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Was the Subway Sandwich Artist being unreasonable?

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SandwichArtist · 02/10/2024 16:14

Okay yes i’m an over thinker and do have the time to spend mulling this over as kids are at a club and I’ve got another 30mins to kill - before anyone makes fun of me for making a pointless thread.

Anyway I Think I’ve just been gaslighted by the Subway sandwich artist guy so thought i’d check here who was being unreasonable.

Name changed in case his wife or other relative is on here and he goes home and moans about me!

Ordered on the app three sandwich meals for a 3.30 pick up. Arrived and there was a queue of about 7 people. Two staff, one looked to be new and being fed instructions by the stressed looking other member.

Caught the stressed out one in a free moment while he was waiting for the toaster to go. Said i’d ordered on the app and was just here for a collection when he had a moment. He then said okay i’ll make that for you in a minute. I said Oh i was expecting it to be made already as i’d ordered online. He didn’t answer so I returned to my spot in the queue thinking he was just super stressed and must have got caught up in an unexpected rush so hadn’t had chance to make my order yet. A little annoying but no harm done.

The trainee then tries to make my order from the receipt and seemed to be getting stressed out as well. I said to him not to worry and i’d just tell him the order if it was easier. So basically i ended up having to order everything in person anyway.

Got all my sandwiches sorted then arrived at the till. Second staff member starts to ring it through so I stopped him and said I’ve ordered and paid for it all online. He then bagged up the sandwiches and says thank you then moved on to the next customer. I said it was meals i ordered and could i have three cookies and bottles. Again not a word to me. He just silently puts them into the bag.

By now i’m getting annoyed at his poor customer service skills so i ask him (exact words): Can i just check - is the app working or is it just that you were really busy that my order wasn’t ready for click and collect? He then says we don’t make the order until the customer arrives so it doesn’t go soggy waiting for them. I said the last three times i’ve ordered (same shop, different staff) it was ready to collect right away from the till. He said well they’ve been doing it wrong. So then i asked him what is the point of ordering on the app then if I still have to queue and order as I normally would had i just came in and ordered in person. He said he wasn’t sure but some people prefer ordering that way???

I said look i hope this doesn’t sound rude but I can see you’ve been really busy, so if that’s actually the reason the order wasn’t ready for immediate collection then that’s fine and understandable. He then insisted that it was procedure not to begin making the sandwich until the customer had notified them on arrival that they’d ordered online.

I again said this hadn’t been the case the last few times so if that’s the new procedure, they need to make that clearer on the app. At the most this was a 30 second exchange, if that. He then looks even more stressed and says Can i get you anything else as i’ve got a customer waiting.

So i left. Pissed off that i think he’s lied to me (but why would he do that??) and also annoyed at his shocking customer service. Subway was my first job as a 16yo and I was far nicer to my customers than he was today.

OP posts:
timeaftertome · 02/10/2024 21:38

If you order ahead at our subway you def don't stand in the queue you go straight to the till and they go get your ready made order from the back bit behind the main kitchen area.

For all those saying it needs to be made fresh - it is - fresh to the time you select as your pickup time on the app.

DreamW3aver · 02/10/2024 19:43

WelshPool · 02/10/2024 16:58

Because they want you to know how superior to the rest of us plebs they are, and they only eat the finest of foods served by vestal virgins on sparkling golden platters.

Too right, the unwritten judgement is evident.

I'm sure it makes her feel good to be better than others

Naunet · 02/10/2024 19:33

latestnews · 02/10/2024 19:21

Well, their system is absolute crap an the rest of the world knows it is absolute crap tbf. We don’t want that.

But that’s not my point, it’s an awful system, the point is they still manage to give good service. There’s no reason why we can’t expect the same here,

Naunet · 02/10/2024 19:31

tattygrl · 02/10/2024 19:15

Because they're forced to act like performing monkeys in the hope of getting tips to top up their meagre wage!

A smile and polite service is hardly a performing monkey, it’s just called doing your job, like everyone else does.

DigitalGoat · 02/10/2024 19:30

Who would order online if they still had to stand in the queue like everyone else?

ME!!!

I'm on the spectrum and the idea of getting to the front of the queue in Subway and having to go through the litany of different choices, bread, type of bread, length of bread, sunflower seeds or not, what you want in it, is it vegetarian??? gives me the absolute horrors. And what order do you even do it in?

It's a running joke in my family that one of the things I've resigned myself to never being able to do is have a Subway.

OK so there's no chance I'll lie on my deathbed and wish I had just once gone and ordered a Subway. It's not that big a deal.

But thanks to the OP's thread I've realised there's even an option available for terminally awkward gits like me.

PutOnYourRedShoesAndLetsDance · 02/10/2024 19:27

Put your teenage kids in their place.
Would you want someone as rude as you being antagonistic towards them.
My 19 year old ASD Grandson works in fast food ( PT ..he's at uni).. the stories he tells me about customers like you .. make me feel so sorry for him.

latestnews · 02/10/2024 19:24

tattygrl · 02/10/2024 19:21

I hope my tone didn't come across as hostile, wasn't meant to. It's £11.44 an hour, apparently.

Oh not at all, sorry if mine did. Ours is about the same, maybe even a little bit less.

latestnews · 02/10/2024 19:21

Naunet · 02/10/2024 19:14

It’s more than waiting staff get in the US, yet I’ve never had poor or rude service there funnily enough.

