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To detest people that think they own beautiful parts of the world?

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Bumpitybumper · 03/10/2024 14:19

I grew up in a very ugly and undesirable part of the country and now live in a tourist hotspot. I am becoming increasingly frustrated by people that are born and raised here trying to restrict tourism or stop 'outsiders' moving here. The houses are expensive here because it's such a lovely place to live but there isn't much employment except for from tourism. Despite this many locals that I know feel that tourism should be restricted as it makes the town extremely busy in high season. They also think housing should be subsidised for locals.

I feel that there are only so many beautiful places and those lucky enough to be born in them are no more entitled to live and enjoy them than the rest of us who by luck were born elsewhere. This would effectively condemn future people like me to live and visit only the less desirable of areas whilst my children could stay in this lovely area and be subsidised for doing so. It just feels incredibly unfair!

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citylightsbehind · 03/10/2024 18:15

MarkWithaC · 03/10/2024 18:13

Phrases like 'contributes to his native culture' sound frighteningly close to the Farage/Reform script of 'indigenous people of Britain' to me.

I was actually thinking of the people who stand up in the audience on question time supporting Farage-think when I referred to bloodlines that could use some outside dilution 😅

Bumpitybumper · 03/10/2024 18:14

ThePure · 03/10/2024 17:55

And what of people born in an 'ugly and undesirable' part of the world

What makes you more entitled to live in the U.K. than them just because you were lucky to be born here....

I mean that's the logical extension of your argument isn't it?

Not necessarily because we are one country. I think it's reasonable to assume that one would have a lot more freedom of movement and employment etc in their own country than any other. It's hardly a groundbreaking concept.

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WithManyTot · 03/10/2024 18:13

We live in a tourist hot spot. Within our post code and the neighbouring one there are multi-million pound beach houses to small terrace houses costing <100K. A few of the multi-milion pound houses are second homes, most are owned by locals. A few of the cheap terraces are second homes, most are owned by locals. Same for the houses between.

In the summer it is busy with tourists. There is no other industry here, so I welcome, and profit from them. In the winter the facilities, the nice cafes, etc are quite and I visit them and make the most of them. They would not be here with out the tourists in summer.

Most of the locals who own expensive houses left, 'earned their fortune' and returned. I expect my children will do the same. None of the seasonal cleaners on minimum wage are homeless, but they don't live in multi-million pound beach houses. If the local nationalist papers are to be believed, that is what they seem to think they are entitled to.......

MarkWithaC · 03/10/2024 18:13

citylightsbehind · 03/10/2024 18:10

@Pyroleus

While I support your desire to live here, if pushed to choose between you (who likes looking at the pretty mountains) and John from down the road (whose entire family is here and who grew up here and lives and contributes to his native culture) I'm choosing John.

That's your right, although you don't necessarily know how much an incomer would contribute (there are certainly some bloodlines in this country that could do with a bit of dilution).

But the fact is, John and the pretty mountain people are unlikely to be equal applicants and when it comes down to it. When they can sell for 3 or 4 times what John can pay, a lot of people decide the cash can be of more use to their kids than keeping the culture and area pure. No one's obligated to take the higher offer.

Phrases like 'contributes to his native culture' sound frighteningly close to the Farage/Reform script of 'indigenous people of Britain' to me.

citylightsbehind · 03/10/2024 18:10

@Pyroleus

While I support your desire to live here, if pushed to choose between you (who likes looking at the pretty mountains) and John from down the road (whose entire family is here and who grew up here and lives and contributes to his native culture) I'm choosing John.

That's your right, although you don't necessarily know how much an incomer would contribute (there are certainly some bloodlines in this country that could do with a bit of dilution).

But the fact is, John and the pretty mountain people are unlikely to be equal applicants and when it comes down to it. When they can sell for 3 or 4 times what John can pay, a lot of people decide the cash can be of more use to their kids than keeping the culture and area pure. No one's obligated to take the higher offer.

easylikeasundaymorn · 03/10/2024 18:09

I generally agree with the idea that just because you were born somewhere doesn't mean you deserve to live there forever. Strangely nobody seems to complain when it's the other way and people move to big cities for work.

But sometimes it's not just 'a beautiful part' of the country it's a specific way of life and heritage. A few people have mentioned the very high ctax in part of wales, but when you get to a point where welsh-speaking locals can't afford to live in those areas anymore so the area goes from 90% welsh speaking, to 50% to 10%, you risk a language and way of life that has been in place for hundreds of years dying out completely - and once it's gone it's almost impossible to bring back.

