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To be disgusted by the Deafening Silence of Celebrities in the wake of Diddy allegations?

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notaurewhatusername · 29/09/2024 21:01

I can't be the only one who's deeply troubled by the silence from certain A-list celebrities following the recent allegations against Sean Combs aka Diddy. It's been weeks since the news broke, and the lack of response from some of his closest associates in the industry is, quite frankly, disturbing.

Let's talk about Jay-Z and Beyoncé, for instance. These two have been thick as thieves with him for years. Countless collaborations, public appearances, and even vacations together. And now? Radio silence. Not even a peep about condemning the alleged actions or distancing themselves from him. It's baffling.

Ashton Kutcher is another one who's keeping silent. Given his vocal stance against human trafficking and exploitation, you'd think he'd be the first to speak up. But nope, nothing.

Now, I want to tread carefully when it comes to Usher and Justin Bieber. There's been speculation about their own experiences, and if they were indeed victims themselves, I absolutely respect their right to process this privately. No one should be forced to relive trauma or speak out if they're not ready.

But for those who weren't victimised? Their silence is deafening. How hard is it to release a statement saying, "I don't condone these actions" or "I had no knowledge of these alleged crimes"? Anything would be better than this awkward void.

I'm honestly shocked that there hasn't been more public backlash against these silent celebrities. In an era where "cancel culture" can be triggered by a misplaced tweet, how are they getting a free pass? Having your longtime friend and associate arrested on such serious charges, and you can't even muster up a word of condemnation? It's beyond disappointing.

What do you all think? Am I being too harsh, or is this silence truly inexcusable? Should we, as consumers and fans, be demanding more accountability from these public figures?

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Errors · 02/10/2024 17:29

Demonhunter · 02/10/2024 17:22

My concern and interest in this, is the fact that if people involved aren't exposed and face punishment, it sets a precedent and how many more kids is this happening to as we speak, in other cover ups. We know the amount of immigrant kids that go missing over there and one's in the system that can be classed as runaways. It doesn't matter where anyone is from, everyone should be outraged and kicking up a stink for kids who have zero chance of defending themselves.

I agree! I see it was mentioned up thread that even the CPS was allegedly involved by supplying children! It’s sickening.
I remember reading Roman Farrow’s book Catch and Kill about the Harvey Weinstein scandal. It was a shocking read and a massive eye opener into how corrupt the entertainment world can be. And then to read all of this about what’s going on now is just heartbreaking and shocking to say the least

Demonhunter · 02/10/2024 17:22

My concern and interest in this, is the fact that if people involved aren't exposed and face punishment, it sets a precedent and how many more kids is this happening to as we speak, in other cover ups. We know the amount of immigrant kids that go missing over there and one's in the system that can be classed as runaways. It doesn't matter where anyone is from, everyone should be outraged and kicking up a stink for kids who have zero chance of defending themselves.

Demonhunter · 02/10/2024 17:15

Errors · 02/10/2024 17:13

That is shocking!!

Just think too, if the names are true, and I don't doubt Jaguar ever, those women are mothers now and can you imagine how they'd feel now if it was their kids there!

Errors · 02/10/2024 17:13

That is shocking!!

Demonhunter · 02/10/2024 17:07

Puttheneedleontherackets · 02/10/2024 16:49

@Outnumberedmummy2022 Jlo was??! Boys or girls, this is crazy

https://youtube.com/shorts/bEFuPd5GEdE?si=HkRV0Svr-cEesjAG

Before you continue to YouTube

https://youtube.com/shorts/bEFuPd5GEdE?si=HkRV0Svr-cEesjAG

Puttheneedleontherackets · 02/10/2024 16:49

@Outnumberedmummy2022 Jlo was??! Boys or girls, this is crazy

FOJN · 02/10/2024 16:43

Steve Harvey's wife filed for divorce on the day Diddy was arrested and Jay Z has apparently met with both a criminal and divorce lawyer.

Some marriages may end as a consequence of the Diddy revelations but some may be trying to divide assets to protect them. Only time will tell.

Outnumberedmummy2022 · 02/10/2024 16:22

Puttheneedleontherackets · 30/09/2024 16:00

People are even saying Jlos divorce to Ben Afleck is part of it, but how 🤷🏻‍♀️

I have read that jlo was at and actively participated in these parties. Her and diddy were very close years ago.
Ben has been advised to seperate from her due to the potential of her appearance on diddys party tapes. ALLEGEDLY engaging in sexual activities with minors.

Outnumberedmummy2022 · 02/10/2024 16:20

notaurewhatusername · 29/09/2024 21:01

I can't be the only one who's deeply troubled by the silence from certain A-list celebrities following the recent allegations against Sean Combs aka Diddy. It's been weeks since the news broke, and the lack of response from some of his closest associates in the industry is, quite frankly, disturbing.

Let's talk about Jay-Z and Beyoncé, for instance. These two have been thick as thieves with him for years. Countless collaborations, public appearances, and even vacations together. And now? Radio silence. Not even a peep about condemning the alleged actions or distancing themselves from him. It's baffling.

Ashton Kutcher is another one who's keeping silent. Given his vocal stance against human trafficking and exploitation, you'd think he'd be the first to speak up. But nope, nothing.

Now, I want to tread carefully when it comes to Usher and Justin Bieber. There's been speculation about their own experiences, and if they were indeed victims themselves, I absolutely respect their right to process this privately. No one should be forced to relive trauma or speak out if they're not ready.

But for those who weren't victimised? Their silence is deafening. How hard is it to release a statement saying, "I don't condone these actions" or "I had no knowledge of these alleged crimes"? Anything would be better than this awkward void.