Well, their system is absolute crap an the rest of the world knows it is absolute crap tbf. We don’t want that.

tattygrl · 02/10/2024 19:21

latestnews · 02/10/2024 19:19

Yes I am sure it is, I was just asking how much it actually is.

I hope my tone didn't come across as hostile, wasn't meant to. It's £11.44 an hour, apparently.

latestnews · 02/10/2024 19:19

tattygrl · 02/10/2024 19:13

It is in a meaningful sense. Living on minimum wage is incredibly difficult. Many minimum wage workers in the UK are also on benefits to top up their income so they can stay above water.

Yes I am sure it is, I was just asking how much it actually is.

latestnews · 02/10/2024 19:18

tattygrl · 02/10/2024 19:15

Because they're forced to act like performing monkeys in the hope of getting tips to top up their meagre wage!

I agree with this. It’s also extremely annoying the way some almost burst out singing or keep asking questions when you just want a quiet meal. For tip. Just pay them properly.

LadyKenya · 02/10/2024 19:18

There really was no need to keep going on at the poor guy OP. You got your sandwiches made fresh, just take them and leave! Yabu.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 02/10/2024 19:15

Still better experience than the last time I willingly ate at subway… as the person was wrapping my sandwich it sort of exploded onto the prep counter. I then watched her try to scoop all the fixings back into the bread.

Yeah, I wasn’t interested in paying for or eating a sandwich with fixings that contained sandwich droppings from a counter that was not exactly clean. Oh and I waited in line for about 30 minutes

tattygrl · 02/10/2024 19:15

Naunet · 02/10/2024 19:14

It’s more than waiting staff get in the US, yet I’ve never had poor or rude service there funnily enough.

Because they're forced to act like performing monkeys in the hope of getting tips to top up their meagre wage!

Naunet · 02/10/2024 19:14

latestnews · 02/10/2024 19:06

How much is minimum wage in the UK? I expect it’s not shockingly bad?

It’s more than waiting staff get in the US, yet I’ve never had poor or rude service there funnily enough.

tattygrl · 02/10/2024 19:13

latestnews · 02/10/2024 19:06

How much is minimum wage in the UK? I expect it’s not shockingly bad?

It is in a meaningful sense. Living on minimum wage is incredibly difficult. Many minimum wage workers in the UK are also on benefits to top up their income so they can stay above water.

latestnews · 02/10/2024 19:06

Itsgettingbettetman · 02/10/2024 19:00

You sound like an absolute weapon, cut the guy some slack. Min wage, shit conditions and high pressure at times. Hospitality really is a shit industry to work in at times and you are exactly the kind of customer that makes it so.

How much is minimum wage in the UK? I expect it’s not shockingly bad?

Naunet · 02/10/2024 19:05

You are the customer, Subway is not cheep, and their customer service was terrible, you had every right to complain. So sick of this idea that we should be grateful for rude service.

Itsgettingbettetman · 02/10/2024 19:00

You sound like an absolute weapon, cut the guy some slack. Min wage, shit conditions and high pressure at times. Hospitality really is a shit industry to work in at times and you are exactly the kind of customer that makes it so.

Avocadono · 02/10/2024 18:44

He was a bit rubbish regarding the meal deal thing and his communication whilst sorting it but all your questions were ridiculous so on the whole were far more unreasonable.

You clearly weren't interested in the answer and kept going on and on. Why would you expect a minimum wage employee to explain an app he has had no more involvement in designing than you? He probably thinks it's pointless too but can't say so. If you'd asked him to pass on your feedback, or even better spoken to head office, that would have been more understandable but all you did was hold up the queue to moan.

IceTippedMountains · 02/10/2024 18:37

neonbluedog · 02/10/2024 16:52

I think to me the isssue is that customers are far ruder and more awful now than they've ever been (I've been working in customer facing roles for the last 30 years) and people are working these crap minimum wage jobs for 40-50 hours a week to feed their families. Yeah the customer service wasn't great but I don't know if it's worth complaining to these poor stressed people. I'm not saying you were rude or awful but the constant crap you get from the public just wears you down and you find eventually you just don't care anymore.

As someone whose worked in customer facing role for years I agree that there is more difficult / rude customers than there has ever been in my working life. Maybe the cost of living crisis has made people more irritable but its no excuse. The abuse I have recieved has taken a toll on my mental health.

Maybe a little more kindness and understanding OP.

WillowTit · 02/10/2024 18:11

TerfTalking · 02/10/2024 17:15

Yup! It gets thrown into every conversation when someone has a beef about anyone.

was it beef ?
i like tuna subway

YellowAsteroid · 02/10/2024 18:04

You were being pretty rude to someone on minimum wage. Unreasonable. And yes, you're overthinking it.

FuckMiniBabybells · 02/10/2024 18:00

Ginmonkeyagain · 02/10/2024 16:59

No I just don't want to eat sandwiches that smell of bins. A perfectly reasonable aim in life.

Shit must smell like roses to you.

Anyway op, I think you gave him a hard time. He was clearly flustered and was just saying anything so you'd leave him alone. I find customer service is practically non-existent these days so try not to get too bothered about things like this.

Side note, I never order subway online because then I can't get extra southwest sauce 😁

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 02/10/2024 17:51

HausofHolbein · 02/10/2024 16:40

If you work at McDonalds, are you a Burger Artist?

...Papa Johns - a Pizza artist?

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