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Go Ape refusing refund

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Stripyseason · 02/10/2024 14:13

I can’t work out of I’m being unreasonable or fighting like a mama bear here in the right.
took my kids to Go Ape on Sunday as a treat as it’s expensive (£60 for all of us). I’ll pop my original complaint email in as it explains it all thoroughly. Emails have been back and forth since then with them apologising and offering a discounted voucher for us to return and “give it another go”. I’ve said we don’t want to return as the left in tears feeling like they’d been rushed and the last thing they want is to go back! I just want a refund but 12 emails back and forth are going nowhere. They have said they shouldn’t have been rushed but they don’t do refunds and theyd like us to come back with a discount. Do I just leave it and chalk it up to experience? Or do I keep going and if so how? TIA.

Dear customer services,

Im just writing after quite a disappointing experience at X Go Ape today. It was myself and my 2 children, 8 and 11, one of whom has autism. We booked for the only available slot left which was 16:30 and arrived by 16:15 to be in plenty of time.

We had to wait for a while for the safety briefing which was fine, and we got started. We were told we would have the chance to do 4 levels if we wished. We started off great and were enjoying it until we finished level 2 and my son heard some instructors saying we were “over time”. When we went to wait at #3 an instructor said we were running behind with time and as they were closing soon we likely wouldn’t have time to do course 4 if we did 3 so we felt pushed to do 4. This wasn’t helpful as it felt a big step up from course 2 and my son felt rushed and was worried saying they’re closing, so we hurried as much as we could. It ended in a bit of a downer sadly with the kids just feeling like they’d “taken too long” on courses 1&2 despite being told in the safety briefing that we could take as much time as we needed on the levels.

I’m disappointed because we arrived in good time and if the last slot was always going to be rushed I think that should have been made clear at point of booking. We had to miss out a whole level which we had paid for. It was a lot of money as a treat and we all just left
A bit downhearted after a good start.

I’ve been to Go Ape before and had a really
Positive experience so this felt quite disappointing sadly and I’d appreciate a gesture of a refund and to let the very nice staff know that rushing us didn’t feel fair given we had paid for a slot so feel we should have been given the same time as everyone else who booked for earlier.

Many thanks etc

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Brefugee · 02/10/2024 16:46

Stripyseason · 02/10/2024 16:31

They specifically state not to arrive more than 15 mins before your start time to avoid crowds!
out of interest how am I VVVVV unreasonable?! And stop it? you sound like a child.

I sound like a child? i am not the one using ridiculous phrases like "mama bear" and "myself" in written communication.

Everyone here has pretty much told you that you are expecting too much. I get that you're upset, but tbh booking the last slot and then getting rushed was probably not a good move - which you would only know in hindsigt

KRealLife · 02/10/2024 16:46

OP,
You are NOT being unreasonable at all. You paid for a fun and not-rushed experience and you didn't get it. They should give you a full refund. They didn't provide you with the experience they promised. The fact you did a portion of the experience isn't that relevant in this case.
Their offer of 10% voucher is rubbish.
I'd push for a full refund. Mention the Consumer Rights Act ( have a Google)

Did you pay by credit card? If so, you could try a section 75 with your bank. Make sure you have exhausted the complaints procedure with GoApe.

Keep the wording of your complaints more simple. You are including too much irrelevant info. You paid for a service and they didn't provide it. That's what's relevant. If you have it in writing that their 'adventure lasts an hour' but that they admit you only had 40 mins then I don't think they have a leg to stand on.

Good luck and please don't be influenced by posters calling you grabby etc. Some people get a kick out of being nasty.

Faldodiddledee · 02/10/2024 16:42

It's also about the quality of the experience. If I go to a cafe 30 minutes before closing and I sit there, peaceably drinking my coffee, then I've had my nice 30 min. If the cafe sells me a coffee with 30 minutes drink up but starts cleaning under my table, sighing and rushing me out and I'm out 25 minutes later, not only have I not had my allotted time, I have also had a rushed and unpleasant experience. Why should you be grateful you had 2/3rds of the thing you paid for in that situation? It's unpleasant all round.

Booking a slot from 4.3-=6.30 on the website and having them out the door by 6.02 isn't ok.

Saying you get an hour on the trees and giving 40 min isn't ok.

Rushing people out isn't ok. It is NOT the client's responsibility to go faster as everyone wants to go home, it's their responsibility to put the right information on the website and stick to those timings in real-life.

Thfrog · 02/10/2024 16:42

Verite1 · 02/10/2024 15:26

Yes - it is very difficult to keep track when the account keeps changing. OP can you cut and paste the response from Go Ape where you say that accepted you had less than one hour in the trees as this is surely the most important email.

Yeah I can't tell what's what now. I hope you were clearer in the email complaint

kittensinthekitchen · 02/10/2024 16:41

Stripyseason · 02/10/2024 15:15

Because they pride themselves as practising under the hidden disabilities act there apparently is an ombudsman, yes. I don’t feel entitled for fun, but I feel entitled to receive what I’ve paid for.
im glad you don’t work customer facing either!

Hi, what is the hidden disabilities act? I've not heard of that before.

And do Go Ape really encourage the use of a neck lanyard on a high rope course? That can't be safe can it?

Bunnycat101 · 02/10/2024 16:39

You didn’t book a 2 hour slot though- you booked an arrival time. If you’re going to get anywhere with them you need to drop the fixation with the 2 hour slot.