Also without enough locals living nearby to staff the facilities and support them through the off season, eventually the things that make the places desirable for tourists won't be viable (shops, restaurants, takeaways, surfing lessons) and then it will just be a 'beautiful place' without any resources.

Like everything else, surely it's balance?

scatters2004 · 03/10/2024 18:08

garlictwist · 03/10/2024 14:30

I agree! I grew up in and still live in the Lake District. People resent the tourists but there wouldn't be any jobs without them. Plus - no one owns an area and people have the right to travel and visit wherever they like.

Me too, born and bred in Cumbria.

We know it's not all glitz and glamour especially when it's raining, but tourism is a lot of businesses bread and butter round here and that's fine.

venus7 · 03/10/2024 18:06

Bumpitybumper · 03/10/2024 14:36

But what about people that are born and raised in areas that are less desirable and want to move to these desirable areas? Assuming that there is a very limited housing supply (which there usually is in these kinds of places) then why should locals get preference just because they were lucky enough to have been born there? I just think this is the ultimate in entitlement and entrenching generational privilege.

We all have our reasons for wanting to live somewhere and I don't think it's fair that locals are assumed to have more valid reasons. I also think holiday homes are fine if in use for large chunks of time. Without them then the tourist trade would really suffer as lots of people simply don't want hotels anymore

Then why should people coming from places with more employment/higher wages be able to outbid locals for property? Luck of birth comes in all kinds of ways.

Button28384738 · 03/10/2024 18:05

I disagree, housing and holiday lets should be controlled so that locals can afford to live in the area they were born.
But I think "outsiders" who want to move to the area full time and contribute should be welcome.
People also do welcome tourists but tourists are becoming increasingly rude, inconsiderate and messy - respectful tourists have always been welcomed

Fluufer · 03/10/2024 18:05

ThePure · 03/10/2024 18:01

My point is that if it's OK to migrate within a country then logically it's OK to migrate between them. I can't see how you can be in favour of one without the other and yet so many people are anti immigration

Has it occurred to you that those opposing opinions might not be held by the same people?

feellikeanalien · 03/10/2024 18:04

The sale of council housing has also contributed to this. Even in chocolate box villages there always used to be some council properties. I live in a very rural village in a fairly touristy part of the world. The street just along from my house used to to be solely council properties ( probably about 20 of them). Most are now in private ownership.

The bottom line is that if you have money you have a lot more choice than those who do not but not everyone can just get a higher paying job and work to afford an expensive property. It used to be that council properties were available for those who were on lower incomes but this is not so much the case now, especially in more "desirable" areas of the country so more and more people are being forced out. As always those on lower incomes have to make way for the wealthy. It has always been this way (Highland Clearances anyone?) but because of the terrible state of housing in the UK and the ever increasing gap in wealth between rich and poor it has become so much worse.

Gentrification affects all areas of the country especially in London. When I lived there in the 80s I remember a friend buying a 2 bed mansion flat in Balham for £60,000. We all joked about her being brave for living there. I imagine it's probably worth 10 times the amount now and the average first time buyer could never afford that.

There are so many strands to this problem but one thing is for certain the housing situation is a mess.

hairbearbunches · 03/10/2024 18:03

Bumpitybumper · 03/10/2024 18:01

Look up where the net contributors from taxation come from by region.

It’s the capital city. It’s where most company HQs are.

Fluufer · 03/10/2024 18:01

hairbearbunches · 03/10/2024 17:59

State subsidies are disproportionately funded by Londoners? FFS, I’ve heard it all now.

They earn more, so pay more tax. They disproportionately fund everything technically.

ThePure · 03/10/2024 18:01

My point is that if it's OK to migrate within a country then logically it's OK to migrate between them. I can't see how you can be in favour of one without the other and yet so many people are anti immigration

Bumpitybumper · 03/10/2024 18:01

hairbearbunches · 03/10/2024 17:59

State subsidies are disproportionately funded by Londoners? FFS, I’ve heard it all now.

Look up where the net contributors from taxation come from by region.

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ArabellaScott · 03/10/2024 18:01

independencefreedom · 03/10/2024 17:51

You just keep talking about 'attractiveness' but you're completely ignoring the other values that people from a place might connect with it, the most significant of which is a sense of home and belonging. Many people in the UK identify almost more strongly with their local area, region or city than with their nationality. To be priced out of that or disconnected from it can be extremely painful. You should try to be more empathetic instead of insisting that you're completely right. It's a really complex situation.

Indeed. Lots of very picturesque places have deep seated problems with poverty, unemployment, or lack of services, for example.

