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To detest people that think they own beautiful parts of the world?

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Bumpitybumper · 03/10/2024 14:19

I grew up in a very ugly and undesirable part of the country and now live in a tourist hotspot. I am becoming increasingly frustrated by people that are born and raised here trying to restrict tourism or stop 'outsiders' moving here. The houses are expensive here because it's such a lovely place to live but there isn't much employment except for from tourism. Despite this many locals that I know feel that tourism should be restricted as it makes the town extremely busy in high season. They also think housing should be subsidised for locals.

I feel that there are only so many beautiful places and those lucky enough to be born in them are no more entitled to live and enjoy them than the rest of us who by luck were born elsewhere. This would effectively condemn future people like me to live and visit only the less desirable of areas whilst my children could stay in this lovely area and be subsidised for doing so. It just feels incredibly unfair!

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independencefreedom · 04/10/2024 22:56

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 18:42

Biodiversity is important. Rewilding is important. You dismiss this so easily and call me naive. The arguments are complex and nuanced but it certainly isn't just about somewhere just looking beautiful. this is hugely subjective!

I wouldn't sacrifice people's lives. Stop being so dramatic! Farmers with an unviable business don't die. Their children will go on to do other things. The world doesn't end. New traditions will be made and cultures will adapt. These areas can't become museums and monuments to the past.

These areas can't become museums and monuments to the past. And yet you want them to 're'wild - i.e. return to some putative natural past state, while denying a livelihood to people who farm there. Your arguments are so full of holes. It's such a colonial mindset - ignore or disparage local culture, think it's fine to dispossess people who you think can just move elsewhere, think that you're entitled to live wherever you want, that it should be returned to some Edenic state just to suit your particular aesthetic tastes and all the while denying other people's feelings as valid - even detestable. Ugh.

Festivecheer26 · 04/10/2024 22:15

YogaBearBasket · 04/10/2024 18:23

Do you ever go on holiday to well-known places? Do sight-seeing? Or are you Not Like Other Tourists and just go travelling in undiscovered places ;-)?

Come on, you know that’s not the point they were trying to make. As they clearly say, the infrastructure can’t manage the demand to the point that it’s detrimental/ dangerous.

Edinburgh is the same during August where you have people getting turfed out of properties so that landlords can rent out at massively inflated prices for the festival, roads and public spaces are closed, the bus network falls to pieces etc. There needs to be balance.

YogaBearBasket · 04/10/2024 21:01

FrippEnos · 04/10/2024 20:52

What a pleasant way to start a response.

Am I from the other end that you are from. I moved out of my "beautiful area" because people like you moved in to it and raised the house prices, complained about the local factories, farms, workforce and doing their best to shutdown the local economy.

Now I listen to those self same people whinging about how the town is either dying or dead.

So congratulations you and your type got exactly what you wanted, to move in and keep a lovely little area of beauty.

You can also look forward to your kids moving away and not coming back because they can't afford to.

Welcome to the reality that you have created.

Or the reality that your greedy local neighbours caused?

FrippEnos · 04/10/2024 20:52

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 17:18

Are you insane? Are you forgetting I live here and have kids? Why on earth would I be against investment into the area? If anyone had a vested interest in this happening then it would be me. Unfortunately I live in the real world though and know the amount of investment required to achieve this would be unaffordable and quite frankly the government has other more pressing priorities.

What a pleasant way to start a response.

Am I from the other end that you are from. I moved out of my "beautiful area" because people like you moved in to it and raised the house prices, complained about the local factories, farms, workforce and doing their best to shutdown the local economy.

Now I listen to those self same people whinging about how the town is either dying or dead.

So congratulations you and your type got exactly what you wanted, to move in and keep a lovely little area of beauty.

You can also look forward to your kids moving away and not coming back because they can't afford to.

Welcome to the reality that you have created.

Yelloworangetomato · 04/10/2024 20:30

MarkWithaC · 04/10/2024 09:07

You don't only get cohesive high-trust communities in remote areas or those where only members of the same fairly few families have lived there for generations.