Dishwashersaurous · 02/10/2024 16:38

But all the other factors are irrelevant to the actual complaint.

The complaint is that you had 40 minutes on the course instead of an hour.

All the other information is probably confusing the person in customer service, particularly as the time wasn't included in the first email.

Maybe send one more email, really clearly explaining that you only had 40 minutes of a one hour session and would therefore like a third refund.

Dyke · 02/10/2024 16:37

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Verite1 · 02/10/2024 16:36

Again - how long did you have on the actual course (as your account keeps changing) and can you cut and paste the email where they apparently accepted you had less than one hour.

HollyKnight · 02/10/2024 16:35

Stripyseason · 02/10/2024 16:32

I did tell them on the booking form under special requests. I followed all their guidelines am I’m used to doing when taking my son to actvities.

It says to phone them to discuss.

Stripyseason · 02/10/2024 16:33

Itsgettingbettetman · 02/10/2024 16:19

What is the relevance of your son having autism to the complaint?

They're not being unreasonable, you are.

Guessing you know nothing about neurodiverse behaviours and triggers 🤍

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HollyKnight · 02/10/2024 16:33

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Yes, you get 1 hour of activity, but if the 4 courses can't be completed in that hour because of pacing then you do not get to complete 4 courses. It will be something like the last time you can start a course is at 17:45. The OP didn't finished the third course until 17:50 which meant it was too late to start another.

HaveYouSeenRain · 02/10/2024 16:33

You have spent more than £60 of your time ranting about this his and emailing them back and forth. It’s a non issue, you complained, you got a discount, move on.

Stripyseason · 02/10/2024 16:33

ZippyDenimBear · 02/10/2024 16:27

It's not too late for you because you can ho back at the discounted price!

Book an earlier slot. If your children enjoyed the previous experience, enjoyed levels one and two, then why wouldn't you book again?

I'd have said to mine that the staff only get paid up to a certain time and want to go home. Fair enough.

Just go again!

If you know your child with autism doesn't like to be rushed, why on earth would you choose the last slot?

Because it’s a valid slot, 2 hours, same as every other slot in the day! I don’t make my last work appointment short because I want to get home, my customers would complain if I did!

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Stripyseason · 02/10/2024 16:32

HollyKnight · 02/10/2024 16:23

It also says on the website that if you have any requirements due to disability you need to contact them to discuss them. You can't use his autism against them if you hadn't informed them beforehand to give them the opportunity to make adjustments. If your son requires extra time or not to feel rushed, they probably would have told you that the last slot of the day would not be suitable.

I did tell them on the booking form under special requests. I followed all their guidelines am I’m used to doing when taking my son to actvities.

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Stripyseason · 02/10/2024 16:31

Brefugee · 02/10/2024 16:18

their response is reasonable. I wonder if arriving 15 minutes in advance of your start time is enough, given that one of your children obviously needs more help & support.

YABVVVVU to use this phrase. "fighting like a mama bear here in the right." Stop it.

They specifically state not to arrive more than 15 mins before your start time to avoid crowds!
out of interest how am I VVVVV unreasonable?! And stop it? you sound like a child.

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ZippyDenimBear · 02/10/2024 16:27

Stripyseason · 02/10/2024 14:23

Sorry one last fact to add - they pride themselves on hidden disability and the sunflower lanyard and it just felt like they didn’t take this into account. They have acknowledged this and said the site manager will go over it with his team again. Just too late for us ☹️

It's not too late for you because you can ho back at the discounted price!

Book an earlier slot. If your children enjoyed the previous experience, enjoyed levels one and two, then why wouldn't you book again?

I'd have said to mine that the staff only get paid up to a certain time and want to go home. Fair enough.

Just go again!

If you know your child with autism doesn't like to be rushed, why on earth would you choose the last slot?

HollyKnight · 02/10/2024 16:23

It also says on the website that if you have any requirements due to disability you need to contact them to discuss them. You can't use his autism against them if you hadn't informed them beforehand to give them the opportunity to make adjustments. If your son requires extra time or not to feel rushed, they probably would have told you that the last slot of the day would not be suitable.

stopringingme · 02/10/2024 16:23

Your timings are a bit confusing.

I would look at it that you could have done 4 levels, but they only allowed you to do 3 levels.

I would split the £60 into levels, so it was £15 per level, so they should really give you at most £15.

Their staff gave mixed messages reading your email, so you assumed you could have had longer than you did.

It is sad when you get your child who has a disability to fully join in with something, and it is cut short like this, I know this feeling well.

If you do decide to go back, try an earlier session so there will hopefully not be this rush.

@Stripyseason

LongtailedTitmouse · 02/10/2024 16:22

Edited as different age course

Itsgettingbettetman · 02/10/2024 16:19

What is the relevance of your son having autism to the complaint?

They're not being unreasonable, you are.

Brefugee · 02/10/2024 16:18

their response is reasonable. I wonder if arriving 15 minutes in advance of your start time is enough, given that one of your children obviously needs more help & support.

YABVVVVU to use this phrase. "fighting like a mama bear here in the right." Stop it.

Pelagi · 02/10/2024 16:17

A gift voucher for a discount is not ever “making amends”. Because you can only benefit from it by paying the company again.

RudolphsDashing · 02/10/2024 16:17

You want a full refund for a course you completed 3/4? Don't be daft.

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