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namechange11112222 · 02/10/2024 12:24

I have just watched this documentary and it broke my heart.
Hamas are revolting monsters, I can't call them animals because animals wouldn't even do that.

I do wonder how the younger, very outspoken generation would:

  1. Feel if that was a festival they went to and watched their friends get slaughtered
  2. Have said if there were social media at the time of WW2

Would we have been viewed in the same way Israel has been? The causalities of war were far greater.

I do not support the way in which Benjamin Netanyahu is going about this war at all but I 100% agree with Israel's right to defend itself.

They seem to be the only war I can think of where a country being attacked from all sides, from countries who do want mass extermination of Jewish people (do the younger generation still get taught about the holocaust anymore) who are repeatedly being told to stand down by the west.

To remind the younger generation of previous war casualties (for anyone with the argument that this war is completely out of proportion):

WW1

  • UK - 885,000 deaths
  • Germany - over 2 million deaths

WW2 - is this proportionate?

  • 1.5 - 3 million deaths in Germany
  • 210,000 dead - Nuclear bombs into Japan
  • 70,000 innocent dead - England

Iraq War

  • 179 English soldiers
  • 4,492 US soldiers
  • 186 - 210,000 Iraqi civilians

No civilian should ever be harmed in war, it is evil however it is inevitable.
How many Jewish people should be killed for Israel to be supported in defending themselves.
So the "the death toll is completely out of proportion" argument doesn't stand.

Yes, we can go back to the time before the bible and argue who has the right to the land. But this current war was started by Hamas and Hezbollah the following day.

However, please don't try to say they want mass extermination of Jewish people just because of the land.
People spitting on a naked woman's dead body when brought back into Gaza, footage filmed by Hamas.

Lets call this what it is pure racism, just like the Nazi's, who killed 6 million Jewish people.

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HelenHen · 09/10/2024 13:45

Msfrustrated · 09/10/2024 13:03

Well if you're posing such a hypothetical question why don't you tell us in your scenario? Quite why your posing that all the Welsh citizens would want the English dead I don't know, unless you want to just come out and say that you consider all people in Gaza as wanting Israel "wiped out and killed" 🤨Would it be appropriate to displace 1.2 million people in Wales? What would be the acceptable civilian collateral damage for Welsh citizens? Would be appropriate to cut off supply of food and water to Welsh civilians? Would it be appropriate for A English politicians to say there is no such thing as an innocent Welsh person? Would it be appropriate for English soldiers to mock the displaced Welsh people as they post social media videos slut shaming the Welsh women's and their lingerie left behind where they've fled their homes?

I just can't imagine the English people accepting a Welsh massacre in their name...

HelenHen · 09/10/2024 13:43

Pinkandbluesocks · 09/10/2024 12:28

No single journalist or doctor could possibly be capable of accurately calculating a death toll.

Your punt that the Hamas claims are too low is based on nothing at all. We simply do not know. The only people making claims about the civilian death toll are Hamas, and they are liars.

Oh but it wasn't a single doctor or journalist at that time. There were many of them. They attended every massacre and were reporting clearly the atrocities. There were many images and videos coming out at that time. It wasn't any kind of leap to suggest that the figures were a conservative estimate.

If Israel are the good guys, surely it is in their own best interests to keep the observers safe. Because there will definitely be a day in court at some point.

Msfrustrated · 09/10/2024 13:36

Pinkandbluesocks · 09/10/2024 13:23

It does need real independent verification, yes. Glad we're clear on that. In the absence of such, she's merely guessing, and none of the medical experts have the access needed to give an accurate figure. You seem to think that pointing out that Israel are preventing this access somehow makes the claims that have been made about civilian deaths more reliable. It does not. There are no reliable figures.

Hamas are not the ones currently declining entry, but that's not what was asked. You answer my question before posing any to me. Do you think Hamas would leave any independent assessors to do their work in peace, and to publish any results that might be inconvenient?

Please answer the question instead of deflecting hypothetical actions of Hamas. Why aren't Israel allowing them in to do their work?
It's perfectly possible regardless of the figures provided by Hamas for experts to advise a rough indirect death toll based on the conditions in Gaza, the lack of healthcare infrastructure, famine etc. These experts are expecting the death toll be higher than even claimed by Hamas. If you are certain it is less than even claimed, can you tell us what you expect it to be and what evidence that's based on? Considering the bombings plus the indirect risk to life through lack of food and healthcare, what do you think is a reasonable figure so far?

