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Maternity pay has gone too far

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EasterIssland · 29/09/2024 19:28

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c781m9v4255o

apologies if there is another thread about it.
havent seen one.

im lucky enough to have a good salary that would allow me saving beforehand . Statutory maternity pay would mean around 20-30% of my salary. Is this too far? It’s one of the many reasons why we decided to only have one. I felt really vulnerable when I was on maternity leave and didn’t feel I kept having spare cash every month. I do understand what she means tho , the sooner we’re back the less we get from the government and more taxes we pay. Coming from a woman hurts even more not being recognised the sacrifices we do whilst we are on maternity leave

Kemi Badenoch speaking at a Conservative Party leadership campaign

Maternity pay has gone too far, says Kemi Badenoch

The Tory leadership candidate says the government should be reducing regulatory burdens for businesses.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c781m9v4255o

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RedToothBrush · 29/09/2024 21:27

Well if shes trying NOT to get elected she should crack on

mumda · 29/09/2024 21:27

YourLastNerve · 29/09/2024 19:44

The countries with good levels of female participation in the workforce are the ones with better maternity pay, not worse.

Fortunately kemi badenoch isn't in power so we can just let her witter on about whatever and ignore. The conservatives are likely to come out with a lot of this right wing crap as they lost a lot of votes to reform & think that's the direction they need to go in to get back in power.

Why do those countries have better female participation?

Suzuki70 · 29/09/2024 21:26

Kampo · 29/09/2024 20:38

Can you not see how she means employers could choose which benefits to offer?

So people who are high earners in a competitive market will choose companies with good parental leave packages. Many people at the other end of the scale with little choice regarding their employment, who just need work, will have nothing - zero hours contract, no sick pay, no maternity pay

Thus, the rich get richer and the poor get poorer.

There is absolutely no way to package what she said and make it palatable.

Absolutely. I work for a small family firm and while in many ways they are excellent I'm 100% sure that my boss would make the absolute minimum allowances for pregnancy if he could because we have 5 employees!

BarbaraHoward · 29/09/2024 21:25

It doesn't matter what proportion of women breastfeed, what does matter is that that decision should never have to be a financial one - whether that's because of a need to return to work or because of the price of formula.

All women should have the right to EBF should they wish to (and of course to formula feed free of judgement should they wish).

Scautish · 29/09/2024 21:25

policies like this are to give the far-right Tory voters something to wank over

MarchInHappiness · 29/09/2024 21:21

Combattingthemoaners · 29/09/2024 20:53

She’s talking crap, to put it frankly. I read up to the sentence “There was a time when there was no maternity pay and women were having more babies.”

Well yes, because a household could previously function on one persons wage. A completely pointless comparison.

Agreed. SMP was very limited in my day (90s) but back then it was easier to survive on one income. Given the cost of living (including the crazy childcare costs). Just because I never had that, does not mean I begrudge other mothers from recieving more SMP.

Manchegos · 29/09/2024 21:19

Doesn’t she, hilariously, get lots of love over on the “feminist” board?

Obviously she is - as always - being an idiot, a misogynist, classist, hateful etc. No surprise there. Do we think wanting to roll back mat pay is a popular opinion among Tory members though? That would concern me more than Kemi being her usual ridiculous self.

TheWalkingEyebag · 29/09/2024 21:19

IMO parents in the UK deserve far more maternity leave/pay. Where I live (Brit in Canada), we can take up to 18 months of statutory paid maternity leave. If you choose 12 months of leave, you get up to 55% of your salary, and if you choose 18 months, you get up to 33%. Many companies, like mine, also offer to top your pay up to be closer to your salary for a set period of time. 18 months afforded me the time to establish breastfeeding, see DS meet numerous milestones, figure out naps and sleep, wean him, etc etc. It’s been incredible and something I wish all my friends in the UK could have the option of. Parents need more support and paid leave, not less. Never less 🤦🏼‍♀️

Strangerthanfictions · 29/09/2024 21:19

Inadequate mat leave is the prime example of structural sexism in this country. It's a tool of oppression and inequality. Why is having a baby not treated exactly like sick pay, you are unable to work because there's a tiny wee person wholly dependent on you, you are unlikely to be getting adequate sleep and you also probably went through a lot physically. A woman can get months of full pay from her work for something like a hysterectomy, but not for giving birth. We need to view childbirth and the initial months of childcare not simply as a women's burden, it's society's burden and women should be adequately looked after while they do it

realalala · 29/09/2024 21:18

I facepalm every time this woman opens her mouth.

