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namechange11112222 · 02/10/2024 12:24

I have just watched this documentary and it broke my heart.
Hamas are revolting monsters, I can't call them animals because animals wouldn't even do that.

I do wonder how the younger, very outspoken generation would:

  1. Feel if that was a festival they went to and watched their friends get slaughtered
  2. Have said if there were social media at the time of WW2

Would we have been viewed in the same way Israel has been? The causalities of war were far greater.

I do not support the way in which Benjamin Netanyahu is going about this war at all but I 100% agree with Israel's right to defend itself.

They seem to be the only war I can think of where a country being attacked from all sides, from countries who do want mass extermination of Jewish people (do the younger generation still get taught about the holocaust anymore) who are repeatedly being told to stand down by the west.

To remind the younger generation of previous war casualties (for anyone with the argument that this war is completely out of proportion):

WW1

  • UK - 885,000 deaths
  • Germany - over 2 million deaths

WW2 - is this proportionate?

  • 1.5 - 3 million deaths in Germany
  • 210,000 dead - Nuclear bombs into Japan
  • 70,000 innocent dead - England

Iraq War

  • 179 English soldiers
  • 4,492 US soldiers
  • 186 - 210,000 Iraqi civilians

No civilian should ever be harmed in war, it is evil however it is inevitable.
How many Jewish people should be killed for Israel to be supported in defending themselves.
So the "the death toll is completely out of proportion" argument doesn't stand.

Yes, we can go back to the time before the bible and argue who has the right to the land. But this current war was started by Hamas and Hezbollah the following day.

However, please don't try to say they want mass extermination of Jewish people just because of the land.
People spitting on a naked woman's dead body when brought back into Gaza, footage filmed by Hamas.

Lets call this what it is pure racism, just like the Nazi's, who killed 6 million Jewish people.

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Circumferences · 05/10/2024 17:51

Comedycook · 05/10/2024 16:30

What you tend to find when people are told their comments are anti semetic (talking in general here, not about any specific posters) is that yes, they'll have criticised the Israeli government, but then they'll have said something else such as describing them as Nazis, referencing the holocaust in a particular way, implying that Jews control the media etc etc...then when they are called out, they complain that all they did was criticise the Israeli government and you can't say anything without being accused of anti semetism.

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But that's bullshit though

Mortifiedbythis · 05/10/2024 16:40

Okay, thank you.
All that is good to hear.

Comedycook · 05/10/2024 16:30

What you tend to find when people are told their comments are anti semetic (talking in general here, not about any specific posters) is that yes, they'll have criticised the Israeli government, but then they'll have said something else such as describing them as Nazis, referencing the holocaust in a particular way, implying that Jews control the media etc etc...then when they are called out, they complain that all they did was criticise the Israeli government and you can't say anything without being accused of anti semetism.

Hunglikeapolevaulter · 05/10/2024 16:30

So would you consider someone saying they didn't completely agree with your analysis to be antisemitic - ie saying they hold Hamas responsible, but don't believe the Israeli government can absolve themselves of the responsibility for children's deaths when they're the ones ordering the attacks?

No I definitely wouldn't think anyone was antisemitic for holding that viewpoint.

Comedycook · 05/10/2024 16:25

Look, I don't have any solutions but it seems sometimes if you don't show unwavering support of the Israeli government you are called an antisemite

No you're not. I really wish people would stop saying this.

Mortifiedbythis · 05/10/2024 16:22

Hunglikeapolevaulter · 05/10/2024 15:58

to think the Israeli government is going too far/taking the wrong approach in an effort to defend itself? How can the deaths of thousands of children be justified?

I can give my perspective on this. The deaths are horrific and tragic but I believe that Hamas must shoulder the lion's share of the blame, both due to provoking the war through their actions on 7 October, and by deliberately embedding themselves in civilian infrastructure. In fact they seek as many civilian deaths as possible as these are their most valuable propaganda tool.

I can absolutely understand why Israel can no longer entertain having Hamas as a neighbour.

So would you consider someone saying they didn't completely agree with your analysis to be antisemitic - ie saying they hold Hamas responsible, but don't believe the Israeli government can absolve themselves of the responsibility for children's deaths when they're the ones ordering the attacks?

