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To report this car?

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essenrjal · 02/10/2024 21:39

I live in an awkward shaped street. One of my neighbours is very selfish with her driving/parking. She flies round the corners when coming and going and just abandons her car across the pavement. There would be enough parking for everyone if she parked properly but she often takes up a couple of spaces due to the silly ways she leaves her car.

Anyway, this car has now been without a valid MOT for a week. She drives around with her young son in it all of the time.

AIBU to report her car for having no MOT with the hope that she'll get a fine and maybe decide to shape up a little bit?
I don't want to cause issues for myself as I live alone and she's quite the nuisance as it is so I don't want to give the police my details but also don't think crime stoppers would be much use.

OP posts:
PuppyMonkey · 03/10/2024 12:18

Can’t stand a grass.

Grin

MN has gone full Phil Mitchell today, I see.

Shakeoffyourchains · 03/10/2024 12:17

StormingNorman · 02/10/2024 21:43

Its really none of your business and you do t care about her son, that’s your excuse for making yourself feel better about reporting her.

Just go and speak to her.

Can’t stand a grass.

Selfish pricks who think laws don't apply to them and endanger other road users by driving unroadworthy cars are infinitely worse tbh.

Seashellssanctuary · 03/10/2024 12:11

Londonrach1 · 02/10/2024 21:52

Report her. Can't believe the replies. Her insurance is invalid.

That is factually incorrect. Anybody insurance is still valid for third party

LostTheMarble · 03/10/2024 11:55

I’m on a FB page that shames bad parking and the response is so similar to this thread. Most people think being a twat with your car isn’t ok. Yet others are so affronted that others notice shit parking/driving/car maintenance like it’s apparently not the business of other road users or pedestrians that these types of people are a possible danger or at least inconsiderate wankers who need to be called out. A car is not something to fuck around with, use it and look after it properly or don’t have one.

Social services is way too far, I’d give her a bit more time then report to 101. My car passed its last mot with flying colours but since then had a tyre issue and now one with the light switch. This is why they need to be MOT’d and serviced intermittently!

Coruscations · 03/10/2024 11:45

StormingNorman · 02/10/2024 21:43

Its really none of your business and you do t care about her son, that’s your excuse for making yourself feel better about reporting her.

Just go and speak to her.

Can’t stand a grass.

Why would you object to people reporting crimes - unless you're committing them yourself?

Isobel201 · 03/10/2024 11:39

yeah report her to the DVSA, you can do it anonymously. I reported someone who had abandoned an old ice cream van near where I used to park and live. Its not just the MOT, it invalidates her insurance.

StolenChanel · 03/10/2024 11:27

Copperoliverbear · 03/10/2024 00:24

Report her to police, social services and Dvla x

Social Services? Because her MOT has run out? Please tell me you’re taking the piss.

Floralnomad · 03/10/2024 11:26

Definitely report her , it is not about being a ‘grass’ . I don’t get why it’s strange to check online , it takes a few seconds on your phone .

StolenChanel · 03/10/2024 11:23

essenrjal · 02/10/2024 21:42

Yes I have checked online and it has already expired.

This is such a strange thing to do.

ThatsNotMyTeen · 03/10/2024 11:22

I’d report but based on experience would
expect nothing to happen

Shade17 · 03/10/2024 11:20

They must do an awful lot of miles.

Are you joking? Most cars doing average annual mileage will need tyres and possibly brakes before they’re 3 years old. I consider myself to be doing well if I get 10k miles out of a pair of tyres on a driven axle.

twomanyfrogsinabox · 03/10/2024 11:13

BourbonsAreOverated · 03/10/2024 10:50

I cannot tell you how many under three year old cars I’ve seen that need new tyres.
so many people ignore them.

