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To ask if you’re ever been burgled?

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CherryValley5 · 29/09/2024 21:04

Edit: Typo in title - should obviously be you’ve!

Really just looking for anyone who might have experienced something similar to see if it’s right for me to be worried about this situation escalating..

In the early hours of the morning we had intruders in our back garden, peering into our back door (which thankfully had been locked). DD’s bedroom is directly above - she saw the security light come on and heard movement on the gravel however she just assumed that it was a fox or badger walking through the garden as this is quite typical. She looked out her window and was shocked to see three middle aged, well built men standing there, looking around and conversing with each other in thick Irish accents (we’re northern Irish, they definitely weren’t local - DD is convinced they were travellers.)

She panicked and rang me from her bedroom - I immediately picked up the phone, slammed all of the lights on and ran downstairs. This must have spooked them as they ran and fled in an old run around car which was sitting across the street. DD videoed them but it was too dark to see the registration plate.

I rang the non emergency police number and they quickly attended. Perfectly pleasant but spectacularly useless - suggested that the men in question could maybe be undercover police officers doing a search of the area (??) and went on their way.

I’m worried that we’ve been targeted and that they will come back for more. There have been unmarked vans ending up at the house over recent months asking for scrap metal or if we are willing to sell our cars- we live at the dead end of the neighbourhood so it’s impossible for somebody to just be doing a casual drive by. I’m currently divorcing so it’s just DD and I in the house, I wonder if they’ve observed us and know it’s an easy target. It’s the marital home so is very large and I suppose would look desirable to a potential burglar (unfortunately for them we have nothing of big value..) To make matters worse we have building work going on at the moment so there is no back gate or means of securing the back garden… Sorry for the rant - I feel like crying!!

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HundredMilesAnHour · 29/09/2024 21:26

I was burgled when I lived in a shared mansion flat in Highgate. I had actually been home all week as I was on study leave for my accountancy exams. The evening we were burgled was the one evening I went round to see a friend for dinner so it was pretty obvious the thieves had been watching the flat as I was literally only out for those few hours all week. It was very upsetting to come home to especially as neither of my (male) flatmates came home that night (they were staying at girlfriends). I was told by the police not to touch or move anything as they were sending someone round to fingerprint. So I was alone and up all night, just sitting on the floor (sofa, beds, everything had been thrown all over the place). Fingerprint person never turned up of course.

AllThePotatoesAreSingingJingleBells · 29/09/2024 21:21

Yes and it was our next door neighbour, the scummy bastard. I was a child at the time. Absolutely trashed the house too. I was not quite 4 and I remember coming home and seeing the absolute wreckage of the hallway. He’d even sliced my teddies in case we’d hidden valuables in them.

We didn’t know he was a prolific burglar at the time. The police attended and basically went straight next door to ‘talk’ to him. He knew we were away as he saw us put the bag in the car and leave, and he’d smashed the back door in within minutes of us leaving.

AlmondsAreGreat · 29/09/2024 21:19

That must have been very disconcerting.

Not as an adult, but our house was burgled when I was growing up. My parents left a small kitchen window open overnight by mistake, and the police think someone set a child through (not big enough for an adult), who then found the door keys and unlocked it. From what a remember they did find the culprits thanks to a
fingerprint on the window frame.

CherryValley5 · 29/09/2024 21:17

Should also say: I’ve bought a ring door bell cam and reactivated the security alarm (we live in such a quiet place that in 5 years of being here we’ve never felt the need to put it on!). Anything else that I need to do or invest in to hopefully make us a bit safer?

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