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Dog came to our house viewing

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Memberberry · 01/10/2024 20:21

Our estate agent brought a potential buyer round to view our house today who turned up with their dog. I saw them on the front door ring camera carry it in to our house but when I checked the back garden camera I could see it walking on our carpet!

We have a 5 year old and a 5 month old and it walked all over where the boys play (luckily most of their things were put away for the visit) and the estate agent knows this.

The dog also was carried into their bedroom and held above our baby’s cot.

if this hadn’t annoyed me enough when asked about it the estate agent lied and said the dog was carried the whole time. When I told her we can see it on the ring she said she’d make a note that no pets would be allowed on future viewings and that’s it ok as the dog didn’t go to the toilet in our garden.

I don’t think I’m being unreasonable but just wanted to gauge opinions before I speak to the agent properly tomorrow and whether that’s normal behaviour or is as bizarre as I think it is.

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Delphiniumandlupins · 01/10/2024 22:59

I would be very angry with the Estate Agent. Even if they believed you wouldn't mind a dog being brought to the viewing they shouldn't have lied or minimised your concerns. If you are not tied to a contract I would drop them.

Itisjustmyopinion · 01/10/2024 22:59

If I was the OP I would be straight on the phone to the estate agent tomorrow to cancel my contract with them for two reasons, bringing a dog into my home and for lying about it

And then I would review on their website, social media or trust pilot about the fact they did this and lied about it

I don’t allow friends and families dogs into my home so I certainly wouldn’t want a random strangers.

Beesandhoney123 · 01/10/2024 22:58

Can't belive someone rocks up with a pooch tbh. How entitled. It doesn't matter if you are carrying it or it's on foot. Or it's it's a county Manor or a bedsit. No one wants your dog in their house. They put up with it to sell it, but you can be sure secretly they despise you and hope you love the house because doggy does and pay full price! Especially if just been hoovered and cleaned for a view.

I have dogs and they aren't invited, it's not as if they are going to have a say in buying it:) they can wait in the car or stay home.

Apotofgold · 01/10/2024 22:55

Op, judging by your latest update as well as the dog incident this EA is not serious at all.

Just get rid of them and find a better one if you can?

BobbyBiscuits · 01/10/2024 22:55

It's bang out of order the EA lied. If you've made it explicit that no pets can be present at viewings then they need to adhere to it. Some people have extreme allergies and the notion the EA thinks they can get away with having the dog there without consequence is very unprofessional.
Of course you don't care if the buyer owns a dog, but you should tell EA in no uncertain terms if one is brought into the house you will know, and you'll happily use someone else to sell.
I honestly think a lot of EAs will do anything they can for a comission. They are not regulated and unfortunately the 'profession' rarely attracts the brightest and the best.

Menopausalmutha · 01/10/2024 22:55

Dog owner and lover here! Totally outrageous behaviour, I’d be tempted to say one of your kids has had a mild allergic reaction and you want the place cleaned!

Memberberry · 01/10/2024 22:54

Londonrach1 · 01/10/2024 20:54

Yanbu. Id be changing estate agents. It's very strange that anyone being a dog to a viewing but even stranger the agent allowed it. Did they put an offer in

She apparently loved the house and wants to put an offer but her house isn’t even on the market yet. We had asked the estate agents to only allow people to view if they have their house on the market after two viewings last week with people not ready to sell yet.

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TheBluntTurtle · 01/10/2024 22:52

The state agent might not have known the viewer was bringing a dog, and they aren’t going to turn away a potential buyer, but they should have handled this situation better.

AutumnTimeForCosy24 · 01/10/2024 22:51

Barney16 · 01/10/2024 22:00

Dogs are everywhere. Bill them for a deep clean of your carpets and say absolutely no dogs in future.

@Barney16

hiw much of a deep clean do you think a carpet would need after a handbag dog has taken a dozen steps on it exactly??

AlmondsAreGreat · 01/10/2024 22:50

Is there any reason the dog can’t stay outside (assuming it’s not 90 degree sunshine)?

Memberberry · 01/10/2024 22:48

Loonaandalf · 01/10/2024 22:40

It’s a bit weird, I have two dogs and can’t imagine why I’d bring them. Maybe their dog can’t be left alone and they don’t have a sitter? I think you are overreacting though. What’s wrong with the dog being held over or near your baby’s cot?

I don’t want animal hairs in my home, especially not where my children sleep. It wouldn’t have been so bad if they’d stayed by the door or kept away from their beds.

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Tabasco007 · 01/10/2024 22:48

I'm an estate agent and it annoys me so much when people turn up with dogs, and I'm a dog lover. I don't let them in, or they do it turns while one stands outside with the dog. I just explain that I don't know if anyone is allergic in the house so it's better to err on the side of caution. People that turn up with cups of coffee is another one that annoys me, like what if you spill it, they are often a similar type to the dog people LOL!

