we live in a designed world where policies that favour sustainable community life have a place in many many countries.

louisianachild · 04/10/2024 18:03

Not sure I agree. I used to live in a tourist hotspot, my parents still live there and my gran lived there. I now live nearby.

Due to wealthier people moving here or buying second homes here, thus driving up house prices, young families are priced out and have to move away from their support network, jobs, families, friends. There are no rentals because every rental is an air bnb or holiday rental.

In holiday season the small supermarket is wiped by midmorning. My poor gran used to try to get up the street for 9am to make sure she could get milk! Obviously this was difficult for her. We did shopping for her but she understandably wanted to retain independence.

Parking was ridiculous - tourists parking over driveways was a huge issue.

I’m sure all of this has been said already, I haven’t read the full thread. But I think it’s really naive to say that property is simply expensive because it’s a pretty place to live, it’s a lot more nuanced than that and it’s understandable that some are angered by the issue.

Sunnysundayicecream · 04/10/2024 18:03

The more I read of your posts the sadder I feel. It sound like you have no love of your community and people in it. Hill farming is a part of what makes the countryside look like it does and is a part of my heritage (I am personally not a farmer, but grew up in a farming community). You are coming across as entitled, because you have money. Have some empathy for others, just as I have tried to shown for people who have moved into my community.

independencefreedom · 04/10/2024 18:03

schloss · 04/10/2024 17:55

I think you are showing your true colours now.

Seriously. Talk about completely missing the point. I never said farming is wholly good.

Funny how sustainability is championed as a virtue in case it interrupts her consumption of pretty countryside but the sustainability of local cultures is scoffed at. Completely entitled and selfish. And pretty telling that she characterises her home place as a shithole partly because of migrants being 'dumped' there while advocating for her own mobility, despite clearly dumping on the feelings of local people.

Most people accept they can't always get what they want by the time they're 5, perpetuating this whiney 'not fair they were born somewhere nice' toddlerdom into adulthood is so unseemly.

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 18:03

schloss · 04/10/2024 17:55

I think you are showing your true colours now.

And what are my true colours? I literally don't feel especially strongly either way about farming. It is a random tangent this thread has gone on. I simply don't think farmers or anyone else should be able to ring fence areas because they happen to currently occupy them. Judging by Labour's plans to remove the reliefs on family farms then I am not alone in thinking that family farms should always be exempt from the rules that apply to everyone else.

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YogaBearBasket · 04/10/2024 18:01

Pyroleus · 03/10/2024 14:50

The alternative viewpoint...

Leaving aside the second homes (which are a much bigger problem).

I am from a 'desirable' area (cold wet and midgy but it does have pretty mountains). My family is from here, and my ancestors fought for their right to stay (Highland Clearances). Historically this has been a very difficult place to live. Now technology makes it easier, everyone wants to live here. Funnily it's mostly people who have had lucrative careers elsewhere in the country who then want to buy houses with their capital acquired elsewhere and outbid local people who have generally poorly paid jobs because that's what the majority of jobs are here. Some inward movement is very welcome, but the scale of it is untenable. If this is allowed to go on unabated there will be no locals left. Whole swathes of the people I went to school with are unable to live here in the place they grew up.

My village and nearby villages are full of my parents, aunties, uncles, cousins, and my husband's too. I don't give a shiny shit about the pretty mountains - this is my home, the place I am from. Should I be forced to move away to allow you your equal 'right' to live here? The place where I know every rock and stream, where I know the vast majority of the people who live here, our shared history, our language, our entire lives? Because you think the mountains are pretty?

‘My village and nearby villages are full of my parents, aunties, uncles, cousins, and my husband's too’

These villages sound like somewhere where inbreeding is rife and strangers are not welcome. No thanks!

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 18:00

hairbearbunches · 04/10/2024 17:53

Anyone who divides the world into ‘economically viable’ and ‘economically unviable’ isn’t capable of grown up, nuanced thinking.

Margaret Thatcher subscribed to this view. How’s that working out for Britain?