Where else do you get them

Chipsintheair · 04/10/2024 19:51

Somanypiessolittletime · 04/10/2024 12:52

I don't know which part of London you live in but I can assure you that any part is too expensive for the average youngster these days. If you're in a "highly desirable" part then it'll be out of the reach of most middle aged ones too! So that means people have to move out to places that are cheaper because that's ALL THEY CAN AFFORD. For the most part it's not because the area is "more desirable".
And even if it is just because it's just nicer - you'd have a hell of a job turning say, the Aylesbury estate, into something resembling the Peak District if it's green hills you're desperate for!

Yes, it's been an ongoing problem here for a long time. Most of my friends were forced to move far away. Those who remain are in their parents' homes. It's normal here in London for middle-aged people to live with their parents.

hairbearbunches · 04/10/2024 19:35

@Bumpitybumper don't need to tantrum to get what I want as I already have it. I live in a beautiful area and enjoy it everyday. I will fight for everyone in this country to have an equal opportunity to live somewhere lovely irrespective of where they happen to have been born.

Ffs, that’s the complete opposite of what you’re arguing. Equal opportunity only exists in your world if you have the money to make it so. Money might make the world go round but those who know the price of everything and the value of nothing are poorer than they will ever know.

independencefreedom · 04/10/2024 18:53

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 18:13

Fact check:
I didn't call my home town a shit hole
I didn't say migrants had done anything detrimental to the town. So many on this thread have banged on about preserving the local culture in these pretty places and the importance of this as if the culture of these places is superior to the culture of places like my hometown. I happen to think the migrants have enriched the culture of my hometown and people like me have enhanced the culture in the place I currently live. Change and diversity isn't a bad thing and cultures can adapt. Don't you dare paint me as some xenophobe when nothing I have posted indicates this!

I don't need to tantrum to get what I want as I already have it. I live in a beautiful area and enjoy it everyday. I will fight for everyone in this country to have an equal opportunity to live somewhere lovely irrespective of where they happen to have been born.

everyone in this country to have an equal opportunity
Such bullshit. You forgot to add 'if they can afford it'

schloss · 04/10/2024 18:53

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 18:42

Biodiversity is important. Rewilding is important. You dismiss this so easily and call me naive. The arguments are complex and nuanced but it certainly isn't just about somewhere just looking beautiful. this is hugely subjective!

I wouldn't sacrifice people's lives. Stop being so dramatic! Farmers with an unviable business don't die. Their children will go on to do other things. The world doesn't end. New traditions will be made and cultures will adapt. These areas can't become museums and monuments to the past.

Your dramatic is my realism, you have no idea about hill farming and how peoples lives are all about their stock and farming. You only have to go back to the foot and mouth outbreak to see what the loss of stock did. Many farmers committee suicide. For many they never recovered in numerous ways. But now it is all so easy to say rewilding should happen, people should eat less meat, farmers in beautiful areas are priviledged and rich. Such simple words with no understanding of the effects it would really have on farming communities.

To bring the point back to tourism, for many farmers it is tourism which enabled them to continue after foot and mouth whilst dealing with the length of time it takes to recreate herds and flocks. Hefting doesn't happen overnight, yet it can be destroyed overnight.

If farmers sold property to incomers at high prices - was that wrong in order to economically survive?

EdgeOfSixty · 04/10/2024 18:50

Inslopia · 03/10/2024 14:52

I think it’s entirely reasonable for people who were born and raised in a particular area to be able to buy or rent a property in that area, if that’s what they want to do. They may wish to be near family and friends. They may have work locally. They may simply want to stay where it’s familiar.

no one seems to think this about Londoners though.

And then they get criticised for moving to other areas when they are priced out of their own

This is true my DC in their 20s, graduates working in healthcare can't afford to buy in London where they were brought up.
Property prices have been inflated by foreign investors buying up huge swathes of central London and quite often leaving these properties empty. If they aren't living here then they're contributing to the local economy either. Maybe foreign nationals shouldn't be permitted to buy property in the UK? Not sure what the solution is. Definitely increase council tax on unoccupied property. However wealthy foreign nationals probably would be bothered by that because they can afford it.

ArabellaScott · 04/10/2024 18:49

twistyizzy · 04/10/2024 18:23

And then who would produce our food? Or do you want to rely on overseas imports which have a much higher environmental cost?
You are obviously someone who views the countryside as a picture postcard amusement centre rather than a working environment.

