Our neighbours sent some cupcakes with my son when he returned from a play date. . Unfortunately, they weren't particularly nice so I threw them away; DS and DH aren't particularly fond of cakes so wouldn't have eaten them.
I mentioned this to DS in passing when he asked where the cupcakes were. A few days later, when over their house, he told the neighbours that I threw them away.
It's caused some friction with the neighbours and they have made it clear DS is no longer welcome at their house, which has left him feeling very upset.
DH has placed the blame squarely on me, calling me a bitch, amongst other things.
I know I shouldn't have said anything but I think swearing and being abusive isn't acceptable.