I wonder what business the OP runs, that she can compare herself to farmers and fishermen?

I am not the one who is dividing the world by whether an enterprise is economically viable. it is our capitalist society that we are all a part of. Love it or loathe it, this is reality.

A farmer or a fisherman is a business person. are you suggesting otherwise? Do you think they are a charity or social enterprise?

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YogaBearBasket · 04/10/2024 17:57

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 03/10/2024 14:43

I agree with you 100%

And i also will never forget the attitudes of some people who lived in attractive places during Covid.

Agreed. I won’t visit Cornwall again after their attitude then. Which I think will please them. Don’t they call visitors Emmets?

schloss · 04/10/2024 17:55

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 17:51

You can be pro farming at an industry level whilst recognising that not every individual farm is viable even with substantial subsidy. It is the nature of the beast although you seem incapable of recognising nuance so I don't know why I'm wasting my time debating this with you. You can carry on believing that farming should be just about the only industry that isn't subject to local economic factors if you want but ultimately this does nobody any good, least of all the farmers.

Farming causes substantial damage to biodiversity and nature and there are very real ethical concerns about things like animal welfare. You are promoting it as a wholly good which is disingenuous in itself so forgive me if I won't take your self serving lecture on board.

I think you are showing your true colours now.

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 17:55

schloss · 04/10/2024 17:49

I would really like you to tell a hill farmer in upland areas of the UK, who is 5th or more generation to farm the area, where the stock is hefted that they should just move to another area as it is just a business.

I won't need to tell them. The economic reality of the viability of their business will decide if the family can continue to farm the area or not. If they can't afford to live in the area anymore then that will be that and the hills may well be returned to nature or farmed by somebody else. They have no automatic entitlement to farm those hills in the same way that none of us have an entitlement to any livelihood.

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hairbearbunches · 04/10/2024 17:53

Anyone who divides the world into ‘economically viable’ and ‘economically unviable’ isn’t capable of grown up, nuanced thinking.

Margaret Thatcher subscribed to this view. How’s that working out for Britain?

I wonder what business the OP runs, that she can compare herself to farmers and fishermen?

Festivecheer26 · 04/10/2024 17:53

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 17:23

I run a business. Farming is a business. Yes, I do understand about viability and how this can be impacted by location. Some businesses are not viable in some locations. It's as simple as that! Sometimes the nature of the location changes and this changes the viability of the business.

Anyone with a jot of business acumen understands this and you really don't want a load of unsustainable lame duck businesses. The hill farmer may well have to relocate as many businesses do every single day.

You’re surely winding us up OP. A farmer has to relocate because their farm is near an area that has become popular, driving up prices in recent years?

I’d love to know where you live now, from the way you are speaking and the way you dismissed @Pyroleus’s comments I don’t think it can be anywhere particularly rural.

Also loving your take on being privileged. I grew up in a pretty area very popular with hill walkers - there was one bus every 2 hours, no cinema, no swimming pool, the local school was terrible, there are barely any jobs and the phone signal was horrendous. As a teenager I couldn’t wait to get away. Possibly some of the local attitudes you talk about come from people knowing their children’s options are limited and being worried for their futures.

twistyizzy · 04/10/2024 17:53

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 17:51

You can be pro farming at an industry level whilst recognising that not every individual farm is viable even with substantial subsidy. It is the nature of the beast although you seem incapable of recognising nuance so I don't know why I'm wasting my time debating this with you. You can carry on believing that farming should be just about the only industry that isn't subject to local economic factors if you want but ultimately this does nobody any good, least of all the farmers.

Farming causes substantial damage to biodiversity and nature and there are very real ethical concerns about things like animal welfare. You are promoting it as a wholly good which is disingenuous in itself so forgive me if I won't take your self serving lecture on board.

Is that like your self serving lecture about people you "detest"?