Nextdoor55 · 01/10/2024 22:47

I would not mind at all, I'd be a bit miffed if it was a hairy st Bernard sloshing slobber everywhere but if it's a little dog being carried it wouldn't bother me.
But then I prefer dogs to people any day of the week

AutumnTimeForCosy24 · 01/10/2024 22:46

Fanlover1122 · 01/10/2024 22:09

Why would a guide dog need prior arrangement? That is incredibly discriminatory?

@Fanlover1122

because if someone in the sellers family is allergic to dogs, it doesn't matter if it's a guide dog or not, they're still allergic to it.

LastNight1Dreamt1WentToManderleyAgain · 01/10/2024 22:44

Honestly imagining was a cavalier spaniel

Busby88 · 01/10/2024 22:44

Fanlover1122 · 01/10/2024 22:14

Shame about the blind person eh? Surely most people would have some level of compassion and understanding for a disabled person?

Edited

Disagree with this. It’s a private property. My DH has a guide dog and wouldn’t dream of viewing a private house without giving the home owners some notice / asking permission. obviously reasonable adjustments have to be made but no harm or issue with giving people a heads up.

ILoveToCleanSaidNooneEver · 01/10/2024 22:43

Fanlover1122 · 01/10/2024 22:17

Eh - not permitting a blind person to bring a dog in…..is discriminatory. That is a reasonable adjustment.

I don't work in the legal industry, but I don't think discrimination laws apply to private home owners, although I could be totally wrong. I'm actually interested to know that answer?

Oh and of course I would welcome a blind person and their dog into my home, but I'd really struggle not to pet and make a fuss over the working dog - which I don't think you are supposed to do 🤣

Delphiniumandlupins · 01/10/2024 22:41

Fanlover1122 · 01/10/2024 21:29

I bring my dog to house viewings….7 figure properties…..

I do check with the agent though - whether or not it’s ok, it may be entitled of me, but at the price point I am looking at I don’t expect to hear a no 🤭

Edited

When I'm selling my 7 figure property I shall absolutely tell you to leave your dog behind. My dogs don't need your mutt in their home.

Loonaandalf · 01/10/2024 22:40

It’s a bit weird, I have two dogs and can’t imagine why I’d bring them. Maybe their dog can’t be left alone and they don’t have a sitter? I think you are overreacting though. What’s wrong with the dog being held over or near your baby’s cot?

Busby88 · 01/10/2024 22:39

Dog lover with two dogs and no way would I think that’s ok. My husband has an assistance dog so legally we can take her into a lot of places other dogs can’t go but still wouldn’t dream of taking her to a house viewing, at least not without express permission of the owners! Bonkers.

CountAdhemar · 01/10/2024 22:38

Marsmoon1 · 01/10/2024 22:16

It’s a private property for sale and provided the owner isn’t preventing anyone with a protected characteristic from buying her house or not allowing reasonable adjustments for someone to view her house then she’s not being discriminatory in any way!

I wouldn’t say it’s reasonable to be holding a dog over someone’s cot or letting it run around a garden without permission. Fair enough it didn’t wee or poo but what would the agent have done if it did, magically appeared with a Tupperware to catch said wee or poo before it touched the grass, or worse carpet?

Edited

This is an interesting one.

I'd be surprised if the duty to make reasonable adjustments or not behave in a discriminatory manner applies to an individual householder, under equality law (from which you're using terminology).

Of course, it would be appropriate morally.

It also raises interesting questions about how a blind person might approach a house viewing: presumably bungalows only, smells important, accessible area.

momager1 · 01/10/2024 22:37

I would LOSE my shit! When we had our house listed for sale, every viewing I took our two dogs out with me. If we had have come home my dogs would have picked up the scent of the "intruder" and lost their shit!! especially my male as he would have tried to mark where he smelt the other dog, especially if it was a male!! Time to fire that agent and find a trustworthy one!

dawngreen · 01/10/2024 22:35

I would never take my dog to view a property. And I would expect smokers not to smoke in my property if viewing.

Avatartar · 01/10/2024 22:27

Completely out of order- you could have an allergy, it could have fleas, worms or dirty feet.
Request that no animals or people eating food consuming drinks or smoking/vaping be allowed in your house.
It’s staggering that we are at this point in society where we have to spell out the obvious in respecting other people’s property.
Given the agent lied to you, i’d question if they had my best interests in mind and would potentially change agents, paying them no fee as they’ve breached your trust by lying to you.
Do you think they’ll act and negotiate well on your behalf?

Fanlover1122 · 01/10/2024 22:20

Marsmoon1 · 01/10/2024 22:18

Surely most people would also have some level of compassion and understanding for someone suffering severe allergies which could also constitute a disability no?

I guess it depends on how keen the seller is to sell the house then?