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Child identifies as a wolf ... WTF?

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Portakalkedi · 27/09/2024 12:15

Just on Radio 4 now, discussing a child in secondary school who identifies as a wolf, and the school is going along with this. AIBU to think the world (or at least the UK) has gone mad? If said child is living in the woods, catching its own prey etc etc, howling and running with other wolves, which I doubt, then why the hell is anyone going along with it? They are also saying that some others identify as dogs or cats etc. And here was me thinking men 'identifying' as women was bad.

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JustAnotherPoster00 · 27/09/2024 12:51

I wouldn't say it was a far right thing but a right wing thing like reform voters and MAGA voters, it's just it's that the commenter has always 'heard' that child identifies as 'insert animal here' and requires all sorts or accommodations, its an anti trams trope unsurprising on here bit often the proponents of this view also support forced birthing, anti immigration and often veiled anti lgbtqia+/racist dog whistles

Maiyakat · 27/09/2024 12:50

I would very much like to identify as a cat, sleep most of the day with a few trips outside to half heartedly chase a squirrel. Might struggle to stomach the food though....

There are two 'furries' in the specialist provision at DD's school. From what she's said it just marks them out even more as being 'different' and makes them more of a target.

marmiteisnttheonlyspread · 27/09/2024 12:48

Was it on R4 or R2 and Jeremy Vine?

I've not listened to it yet but wonder if it's like little girls pretending to be horses?

You go along with it and normality soon pops back into view.

Edingril · 27/09/2024 12:48

I presume wolf's don't play Xbox, eat ice cream or pizza, play with human friends etc. Shams really

needsomewarmsunshine · 27/09/2024 12:48

I find it hard to believe some parents let their kids carry on with this shite. Doesn't say much for the parents imo.

ExquisiteEmelda · 27/09/2024 12:47

Breakfastsmoothie · 27/09/2024 12:27

Why does a cat need to go to school?

Exactly! When I was 5/6 I wanted to be a cat so badly so I didn’t have to go to school!

Absolute nonsense and it’s got to peak at some point, then go back to normal where human boys are human boys and human girls are human girls.

JaneEyreLaughing · 27/09/2024 12:45

If being right wing (you forgot to prefix right wing with FAR- right wing cannot be referred to without having Far in front of it-it's the law! )@JustAnotherPoster00 means that you have half a brain then bring on the right wing (far right)

VaddaABeetch · 27/09/2024 12:44

Trans wolves are wolves
Just like Zebras are bras

JustAnotherPoster00 · 27/09/2024 12:43

Happy right wing trope day everybody🎂🎉

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 27/09/2024 12:43

This poor transwolf IS a wolf. Bigots.
We need to help this wolf transition asap. We should be spending extra NHS funding on this ASAP!

DamnUserName21 · 27/09/2024 12:42

In primary school, I'd treat this as playful (although not the toileting!)

In secondary school, parents need to nip this shit in the bud. I imagine other school kids are likely ripping the piss out of these kids.

If my secondary school child wanted to self ID as an animal, I'd give them a figurative smack in the head!

Maray1967 · 27/09/2024 12:39

Blusterydaytodaypoohbear · 27/09/2024 12:27

The world has gone bonkers... Maybe the school cook should offer up a dead rabbit and tell them to eat it all up or they will get detention..

I’ve heard of an American family who dealt with this with their tween by building an outside enclosure out of scrap wood and chicken wire and chucking some raw meat and telling the tween that if they’re a wolf that is where they will live.

On the other hand, if they want to sleep in the bedroom and have pizza on Saturday night, then they are a child and will dress and behave like one.

Apparently that solved the problem.

JaneEyreLaughing · 27/09/2024 12:39

JustAnotherPoster00 · 27/09/2024 12:38

Give it time!

JustAnotherPoster00 · 27/09/2024 12:38

Badgerandfox227 · 27/09/2024 12:25

I’ve heard that their are children at our local secondary identifying as a cat, they wear ears and a tail and go to the loo on the grass.

No there isn't

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Litter_boxes_in_schools_hoax

Litter boxes in schools hoax - Wikipedia

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Litter_boxes_in_schools_hoax

Blusterydaytodaypoohbear · 27/09/2024 12:38

Maybe a certain fast food chain is tampering with the food and causing this chaos among some teens?

harrumphh · 27/09/2024 12:37

Being a human is rubbish, I'd prefer to be an animal too.

This is what you get when you tell kids they can be anything they want.

Badgerandfox227 · 27/09/2024 12:35

Really worrying times for our teenagers, who are already going through a challenging time in their lives with hormones all over the place.

MonsteraMama · 27/09/2024 12:34

Pffff this reminds me of that amazing clip "on all levels except physical, I am a wolf -barks at ducks-" I'll have to find it.

I can't get too worked up about this stuff, it's stupid but they grow out of it. "Otherkin" was rife on Tumblr a decade or so ago but they've all grown up and moved on from it now. I went to school with a girl who was utterly convinced she was, and identified as a were wolf. She's a completely normal, boring person now who runs a launderette. It's very much a silly phase for 99.9% of people.

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JaneEyreLaughing · 27/09/2024 12:33

KnittedCardi · 27/09/2024 12:32

Cats don't go to the loo on the grass. They dig a hole, cover it up. Then lick their paws and arse clean. If they are not doing that, they are not a cat.

Yes, you are absolutely right. Let them do that as well and then give them a kick up the arse.

JaneEyreLaughing · 27/09/2024 12:32

MrsSkylerWhite · 27/09/2024 12:22

I hope the child is receiving help with their mental health.
Seriously doubt it. Probably a two year waiting list.

Far cheaper to give them raw dead animals to eat and tell them to sleep in the woods.
If you're a wolf-then get on with it-be a wolf-no concessions made-they won't be in school for starters/

I think that we would find a very quick decrease in those identifying as wolves.

As I say, cheaper and more effective than pandering to this crap by giving them expensive help that they do not need.

KnittedCardi · 27/09/2024 12:32

JaneEyreLaughing · 27/09/2024 12:29

Then they want a sharp boot applied to their arses without any further ado,

Cats don't go to the loo on the grass. They dig a hole, cover it up. Then lick their paws and arse clean. If they are not doing that, they are not a cat.

Portakalkedi · 27/09/2024 12:31

I fucking despair, honestly, why have adults lost the ability to tell children NO? We already have a generation of spoiled, idle and indulged brats as a result of 'gentle' (ie lazy) parenting.

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Natsku · 27/09/2024 12:31

I just found out from teenage DD that one of her friends is "therian". First time I've heard of it in real life, so to speak (live in a small town). Worries me but I haven't said anything to DD as she was very upset about the way some of the other girls have been talking, her whole group of friends are getting called furries and suchlike.

GiddyRobin · 27/09/2024 12:30

WindowsSmindows · 27/09/2024 12:20

I'm not about to listen to it, does it sound believable?
I've not ever heard a first hand believable account of this nonsense.
I want to believe it's true though because if a boy can become a girl by stamping his feet and blinking twice or whatever bullshit, then why not a cat or tiger or wolf
Bring it on, expose the nonsense.
I identify as an old lady, where is my pension, cup of tea and grandbaby???

Oh, it's true. There's a boy in our village who does it. His mother supplies the outfits. Came to a BBQ dressed up, howling and grunting. He's an older brother of DS' friend. We've cut contact because we won't have DS around it, nor visiting a family who thinks their son being involved in a sexual fetish and forcing others to play along is okay.

lololulu · 27/09/2024 12:30

Some at my dds school. They either want attention or they need serious help. (Prob both).