Look, I don't have any solutions but it seems sometimes if you don't show unwavering support of the Israeli government you are called an antisemite.

Hunglikeapolevaulter · 05/10/2024 15:58

to think the Israeli government is going too far/taking the wrong approach in an effort to defend itself? How can the deaths of thousands of children be justified?

I can give my perspective on this. The deaths are horrific and tragic but I believe that Hamas must shoulder the lion's share of the blame, both due to provoking the war through their actions on 7 October, and by deliberately embedding themselves in civilian infrastructure. In fact they seek as many civilian deaths as possible as these are their most valuable propaganda tool.

I can absolutely understand why Israel can no longer entertain having Hamas as a neighbour.

AMuffinWalloper · 05/10/2024 15:32

Mortifiedbythis · 05/10/2024 15:31

Is it not possible to be very sympathetic to the horror Israel faced on Oct 7th, to consider Hamas terrorists, to be supportive of Jewish people, but to think the Israeli government is going too far/taking the wrong approach in an effort to defend itself? How can the deaths of thousands of children be justified?
Do people assume you're antisemitic if you say this is wrong too?

No, not at all.

ETA that was in answer to your last question.

Mortifiedbythis · 05/10/2024 15:31

Is it not possible to be very sympathetic to the horror Israel faced on Oct 7th, to consider Hamas terrorists, to be supportive of Jewish people, but to think the Israeli government is going too far/taking the wrong approach in an effort to defend itself? How can the deaths of thousands of children be justified?
Do people assume you're antisemitic if you say this is wrong too?

Hunglikeapolevaulter · 05/10/2024 13:35

I actually used to be hugely critical of Israel, I genuinely believed that they exaggerated the threat they were under in order to justify their actions and expand West Bank settlements.

My mind changed in one instant when I opened twitter on 7 October last year and saw the footage of Shani Louk's body on the back of a pickup truck like a hunting trophy. At that point I realised the existential threat Israel faced, and I've supported them ever since.

AMuffinWalloper · 05/10/2024 13:22

But borders were redrawn, new homelands/countries created and millions upon millions of people were resettled in troubled parts of the world post WW2.

footballfan1963 · 05/10/2024 13:17

Humdingerydoo · 05/10/2024 13:04

Where exactly would you have set up a Jewish state? Do you not think that Jewish people having a homeland in their actual homeland makes a lot more sense?

Yes of course it does, I’m just pie in the sky thinking. I’m just saying that setting up a peaceful homeland post WW2 in already troubled part of the world was bound to fail.

LetThereBeLove · 05/10/2024 13:16

If you prefer the left wing point of view here's an excerpt from an evenhanded feature by Jonathan Freedland in the Guardian -
Inside Israel, the last two weeks are understood as the country at last hitting back against the proxies of the regime that constitutes the true danger to the Middle East – namely, Iran and its theocratic rulers. For years, Iran has encircled Israel with a “ring of fire” that includes the three Hs: Hamas, the Houthis in Yemen and, most well-armed of the three, Hezbollah, wielding an enormous arsenal and the power of a state within a state. These actors and Iran are not, incidentally, simply in the business of ending the injustice of Israel’s post-1967 occupation: their stated goal is to end Israel itself.
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/oct/04/israel-israelis-gaza-war-7-october-anniversary

Humdingerydoo · 05/10/2024 13:04

footballfan1963 · 05/10/2024 11:38

@Kendodd sadly I don’t see there ever being peace there, not in my lifetime anyway.

Sometimes I wonder if establishing the Jewish state of Israel back in the 40s was such a good idea. Regardless of ‘whose’ land it was and who was entitled to it, the priority for the Jewish people was peace after the atrocities of the holocaust. If it was me, I would have set up a Jewish state somewhere else, it wouldn’t have had the history etc but peace is way more important.

Where exactly would you have set up a Jewish state? Do you not think that Jewish people having a homeland in their actual homeland makes a lot more sense?