I'm honestly shocked that there hasn't been more public backlash against these silent celebrities. In an era where "cancel culture" can be triggered by a misplaced tweet, how are they getting a free pass? Having your longtime friend and associate arrested on such serious charges, and you can't even muster up a word of condemnation? It's beyond disappointing.

What do you all think? Am I being too harsh, or is this silence truly inexcusable? Should we, as consumers and fans, be demanding more accountability from these public figures?

Because this is the tip of the ice berg- he’s the only one to have been caught they are all at it. Look up jaguar wright on you tube.

Errors · 02/10/2024 16:19

Well this is getting more and more sinister by the day!

FOJN · 02/10/2024 16:18

I assume that being part of a class action will be cheaper than legal action on your own.

If it's the Buzzbee press conference you're refering to, they are not bringing a class action, they will be individual lawsuits. I think they said so at the press conference.

Puttheneedleontherackets · 02/10/2024 14:28

Is Cuba gay? Just reading up on him and there were some allegations against women a few years back

Lampzade · 02/10/2024 14:08

Cuba Gooding jnr has previously been implicated.
He allegedly attended Diddy’s parties and made advances to another man

SonicTheHodgeheg · 02/10/2024 13:56

I’m torn on the press conference thing.

I assume that being part of a class action will be cheaper than legal action on your own.

Naively I’m hoping that some settlements will arise from this because the accomplices are wealthy and it would save the stress of going to trial for the victims.

Is this likely to be televised if it goes to trial or will victims’ privacy mean that it isn’t? Iirc OJ was a televised trial but I don’t know if it varies by state or the accusations? As it involves minors, I hope that it’s not an internet circus like Depp vs Heard.

The promise of drip feeding the accomplices was tacky.

Demonhunter · 02/10/2024 09:13

fashionqueen0123 · 02/10/2024 09:01

I presume they mean Denzel Washington. Which I really hope isn’t true.

Denzel H Washington is the person in the statement yes. That one shocked me, if true. I say if true, the woman has no reason to lie. She's been talking about this for a long time, and has been trying to bring a case against CPS for years, naming the same names, she was just dismissed until Diddy's arrest and now people are interested in listening to her.

MrsRobinsonsHandprints · 02/10/2024 09:08

So do I. I was hoping my age meant I'd missed a rapper called Denzel.

I agree with the post above , and we must not put celebrities on a pedal stool, but there are certain celebs who I will be more disappointed about.

fashionqueen0123 · 02/10/2024 09:01

MrsRobinsonsHandprints · 02/10/2024 08:02

Is Denzel a rapper?

I was uncomfortable with the prosecution lawyer (who has asked for more people to come forward and has 120 accusers)

But doing a press conference and saying we will all be shocked by the names, it firmly put the whole case into entertainment rather than asl serious legal case. The prosecution shouldn't be courting the press and trying to become TV stars.

I presume they mean Denzel Washington. Which I really hope isn’t true.

MrsRobinsonsHandprints · 02/10/2024 08:02

Is Denzel a rapper?

I was uncomfortable with the prosecution lawyer (who has asked for more people to come forward and has 120 accusers)

But doing a press conference and saying we will all be shocked by the names, it firmly put the whole case into entertainment rather than asl serious legal case. The prosecution shouldn't be courting the press and trying to become TV stars.

Opensesameseeds · 02/10/2024 07:09

It’s a huge genre spanning decades, it isn’t by default misogynistic or violent. Some of it is, lots of it isn’t.
I think this case tells us more about men and specifically rich, powerful men than it does about any genre of music.

Haven’t RTFT but yeah I agree with this too

LBFseBrom · 02/10/2024 03:33

I agree with HillsNValleys.

HillsNValleys · 02/10/2024 02:02

I’m not getting into an ignorant duscussion about ‘rap’ with people that don’t really know or understand the music or culture. Saying all rap is misogynistic and criminal minded is like saying ‘rock and roll is the devil’s music’.

It’s a huge genre spanning decades, it isn’t by default misogynistic or violent. Some of it is, lots of it isn’t.

I think this case tells us more about men and specifically rich, powerful men than it does about any genre of music.

Demonhunter · 02/10/2024 00:02

soupfiend · 01/10/2024 23:35

Who has made an allegation against Denzel?

I watched the news clip above and no other names are mentioned

However I do find it incredible that much of rap or similar music, plus the visuals is based on objectifying and denigrating women, exaggerating violence and crime as a lifestyle/power and money as a lifestyle and then people are surprised when the artists are power hungry, violent, misogynistic perpetrators?

Why the surprise?

I haven't seen anyone surprised by the musicians?

Demonhunter · 01/10/2024 23:39

On a previous comment I posted the name of what to search for, for one of her videos as MN hid the link I sent.

This is another part of it, if it doesn't get hidden.

- YouTube

Enjoy the videos and music that you love, upload original content and share it all with friends, family and the world on YouTube.

https://youtu.be/0fnVhzp3vKU?si=Zem5ou3_J6NKJq4z

soupfiend · 01/10/2024 23:35

Who has made an allegation against Denzel?

I watched the news clip above and no other names are mentioned

However I do find it incredible that much of rap or similar music, plus the visuals is based on objectifying and denigrating women, exaggerating violence and crime as a lifestyle/power and money as a lifestyle and then people are surprised when the artists are power hungry, violent, misogynistic perpetrators?

Why the surprise?

Demonhunter · 01/10/2024 23:34

Puttheneedleontherackets · 01/10/2024 23:29

But where are these names written?

In the affidavit of Alyson Carter, one of the girls who was supplied by CPS when she was 15.