PigeonLady · 29/09/2024 21:17

Gogogo12345 · 29/09/2024 20:26

Realistically though there is a very small percentage of babies are fully breastfed at 9 months.

It's a great " improvement" on how it used to be. I remember 16 weeks max when I had DD1. Although for low earners they are probably no worse off on maternity pay then being at work and paying childcae

That is true. I was last to stop exclusively breastfeeding at 9 months in my peer group.

But I did need that 3 months after to sort myself out. Up until that point I hadn't really had a chance to sort my own life out after a year of personal neglect. My milk wasn’t the type you could store unfortunately so it was straight from the tap or not at all.

Finally had a chance to attend physio and put my body back together. Get haircut, go clothes shopping, dentist, resocialise myself, engage brain and catch-up on training for work, catch up on sleep etc.

I will 100% be doing a year again this time.

Scautish · 29/09/2024 21:14

BUT AT LEAST THEY KNOW WHAT A WOMAN IS (bleated all the idiots)

aka half the population we can shaft as we don’t see them as worthy as the menfolk

Jigsawpuzzled · 29/09/2024 21:14

Completelyjo · 29/09/2024 20:05

A look at the UK’s excessive maternity policy.

Can you tell me where this is from? It doesn't look right in relation to Turkey so I'd like to look in more detail as to what they base this on (purely for my own interest!) For the avoidance of doubt I don't agree with KB at all, I think the current entitlement feels about right but I was lucky enough to have a CS maternity package so got 6m paid before going onto stat and then unpaid so can't speak from personal experience. @completelyjo

Starseeking · 29/09/2024 21:13

I hope nobody ever votes for this misogynistic, homophobic, racist person, and she disappears back into oblivion.

Seasmoke · 29/09/2024 21:12

Combattingthemoaners · 29/09/2024 20:53

She’s talking crap, to put it frankly. I read up to the sentence “There was a time when there was no maternity pay and women were having more babies.”

Well yes, because a household could previously function on one persons wage. A completely pointless comparison.

This is why she has come up with this nonsense. Because she wants to be Tory leader and in order to do so, she needs to appeal to the 80 year old Blue rinse brigade that makes up the Tory membership. People who had babies in the 70's and think the world should still be the same.
Hilariously shes has to desperately row back after all the men in the leadership race disagreed with her!

ElsaLion · 29/09/2024 21:11

Completelyjo · 29/09/2024 20:05

A look at the UK’s excessive maternity policy.

Exactly this. The UK has among the least generous maternity/paternity leave in the world.

We need to be heavily encouraging an increase in birth rates, by investing in improvements to maternity pay and services, not restricting it further.

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 29/09/2024 21:07

This has made me feel quite annoyed. I had tried for years to get pregnant and DD was a much longer fir surprise but it did put a strain on us that I had resigned from my job a week before I discovered I was pregnant and they wouldn’t let me retract my resignation. I couldn’t start the course I was going to do either because I wouldn’t have finished it in time so I had to trudge all over London picking up any temp job I could find. Luckily I could claim MA and when it finished I went to work PT. This should be here to help women in that kind of situation. Would she have thought I had ‘chosen’ it?

N4ish · 29/09/2024 21:04

SovietSpy · 29/09/2024 20:29

Quite.
i have Hungarian neighbours and they were telling me about maternity benefits in their country (summary below). It’s so comprehensive compared to the U.K. I just don’t get how we have gone so wrong in this country, we seem to actively hate families and children and only care about getting everyone back to work asap as if that’s all that matters. I believe we can fund better family policies, we just need an overhaul of our tax system.