Limesodaagain · 05/10/2024 13:00

Yes - I can’t imagine any Jewish people would want to discuss anti semitism with anyone who’s likely to give them a lecture about the terrible things happening in Gaza. Because that’s what happens on mumsnet ..

AMuffinWalloper · 05/10/2024 12:41

Dulra · 05/10/2024 11:38

Yes not my experience either. I grew up in Dublin close to the synagogue with Jewish next door neighbour's and many Jewish friends who never expressed it to me either.

I think people need to be careful not to demonise an entire nation of people when highlighting antisemitism, not sure it serves anyone well.

Does it feel a bit unfair when your entire nation is demonised due to the hateful actions and sentiments of some people within it?

Of course that's not your experience as you're not Jewish and it's highly unlikely that your Jewish friends and neighbours would discuss with a non-Jew any antisemitism they experienced in a country with such deeply ingrained antisemitism where they're a tiny, precarious minority.

Tulipsareredvioletsarebue · 05/10/2024 11:57

Comedycook · 05/10/2024 11:48

That's it for me, in the meantime I recommend camomile tea for you

Honestly you are coming across as incredibly unpleasant

Tried to match your energy.
Sadly this just leads to derailing of the discussion, so I'll stick to my word this time, over and out.

Comedycook · 05/10/2024 11:54

LetThereBeLove · 05/10/2024 11:53

in the meantime I recommend camomile tea for you.
How patronising can you be!

I know right...also the implication that I need to calm down.

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LetThereBeLove · 05/10/2024 11:53

in the meantime I recommend camomile tea for you.
How patronising can you be!

LetThereBeLove · 05/10/2024 11:52

Mortifiedbythis · 05/10/2024 11:27

I can say truly, hand on heart, that I never thought of Israel as the bad guy growing up.

I think a lack of support for the Israeli government's actions (for humanitarian reasons) has been painted as antisemitism by many, and we have got a bad rep now.

Obviously there's a minority of lunatics, like those responsible for the stuff on Twitter, but the vast majority of Irish people don't think like them. October 7th was terrifying and I do understand why the Irraeli government responded as they did, but there are too many innocent people caught up in this to support what's happening. I don't have the answers, but this way can't be right.

I hope you're right that the vast majority don't think like this. DD went to Trinity Dublin to study for 4 years. Her best friend there, a highly intelligent and now well known writer, expressed her views and their friendship was destroyed. I suspect many younger (under age 40) Irish people feel the same as DD's ex friend.

Limesodaagain · 05/10/2024 11:51

Firealarm1414 · 05/10/2024 09:38

Disgusting. As an irish person that's particularly embarrassing. I can't even talk to my irish family and friends about this topic because I know what their stance would probably be. They dont understand because they dont know any jews and only see it through the lens of the irish situation, even though it's really nothing like it. I don't live there anymore and I stand with the Jewish and Israeli people that I know. I've seen first hand how they were affected by October 7. I see now that anti semitism is ingrained in irish society, just look at the recent behaviour of our president, it was unhinged. Blatant anti semitism on display.

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“can't even talk to my irish family and friends about this topic because I know what their stance would probably be. They dont understand because they dont know any jews and only see it through the lens of the irish situation, even though it's really nothing like it.”
This is very true - many see it through a simple black and white lens of Ireland’s struggle against a colonial oppressor and cannot see that this conflict is not the same.

Comedycook · 05/10/2024 11:48

That's it for me, in the meantime I recommend camomile tea for you

Honestly you are coming across as incredibly unpleasant

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Comparing Israel to the Nazis is considered to be anti semetic. This is not just by me but by many many organisations. Like I said have a look at gov dot UK and the definition of anti semetism

Firealarm1414 · 05/10/2024 11:46

Dulra · 05/10/2024 11:38

Yes not my experience either. I grew up in Dublin close to the synagogue with Jewish next door neighbour's and many Jewish friends who never expressed it to me either.

I think people need to be careful not to demonise an entire nation of people when highlighting antisemitism, not sure it serves anyone well.

Well I'm from tallaght so maybe that's the difference lol. But seriously, I'm not demonizing the country. What did you think of the recent Michael d Higgins debacle? That was embarrassing and shows that he absolutely has a bias.