Yes. This is a very superficial and disconnected view of rural areas. A place that should be pristine and aesthetically pleasing for those who can afford to live there, rather than being the home and workplace of many.

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 18:42

schloss · 04/10/2024 18:37

"Farming is controversial and really a subject for another thread. Farming has shaped our countryside but it would also be beautiful if nature were to take over"

@Bumpitybumper Your comment above shows your naivety - rural areas and farming are totally linked, and your suggestion that farming areas are left to let nature take over confirms it. Back to the upland areas of the UK, what would they look like if there were no sheep on them - totally overgrown with bracken, totally inaccessible and not viable for anything other than to be "beautiful" to people like you who think farming is controversial. You would sacrifice people lives, generations and jobs, traditions and cultures - but maybe that is what you really want.

Biodiversity is important. Rewilding is important. You dismiss this so easily and call me naive. The arguments are complex and nuanced but it certainly isn't just about somewhere just looking beautiful. this is hugely subjective!

I wouldn't sacrifice people's lives. Stop being so dramatic! Farmers with an unviable business don't die. Their children will go on to do other things. The world doesn't end. New traditions will be made and cultures will adapt. These areas can't become museums and monuments to the past.

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schloss · 04/10/2024 18:37

"Farming is controversial and really a subject for another thread. Farming has shaped our countryside but it would also be beautiful if nature were to take over"

@Bumpitybumper Your comment above shows your naivety - rural areas and farming are totally linked, and your suggestion that farming areas are left to let nature take over confirms it. Back to the upland areas of the UK, what would they look like if there were no sheep on them - totally overgrown with bracken, totally inaccessible and not viable for anything other than to be "beautiful" to people like you who think farming is controversial. You would sacrifice people lives, generations and jobs, traditions and cultures - but maybe that is what you really want.

Mirrorxxx · 04/10/2024 18:33

I agree. You can’t own an area. And most people I know left the area they were born in to find better jobs. You don’t have a right to live where you were born

YogaBearBasket · 04/10/2024 18:30

KnottedTwine · 03/10/2024 19:52

Two tier pricing is common in other places. We are planning a trip to Fuerteventura soon and looked at ferry prices. For a non-resident to travel Fuerteventura to Lanzarote it's 17 euros one way as a foot passenger. For a resident, the same journey is 4.25 euros - 25% of the price.

Nobody is saying we don't want tourists in rural Scotland. We welcome s manageable number of tourists, but some of the most popular places are overrun to the stage that ambulances can't get through.

That and Instagram - every sodding tourist wants to do the same as eleven billion other tourists in Scotland which is Edinburgh - Glencoe - Skye - Inverness - Edinburgh and nowhere else gets a look in. They are a bit like sheep.

Good job you aren’t a sheep. No tourists ever go to Fuertaventura 😂

YogaBearBasket · 04/10/2024 18:27

Globules · 03/10/2024 19:32

Not read the whole thread, but our town has had a massive influx of Londoners. They don't want to move here for the beauty, they want to move here for the house prices.

My ex-Londoner boss invited me to his Christmas party last year. All the people, bar me, had moved from London. All of them cited their reason for moving as the ability to purchase a large family home and a 2 bed rental flat here for the same price as a 3 bed in London. One of my bosses neighbours lives in his house for 4 weeks in August. The rest of the year it's empty.

It made me sick. So many of my friends can't afford to buy here, as all these Londoners have pushed the price of a house skyhigh.y

Again, why do people in your community sell to Londoners rather than locals? It’s not compulsory.

YogaBearBasket · 04/10/2024 18:25

ttcat37 · 03/10/2024 18:49

We protected it very well thanks before the influx. Unfortunately we don’t have an interview process to keep twats out before buying a house here.

Why do your greedy neighbours choose to sell to twats rather than locals?

YogaBearBasket · 04/10/2024 18:23

KnottedTwine · 03/10/2024 18:32

The problem is rapidly becoming volume.

Skye is a perfect example. The population of Skye is just over 10,000. The island gets 1 million visitors a year, mostly between April and September. This leads to absolute bedlam as the infrastructure just can't cope with thousands of cars on wee single track roads, driven often by people who have no clue about driving on the left, and even less of a clue about how to use passing places.