Maternity Leave
Women have 24 weeks of maternity leave but can take up to three years of leave and receive maternity benefits.
For the first six months, mothers are entitled to Pregnancy and Confinement Benefit (CSED) at a rate of 70.00% of the salary. For the next eighteen months until the child’s second birthday, mothers are entitled to a Child Care Fee (Gyermekgondozási díj – GYED) at a rate of 70.00% of the salary up to a maximum of double the minimum wage.
A benefit called Child Home Care Allowance (Gyermekgondozási segély – GYES) is also available for parents or grandparents taking care of a child up to the age of three. The benefits are paid by the National Health Insurance Fund of Hungary (NEAK).
The family allowance is available to entitled individuals and the rate of the allowance is dependent upon the number of dependents and beneficiary dependents. This allowance has been increased from 2023 if one of the beneficiary dependents is seriously disabled or permanently ill.

Hmm, I completely disagree with Badenoch on this but not sure right wing, pro natalist Hungary run by Victor Orban is something to aim for either. His main aim with encouraging child bearing is to keep immigrants out.

Yamantau · 29/09/2024 21:03

SilverDoe · 29/09/2024 19:31

This is an absolute crock of misogynistic bullshit, exactly what I would expect of the tory party tbf.

more like big business and lobbyists behind it

IVFmumoftwo · 29/09/2024 21:03

Robin223 · 29/09/2024 19:38

Have you exclusively breastfed?

It isn't just that. What if you have a difficult birth that takes a long time to recover from?

ChallahPlaiter · 29/09/2024 21:03

Narwhalsh · 29/09/2024 20:03

‘There was a time when there was no maternity pay and women were having more babies’… yes correct and those women weren’t working, didn’t have contraception or any kind of independence nor freedom! What utter utter rubbish.

We live in a society now where women are often breadwinners and dual income households are the norm-and the country needs as many people working as possible. Less maternity pay will probably result in fewer women going back to work at all.

Agree with your post. My mother worked in the civil service in the early 70s. She said women were going into labour in the office because there was no maternity leave so they worked for as long as possible, then largely didn’t return after they’d had their babies.

JeannetteBlue · 29/09/2024 20:58
  1. She does seem to be saying maternity pay is going too far, which I think most of us disagree with
  2. For my two cents, we need to make paternity leave much more significant if we want to rebalance the workplace at all - even with Shared Parental Leave, women are still disproportionately better off taking mat leave than SPL because employers don't tend to top up any shared leave.
Combattingthemoaners · 29/09/2024 20:53

She’s talking crap, to put it frankly. I read up to the sentence “There was a time when there was no maternity pay and women were having more babies.”

Well yes, because a household could previously function on one persons wage. A completely pointless comparison.

Sparklybanana · 29/09/2024 20:52

I ended up burning through savings during my maternity leave because statutory just wasn't enough to pay for expenses that don't stop. Like paying exorbitant amounts for mortgage, council tax, other taxes, bills, rapidly increasing food prices. If the country wants no immigration then they can't expect the fertility rate to maintain the population long-term because women can't afford to have babies until later life and and can't afford to give them the best start in life if maternity leave pay can't cover basic costs. South Korea doesn't support mothers and women in general and the fertility rate is considerably lower than the min it needs to maintain the population.
She's a pick me girl.

BarbaraHoward · 29/09/2024 20:51

It's pretty typical to go on maternity leave at 38 weeks and give birth at 41 weeks, meaning that after six months' leave most women will have a baby who isn't even 5.5 months.

That means the baby can't have solids or water and so relies on breast milk or formula. If your baby won't take a bottle (and I wasted many hours and tears trying), then your baby needs your breasts.

Few jobs allow for women to return in a sufficiently flexible way to EBF a baby who isn't ready for solids.

Nine months pay just about allows the baby to wean well enough to be left (can take a while for some after all) and/or for the mother to finish work a little earlier should she need to.

Supporting pregnant women and new mothers is feminism 101 surely.

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