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 17:51

independencefreedom · 04/10/2024 17:37

Anyone with a jot of business acumen realises that farming is reliant on people with a sense of stewardship of the land for future generations. Very little farming is 'viable' without subsidies but presumably you are so against any planning or state intervention that they might as well concrete over the farms, turn it all over to data farms, destroy all the beauty. And then where would you be? Your attitude is disgusting and ignorant - tourism and populations are managed all over the world, your disingenuous whining and 'detest' for people's real concerns is so selfish.

You can be pro farming at an industry level whilst recognising that not every individual farm is viable even with substantial subsidy. It is the nature of the beast although you seem incapable of recognising nuance so I don't know why I'm wasting my time debating this with you. You can carry on believing that farming should be just about the only industry that isn't subject to local economic factors if you want but ultimately this does nobody any good, least of all the farmers.

Farming causes substantial damage to biodiversity and nature and there are very real ethical concerns about things like animal welfare. You are promoting it as a wholly good which is disingenuous in itself so forgive me if I won't take your self serving lecture on board.

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schloss · 04/10/2024 17:49

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 17:23

I run a business. Farming is a business. Yes, I do understand about viability and how this can be impacted by location. Some businesses are not viable in some locations. It's as simple as that! Sometimes the nature of the location changes and this changes the viability of the business.

Anyone with a jot of business acumen understands this and you really don't want a load of unsustainable lame duck businesses. The hill farmer may well have to relocate as many businesses do every single day.

I would really like you to tell a hill farmer in upland areas of the UK, who is 5th or more generation to farm the area, where the stock is hefted that they should just move to another area as it is just a business.

twistyizzy · 04/10/2024 17:44

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 17:23

I run a business. Farming is a business. Yes, I do understand about viability and how this can be impacted by location. Some businesses are not viable in some locations. It's as simple as that! Sometimes the nature of the location changes and this changes the viability of the business.

Anyone with a jot of business acumen understands this and you really don't want a load of unsustainable lame duck businesses. The hill farmer may well have to relocate as many businesses do every single day.

Farming isn't a simple profit/loss business, it's so much more. It is about stewardship and preservation of a landscape. Trust me, many of our "pretty" areas wouldn't be like that without farming. You might run a business but you have zero clue about rural affairs or what goes into maintaining an area so that it attracts people like yourselves.

independencefreedom · 04/10/2024 17:37

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 17:23

I run a business. Farming is a business. Yes, I do understand about viability and how this can be impacted by location. Some businesses are not viable in some locations. It's as simple as that! Sometimes the nature of the location changes and this changes the viability of the business.

Anyone with a jot of business acumen understands this and you really don't want a load of unsustainable lame duck businesses. The hill farmer may well have to relocate as many businesses do every single day.

Anyone with a jot of business acumen realises that farming is reliant on people with a sense of stewardship of the land for future generations. Very little farming is 'viable' without subsidies but presumably you are so against any planning or state intervention that they might as well concrete over the farms, turn it all over to data farms, destroy all the beauty. And then where would you be? Your attitude is disgusting and ignorant - tourism and populations are managed all over the world, your disingenuous whining and 'detest' for people's real concerns is so selfish.

Chipsintheair · 04/10/2024 17:32

zileri · 03/10/2024 15:40

So if the son of a 'born and bred type' from Cornwall or similar gets amazing qualifications and decides to move to Spitalfields to take up his £200k banking job in the City, should the Spitalfields yokel locals moan that he is pushing up prices in Spitalfields, while their kids are having to move out into Essex? As if! Things work both ways, otherwise everyone is stuck.

But it's a massive problem in London, children not being able to afford to move out, generations living in overcrowded homes.

Chipsintheair · 04/10/2024 17:28

OldieButBaddie · 03/10/2024 15:24

London has the same problem!
Full of tourists, most people who live here now aren't London born and bred, they come in from other places in the UK or abroad for the prospects.
A lot of them bugger off when they have kids of course because housing is too expensive. But those born and bred here, their children can't afford to buy here and have to move away unless bank of M&D can help them out.

Big problem here in London, with schools closing as a result, too.

schloss · 04/10/2024 17:26

"Why should it be made harder for them because some people already here think they are entitled to live here forever?"