Pinkandbluesocks · 09/10/2024 13:23

Msfrustrated · 09/10/2024 13:15

No I was clearly referencing the PP point that the death toll is expected to be higher, which is the opinion of medical experts however it needs real independent verification which is only being declined by Israel. I haven't seen any evidence Hamas is declining entry to independent assessors (not that they would have a choice as is is Israel who controls who goes in and out of Gaza). Israel have been consistently declining to allow this so it doesn't really matter what hypothetically Hamas would or wouldn't allow. In your opinion why are Israel declining independent journalists and investigators to assess the death toll?

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It does need real independent verification, yes. Glad we're clear on that. In the absence of such, she's merely guessing, and none of the medical experts have the access needed to give an accurate figure. You seem to think that pointing out that Israel are preventing this access somehow makes the claims that have been made about civilian deaths more reliable. It does not. There are no reliable figures.

Hamas are not the ones currently declining entry, but that's not what was asked. You answer my question before posing any to me. Do you think Hamas would leave any independent assessors to do their work in peace, and to publish any results that might be inconvenient?

Msfrustrated · 09/10/2024 13:15

Pinkandbluesocks · 09/10/2024 13:11

The Hamas claims are based on this? Can you show us the evidence of that? I don't just mean them saying it, I mean actual proof. The working out.

Independent assessment of the death toll seems vanishingly unlikely at present. Do you think Hamas would leave any independent assessors to do their work in peace, and to publish any results that might be inconvenient? The Israelis couldn't make them even if they wanted to.

No I was clearly referencing the PP point that the death toll is expected to be higher, which is the opinion of medical experts however it needs real independent verification which is only being declined by Israel. I haven't seen any evidence Hamas is declining entry to independent assessors (not that they would have a choice as is is Israel who controls who goes in and out of Gaza). Israel have been consistently declining to allow this so it doesn't really matter what hypothetically Hamas would or wouldn't allow. In your opinion why are Israel declining independent journalists and investigators to assess the death toll?

Pinkandbluesocks · 09/10/2024 13:11

Msfrustrated · 09/10/2024 13:08

Well it's not based on nothing, it's based on the opinion of medical experts looking at not just bombings as cause of death but expected deaths from the general health conditions everyone is being put under through famine and inadequate access to healthcare.

It is Israel continually refusing access for independent assessment of the conditions and the death toll. Why is that? Surely if it's guaranteed to be lower than suggested why would they not want that verified asap?

The Hamas claims are based on this? Can you show us the evidence of that? I don't just mean them saying it, I mean actual proof. The working out.

Independent assessment of the death toll seems vanishingly unlikely at present. Do you think Hamas would leave any independent assessors to do their work in peace, and to publish any results that might be inconvenient? The Israelis couldn't make them even if they wanted to.

Msfrustrated · 09/10/2024 13:08

Pinkandbluesocks · 09/10/2024 12:28

No single journalist or doctor could possibly be capable of accurately calculating a death toll.

Your punt that the Hamas claims are too low is based on nothing at all. We simply do not know. The only people making claims about the civilian death toll are Hamas, and they are liars.

Well it's not based on nothing, it's based on the opinion of medical experts looking at not just bombings as cause of death but expected deaths from the general health conditions everyone is being put under through famine and inadequate access to healthcare.

It is Israel continually refusing access for independent assessment of the conditions and the death toll. Why is that? Surely if it's guaranteed to be lower than suggested why would they not want that verified asap?

Msfrustrated · 09/10/2024 13:03

namechange11112222 · 09/10/2024 11:28

A couple of more points, I’m not sure if these have been raised yet.

  • the death toll is being sent in from Hamas, can we believe everything they say. They are a terrorist organisation
  • 500km of tunnels under schools and hospitals, but who are not allowed in - women & children
These monsters couldn’t care less about their people, and that is heartbreaking.

If say, hypothetically Wales harboured a wish for all people in England to be wiped out and killed in the most gruesome way. What would be a proportionate response from our forces?

Well if you're posing such a hypothetical question why don't you tell us in your scenario? Quite why your posing that all the Welsh citizens would want the English dead I don't know, unless you want to just come out and say that you consider all people in Gaza as wanting Israel "wiped out and killed" 🤨Would it be appropriate to displace 1.2 million people in Wales? What would be the acceptable civilian collateral damage for Welsh citizens? Would be appropriate to cut off supply of food and water to Welsh civilians? Would it be appropriate for A English politicians to say there is no such thing as an innocent Welsh person? Would it be appropriate for English soldiers to mock the displaced Welsh people as they post social media videos slut shaming the Welsh women's and their lingerie left behind where they've fled their homes?