Of course tourists and visitors value the place for its scenery, but people who've lived there longer often are grappling with other problems that may be exacerbated by more tourists or, for example, retirees adding strain to already stretched health services. And may value their home for family and friends as much as for the prettiness of the place.

hairbearbunches · 03/10/2024 17:59

State subsidies are disproportionately funded by Londoners? FFS, I’ve heard it all now.

schloss · 03/10/2024 17:59

Bumpitybumper · 03/10/2024 17:38

I never said there shouldn't be affordable housing just that locals shouldn't necessarily be prioritised for this affordable housing.

Affordable housing, at least here, is for those who prove a connection or need to the area, so yes it means locals but also will cover those who work here. Many of the restrictions on the local housing say if a person can provide proof they are moving for a local job then they can rent or purchase the property subject to the restrictions.

The law of averages say it will more likely be locals though just by them being local! There is nothing wrong with that. The difficulty arises when the housing is oversubscribed and someone has to decide on the local v incomer coming to work - whatever decision is made someone is going to be unhappy.

Fluufer · 03/10/2024 17:57

ThePure · 03/10/2024 17:55

And what of people born in an 'ugly and undesirable' part of the world

What makes you more entitled to live in the U.K. than them just because you were lucky to be born here....

I mean that's the logical extension of your argument isn't it?

That's called migration, also been happening since the dawn of time. People have plenty of opinions on it already.

ThePure · 03/10/2024 17:55

And what of people born in an 'ugly and undesirable' part of the world

What makes you more entitled to live in the U.K. than them just because you were lucky to be born here....

I mean that's the logical extension of your argument isn't it?

Bumpitybumper · 03/10/2024 17:53

independencefreedom · 03/10/2024 17:43

But maybe people born there feel their wealth is their being born somewhere beautiful like a rich person is born with access to money. And yes, you can ask the state to step in regarding money if you lose it all. It's social welfare.

I'm not sure what you mean by 'ascertaining'.

Everywhere needs proper oversight of planning, and in some countries that includes not only the physical but also social environment. In Singapore, foreigners pay massive tax on property and cars unlike the locals, most nation states prioritise their civilian population over others. this is just happening at a more local level - and even then, some form of prioritising locals happens in plenty of places - for example, planning permission for new build houses is only given to people who have demonstrated local links in certain parts of Ireland and so on.

You sound terribly angry and disrespectful of the local community as you seem completely unable to understand their perspective.

But foreigners do not pay to subsidise Singaporeans to live in Singapore. That's why these policies work better on a national level.

In this country, places like Cornwall receive a huge amount of state subsidy. This is disproportionately funded by the same Londoners that the locals want to stop visiting Cornwall or buying homes there.

I am angry but I am not disrespectful to the local community as I am part of it. The local community has evolved to include outsiders like me.

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hairbearbunches · 03/10/2024 17:51

MarkWithaC · 03/10/2024 17:45

How about in the industrial revolution? I don't think everyone stayed put in the countryside then.

And they weren’t buying houses either. Majority rented. You’re comparing apples with pears.

independencefreedom · 03/10/2024 17:51

You just keep talking about 'attractiveness' but you're completely ignoring the other values that people from a place might connect with it, the most significant of which is a sense of home and belonging. Many people in the UK identify almost more strongly with their local area, region or city than with their nationality. To be priced out of that or disconnected from it can be extremely painful. You should try to be more empathetic instead of insisting that you're completely right. It's a really complex situation.

GrimDamnFanjo · 03/10/2024 17:50

zileri · 03/10/2024 15:33

People who moan about price rises in their area - what do you think happens in London? How do you think young people buy their first home 'near to their family and the community they drew up in' in parts of London. where a one bed flat is £500k? Answer - they don't. They have to move away.

Nobody or their children has a right to live anywhere. Nobody owns anywhere. Prices rise with demand - think yourselves lucky if your house prices rocket. Would you rather live somewhere in negative equity?

And long time Londoners will recall the East End borough who brought in a policy which gave an advantage to existing family members to access social housing.
This was found to be discrimination.

Saschka · 03/10/2024 17:50

Triffid1 · 03/10/2024 14:36

They should take the appraoch we take in Cape Town: tourists are welcome, we love to take their money, we'll happily rent them out expensive apartments and hotels and lay on all kinds of fabulous things they'll love to spend money on.... but they will never be one of us and even if they move here, we will look down on them forever ++

++ obviously, while this is largely true, I'm actually being facetious. Cape Townians can be right wankers and ridiculously cliquey, even if I am one (although that might explain why I don't live there anymore!) Grin

Don’t worry, UK villages already have perfected this one. DM has lived in the same village since 1987, and she is still “an incomer from the new housing estate”.