If you check a reg number on the mot checker you can see the advisories. It’s more unusual for the first mot to be clear of them than usual. Obviously not every single one, but so many have things flagged like tyres, brakes, play in bushes. It’s a great way of checking if you should buy a 2nd hand car or not, come up repeated on the second one and the cars probably been poorly maintained

They must do an awful lot of miles. Did you check the tread depth across the tyre? It's not something you can easily tell just from passing, unless the tyres are bald. The limit is 1.6 mm minimum depth across threequarters of the tread, best to replace before you reach that though. Advisory usually means it will be OK until the next MOT and possibly still OK then, just something to keep an eye on.

Shade17 · 03/10/2024 10:51

Paganpentacle · 03/10/2024 10:44

No MOT invalidates your insurance....

Not necessarily. Only if your insurance policy states that it must have a valid MOT, none of mine state that, only that it must be roadworthy. Just because a car has no MOT doesn’t mean it’s roadworthy and vice versa. Most of the time when someone crashes a car without an MOT the insurance will pay out as usual but using a reduced value for the car commensurate with its MOT status.

BourbonsAreOverated · 03/10/2024 10:50

twomanyfrogsinabox · 03/10/2024 10:09

True but at least it has been checked within the past year. New cars should be OK for most things covered by the MOT, and because services are usually carried out on new cars to preserve the resale value (and often included in the sales package) they mostly do get checked over yearly.

I cannot tell you how many under three year old cars I’ve seen that need new tyres.
so many people ignore them.

If you check a reg number on the mot checker you can see the advisories. It’s more unusual for the first mot to be clear of them than usual. Obviously not every single one, but so many have things flagged like tyres, brakes, play in bushes. It’s a great way of checking if you should buy a 2nd hand car or not, come up repeated on the second one and the cars probably been poorly maintained

LadyLolaRuben · 03/10/2024 10:47

The bottom line is she's an inconsiderate pain in the ass. Reporting her may help curtail her attitude so I'd just do it OP. It's her own fault as you can't reason with her direct so let the authorities do it. Don't give it a second thought

BurbageBrook · 03/10/2024 10:45

Yep, do it.

Paganpentacle · 03/10/2024 10:44

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No MOT invalidates your insurance....

Theoriginalmrscillianmurphy · 03/10/2024 10:42

Get a life will ya.

You're not doing this out of concern.

GuestWW · 03/10/2024 10:42

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no MOT means no insurance

Apollo365 · 03/10/2024 10:41

There is a SORN car parked half in a disabled bay outside my house right now

Apollo365 · 03/10/2024 10:40

Report, wtf is wrong with people. Why should they get away with driving illegally. Stuff like this makes me angry.

wonkeydonkey123 · 03/10/2024 10:39

just start parking where she parks and how she parks, get the neighbours to do the same and when she complains tell her

OldTinHat · 03/10/2024 10:36

I had (and have again) reported a car parked in a disabled bay, marked with white lines, so a courtesy space, outside my house. I had to register my blue badge and car reg to the local council for that bay.

No MOT, tax. The current car has the front missing off it. No bodywork, bumper, bonnet, number plate. And yes, anyone can check the tax and MOT status of a car.

All these PPs who are saying about being a snitch, a curtain twitcher, nothing better to do can just fuck off imo. I don't even know who owns the cars that have been dumped outside my house so a 'friendly word' isn't going to help.

There's a website called Fix My Street, OP, where you can report things to your local council. I did this with car #1 and it had a ticket on within 24hrs. It was soon shifted. I didn't report that for about 3wks though. Current car has been there for 10days.

Sending you support!

TinkerTiger · 03/10/2024 10:24

StormingNorman · 02/10/2024 21:41

How do you know she doesn’t have an MOT? I thought you could only find out if you checked online.

...isn't it obvious then that the OP checked online?

twomanyfrogsinabox · 03/10/2024 10:24

BourbonsAreOverated · 03/10/2024 10:04

This

tyres being a massive one. They are the only point of contact with the road, yet plenty of people ignore them, even with the threat of 3 points a wheel

Tyres are checked for physically soundness, pressure and tread thickness at the MOT. But you should check them yourselves for pressure, tread and damage routinely between MOTs.