OneRarelySeesABrazierTheseDays · 09/10/2024 12:52

namechange11112222 · 09/10/2024 11:28

A couple of more points, I’m not sure if these have been raised yet.

  • the death toll is being sent in from Hamas, can we believe everything they say. They are a terrorist organisation
  • 500km of tunnels under schools and hospitals, but who are not allowed in - women & children
These monsters couldn’t care less about their people, and that is heartbreaking.

If say, hypothetically Wales harboured a wish for all people in England to be wiped out and killed in the most gruesome way. What would be a proportionate response from our forces?

Well, they have form for arson on second homes back in the 70s and 80s

Halfemptyhalfling · 09/10/2024 12:36

The Israeli's had the world's sympathy on 7th October but they have squandered it since. The Gazans might have been persuaded to give up the terrorists responsible for the massacre but that won't be the case for generations now...

Pinkandbluesocks · 09/10/2024 12:28

HelenHen · 09/10/2024 12:02

The only way the death toll is in question is if whether it is too low.

At the beginning, when most deaths occurred, there were still doctors and journalists verifying the stories emerging from Gaza.

The only reason the numbers can no longer be verified is because journalists were either killed or left because safety wasn't guaranteed... same with doctors. Which suggests that it is Israel who doesn't want the true stories and numbers getting out.

No single journalist or doctor could possibly be capable of accurately calculating a death toll.

Your punt that the Hamas claims are too low is based on nothing at all. We simply do not know. The only people making claims about the civilian death toll are Hamas, and they are liars.

HelenHen · 09/10/2024 12:02

namechange11112222 · 09/10/2024 11:28

A couple of more points, I’m not sure if these have been raised yet.

  • the death toll is being sent in from Hamas, can we believe everything they say. They are a terrorist organisation
  • 500km of tunnels under schools and hospitals, but who are not allowed in - women & children
These monsters couldn’t care less about their people, and that is heartbreaking.

If say, hypothetically Wales harboured a wish for all people in England to be wiped out and killed in the most gruesome way. What would be a proportionate response from our forces?

The only way the death toll is in question is if whether it is too low.

At the beginning, when most deaths occurred, there were still doctors and journalists verifying the stories emerging from Gaza.

The only reason the numbers can no longer be verified is because journalists were either killed or left because safety wasn't guaranteed... same with doctors. Which suggests that it is Israel who doesn't want the true stories and numbers getting out.

namechange11112222 · 09/10/2024 11:36

LetThereBeLove · 08/10/2024 13:42

You know this for a fact, do you? Hamas teach Palestinian children to hate Jews.

Exactly! It’s 100% the other way around.
Mosab Hassan Yousef, the son of hamas leader grew up being taught to hate Isreal and to fight for their destruction. It’s sickening

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namechange11112222 · 09/10/2024 11:28

A couple of more points, I’m not sure if these have been raised yet.

  • the death toll is being sent in from Hamas, can we believe everything they say. They are a terrorist organisation
  • 500km of tunnels under schools and hospitals, but who are not allowed in - women & children
These monsters couldn’t care less about their people, and that is heartbreaking.

If say, hypothetically Wales harboured a wish for all people in England to be wiped out and killed in the most gruesome way. What would be a proportionate response from our forces?

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namechange11112222 · 09/10/2024 11:22

Sorry, but no. Absolutely not. This was one of the most targeted attacks in history.
it took out 1 in 30 Hezbollah terrorists.
I have heard many many people in the uk who have praised such a brilliant attack on TERRORISTS.

Yes there were limited civilian deaths, which is never to be condemned, but is an inevitability of war.

They’re damned either way aren’t they? Most people in Lebanon hate Hezbollah and have praised that attack and the strategic killing of the leader of their terrorist organisation.

New research has come out to say that 10% of the younger generation support HAMAS! This makes me feel physically sick. They would be happy for all Jewish people to be killed. Why are these people not in jail.

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YellowAsteroid · 08/10/2024 16:46

So the written constitutions of Hamas, Hezbollah & the PLO are "propaganda"?

You're probably too young to remember the PLO or "Black September" - try Googling "sky jacking" or the 1972 Munich Olympics.