@Bumpitybumper Yet you feel it is fine for locals to possibly have to give way to your children - your children are entitled to live in your new area but locals are not.

I am beginning to think this whole thread is a way to garner opinions and information to enable a "the majority feel higher taxes, restrictions, bans etc on pretty areas, second homes,holiday lets, entitled and priviledge locals".

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 17:23

schloss · 04/10/2024 17:16

You really do not understand some areas do you. Unless you are a fisherman and a farmer you have no idea if it is economical viable - I am saying that locals who farm certain areas do not see the priviledge that you seem so sure they must be because they were born in a desirable area. Are you really saying hill farmers should move to another part of the country in order to farm so they make more money and also to sell their farm because they will be "quids in". Your comments astonish me.

I run a business. Farming is a business. Yes, I do understand about viability and how this can be impacted by location. Some businesses are not viable in some locations. It's as simple as that! Sometimes the nature of the location changes and this changes the viability of the business.

Anyone with a jot of business acumen understands this and you really don't want a load of unsustainable lame duck businesses. The hill farmer may well have to relocate as many businesses do every single day.

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Chipsintheair · 04/10/2024 17:20

Bumpitybumper · 03/10/2024 14:59

Sorry but I don't see why I should be stuck in a sink town because you know every beautiful rock and stream in your area. You are welcome to move your friends and family to the town I was born. I suspect you would have no problem affording the housing. Why isn't this an attractive prospect to you?

Btw I had to leave my family and friends to forge a better life for myself. Of course I would have loved to stay close to them but I knew that my local area couldn't give me what I needed if I wanted to reach my potential. Now the part of town that I used to live in has gentrified slightly and many of my friends can't afford to live there anymore. People moving due to economic factors isn't unique to beautiful places. It's just a fact of life for many people.

You sound like you're suggesting others should suffer because you have. It's a very common mentality, but not a helpful one.

schloss · 04/10/2024 17:19

zileri · 04/10/2024 13:28

@twistyizzy - farming communities will have to adapt regardless as people increasingly move away from meat, as they already are.

Some people move away from meat - go to the majority of the areas in the UK where meat is produced and you will find no move away from meat at all.

So the adaptation of farming communities is people who have no idea telling hill farmers to grow crops? Try driving a combine harvester up and down a mountain.

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 17:18

FrippEnos · 04/10/2024 16:52

The alternative is supporting unearned and state subsidised intergenerational privilege. I am shocked how many people can't understand this!

How to tell people you are entitled without telling people you are entitled.
JFC.

Alternatively, the government and companies could invest in these areas so that the younger generations can travel to work near home and get a decent wage for it. Whilst also improving the infrastructure of the area.

But the OP doesn't want this as they would then not have such a nice area to live in.

Are you insane? Are you forgetting I live here and have kids? Why on earth would I be against investment into the area? If anyone had a vested interest in this happening then it would be me. Unfortunately I live in the real world though and know the amount of investment required to achieve this would be unaffordable and quite frankly the government has other more pressing priorities.

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schloss · 04/10/2024 17:16

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 13:02

It is simply not economically possible for people to be traditional fishermen or farmers in expensive areas. The fishermen and farmers that once populated London learnt this early on as have many other generations of people in other towns and cities in this country and around the world. If you have a desperate desire to farm or fish then you have to go where these things are viable otherwise you will forever be impoverished and relying on state handouts to make your livelihood pay. It is the ultimate on entitlement to believe that anyone should be able to make a living in anyway that they see fit in any places they want to.

It absolutely is a privilege to live where lots of other people would love to live. Not only do you benefit from living in such a lovely place but you are at liberty to move to a cheaper and less desirable area and if you happen to own a house already you will be quids in.

You really do not understand some areas do you. Unless you are a fisherman and a farmer you have no idea if it is economical viable - I am saying that locals who farm certain areas do not see the priviledge that you seem so sure they must be because they were born in a desirable area. Are you really saying hill farmers should move to another part of the country in order to farm so they make more money and also to sell their farm because they will be "quids in". Your comments astonish me.