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What skills/knowledge should a child have before starting school?

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ANightingaleSang · 30/09/2024 05:30

Just curious really, to understand people's take on this. My girl is nowhere near school age yet, so this is just interest.

AIBU to think that a child should have at least the following skills before entering a classroom:
-personal hygiene, eg. Potty trained
-understand sharing &taking turns
-able to sit quietly and engage in a task for 15-20 mins.
-able to ask for help
-basic manners please and thank you
-able to feed themselves
-how to hold a pencil
-write/recognise their own name
-count to 10 possibly 20
-know the days of the week, months and seasons
-know where they live (for example England and city)

What other things would you add to this list (in an ideal world, of course, as every child is different!)?

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Sirzy · 30/09/2024 05:40

None of the academic side of things matters that will all be taught in school. Recognising their own name is useful.

The ideals are being able to go to the toilet independently and change themselves/fasten their own coat. Being able to eat using cutlery (not expected to be able to cut it up though)