I can remember wondering which passport it was safe for me to travel on in the 1970s.

LetThereBeLove · 08/10/2024 16:16

Circumferences · 08/10/2024 16:11

This is just propaganda now.

It is a fact not propaganda.

Circumferences · 08/10/2024 16:11

YellowAsteroid · 08/10/2024 15:38

How about Hamas and Hezbollah stop trying to kill all Jews - because that is what is in their constitutiuons or manifestoes.

The PLO had as the first statement in their founding document, the destruction of the state of Israel.

Why do they all hate Israel - a democracy which gives Muslims the right of religious freedom, unlike most other ME countries? Could it be , oh maybe just maybe, because Israel was established as a place of sanctuary and safety for Jews?

Oh gosh what a coincidence. But oh no, no Jew hatred to see here.

This is just propaganda now.

Littleonesick · 08/10/2024 16:06

LetThereBeLove · 08/10/2024 15:56

FFS there are lots of images of young Palestinian children dressed in Palestinian flags carrying guns. This is not a competition of who hates who more. HTHU

FFS have you ever watched how Israeli youth act on Jerusalem day? The pure hate for Arabs that they shout?
That's just one example

LetThereBeLove · 08/10/2024 15:56

anotherlevel · 08/10/2024 14:12

@LetThereBeLove

You know this for a fact, do you? Israeli schools teach Israeli children to hate Palestinians.

Corrected this for you. HTH.

FFS there are lots of images of young Palestinian children dressed in Palestinian flags carrying guns. This is not a competition of who hates who more. HTHU

YellowAsteroid · 08/10/2024 15:38

How about Hamas and Hezbollah stop trying to kill all Jews - because that is what is in their constitutiuons or manifestoes.

The PLO had as the first statement in their founding document, the destruction of the state of Israel.

Why do they all hate Israel - a democracy which gives Muslims the right of religious freedom, unlike most other ME countries? Could it be , oh maybe just maybe, because Israel was established as a place of sanctuary and safety for Jews?

Oh gosh what a coincidence. But oh no, no Jew hatred to see here.

Circumferences · 08/10/2024 15:18

Remember that antisemites project their worse beliefs and behaviours onto the Jews. Every accusation is a confession.

Self defense isn't "antisemitism".
How about Israel stops genocide.

piscofrisco · 08/10/2024 14:37

I don't think Hamas give a jot for ordinary Palestinians. I also don't think the Israeli leaders do at this point.
I suppose if you are getting bombed or shot at whichever side you are on, you sent that bothered, in the moment who's doing it and why.

piscofrisco · 08/10/2024 14:34

I agree @RedHotWings. I haven't said anything other than any of that. I've said it had become normalised that Gaza was effectively a prison and had been for years. Great that it was getting better. Awful for people that had to live that way for the preceding decades.

RedHotWings · 08/10/2024 14:28

piscofrisco · 08/10/2024 13:57

@LetThereBeLove it's not victim blaming to question the location of a music festival. I'm aware that lots of Israeli's that live on the border are proponents of peace. Unfortunately there is also a long and well documented history of Israeli snipers shooting people as they go about their business near that border, including children.
That's been normalised. And that's not ok. Nor in my view is holding a music festival pretty much on that border.
What happened at that music festival was unspeakable and unthinkable. And should not have happened and was not the fault of the people attending or organising it. It was the fault of the disgusting Hamas 'operatives' involved.
But the location is in my view symptomatic of the normalisation of the fact that Gaza has effectively been a prison for those that live there for decades and no one has batted an eye lid to any effect about that for years.

Calling it victim blaming is exactly what I'm talking about. This debate can never be had effectively because people on either side are very quick to shout 'anti Islam', 'anti semitism' 'victim blaming' etc etc

And so the whole mess perpetuates .

While Gaza was still experiencing significant poverty and restrictions, applied by both Israel and Egypt, Hamas chose to commit the butchery at a time when Israel had taken steps to channel funds into the Strip and Gazan workers were more about to enter Israel to work than had been possible for a long time. I say this not to diminish the poverty that much of the population were in, but to make two points. First, Hamas demonstrated conclusively that it doesn't care, at all, about Palestinians but used the enclave as a launchpad for War, which validates the concerns that led Israel and Egypt to enforce the blockage. Second, the poverty and normalisation doesn't explain, at all, the sheer glee, delight and brutality of Hamas on that day.

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