Nobody wants people not to visit Skye, ever. But too many tourists is a HUGE problem. The tourist tax will help a bit but will only cover people staying overnight on the island. Personally I'd prefer to see a £50 tax on each non-resident vehicle crossing the bridge.

Over-tourism is ruining the beauty spots everyone wants to see. That and Instagram - every sodding tourist wants to do the same as eleven billion other tourists in Scotland which is Edinburgh - Glencoe - Skye - Inverness - Edinburgh and nowhere else gets a look in. They are a bit like sheep.

Do you ever go on holiday to well-known places? Do sight-seeing? Or are you Not Like Other Tourists and just go travelling in undiscovered places ;-)?

twistyizzy · 04/10/2024 18:23

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 18:17

I love lots of people in my community. The community isn't one homogenous mass who all want outsiders banned and local people prioritised.

Farming is controversial and really a subject for another thread. Farming has shaped our countryside but it would also be beautiful if nature were to take over.

And then who would produce our food? Or do you want to rely on overseas imports which have a much higher environmental cost?
You are obviously someone who views the countryside as a picture postcard amusement centre rather than a working environment.

Somanypiessolittletime · 04/10/2024 18:19

Well maybe all the Londoners will stop moving to your towns and buying up the property when everyone stops moving to London and buying the property there! We have exactly the same issue.

YogaBearBasket · 04/10/2024 18:17

candlewhickgreen · 03/10/2024 17:19

I'm guessing you've got a second home.

Do you generally have a parochial outlook on life?

Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 18:17

Sunnysundayicecream · 04/10/2024 18:03

The more I read of your posts the sadder I feel. It sound like you have no love of your community and people in it. Hill farming is a part of what makes the countryside look like it does and is a part of my heritage (I am personally not a farmer, but grew up in a farming community). You are coming across as entitled, because you have money. Have some empathy for others, just as I have tried to shown for people who have moved into my community.

I love lots of people in my community. The community isn't one homogenous mass who all want outsiders banned and local people prioritised.

Farming is controversial and really a subject for another thread. Farming has shaped our countryside but it would also be beautiful if nature were to take over.

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Bumpitybumper · 04/10/2024 18:13

independencefreedom · 04/10/2024 18:03

Seriously. Talk about completely missing the point. I never said farming is wholly good.

Funny how sustainability is championed as a virtue in case it interrupts her consumption of pretty countryside but the sustainability of local cultures is scoffed at. Completely entitled and selfish. And pretty telling that she characterises her home place as a shithole partly because of migrants being 'dumped' there while advocating for her own mobility, despite clearly dumping on the feelings of local people.

Most people accept they can't always get what they want by the time they're 5, perpetuating this whiney 'not fair they were born somewhere nice' toddlerdom into adulthood is so unseemly.

Fact check:
I didn't call my home town a shit hole
I didn't say migrants had done anything detrimental to the town. So many on this thread have banged on about preserving the local culture in these pretty places and the importance of this as if the culture of these places is superior to the culture of places like my hometown. I happen to think the migrants have enriched the culture of my hometown and people like me have enhanced the culture in the place I currently live. Change and diversity isn't a bad thing and cultures can adapt. Don't you dare paint me as some xenophobe when nothing I have posted indicates this!

I don't need to tantrum to get what I want as I already have it. I live in a beautiful area and enjoy it everyday. I will fight for everyone in this country to have an equal opportunity to live somewhere lovely irrespective of where they happen to have been born.

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YogaBearBasket · 04/10/2024 18:11

ViciousCurrentBun · 03/10/2024 16:42

Second homes should be completely banned, I grew up in a rural idyll. Now it’s over run with wealthy Londoners who stay there for a few weeks of the year. It was always a problem but it’s so much worse since covid.

Why did your neighbours sell to Londoners rather than choose someone local?

YogaBearBasket · 04/10/2024 18:06

Wedandrite · 03/10/2024 16:03

Who is selling the holiday homes to the outsiders though?

Exactly. If always amuses me that actually the issue is with greedy ‘locals’ selling to ‘outsiders’ at inflated rates rather than to those in their communities.