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Child identifies as a wolf ... WTF?

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Portakalkedi · 27/09/2024 12:15

Just on Radio 4 now, discussing a child in secondary school who identifies as a wolf, and the school is going along with this. AIBU to think the world (or at least the UK) has gone mad? If said child is living in the woods, catching its own prey etc etc, howling and running with other wolves, which I doubt, then why the hell is anyone going along with it? They are also saying that some others identify as dogs or cats etc. And here was me thinking men 'identifying' as women was bad.

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TheKeatingFive · 27/09/2024 14:55

CassieMaddox · 27/09/2024 14:46

That 1) there is no compelling evidence anyone identifies as an animal to the same extent as a trans person identifies as the opposite gender 2) that I think its far more likely someone could have a condition that led them to believe they were a different type of human (so still able to engage with the world as they always have, just differently presented) than a different type of animal (so not able to engage with the world in the way a human does).

I think "well people believe they can be the opposite sex so why wouldn't they believe they can be a cat" is a facile argument that has no depth of critical thought or observation applied to it.

That 1) there is no compelling evidence anyone identifies as an animal to the same extent as a trans person identifies as the opposite gender

And how are you measuring the extent to which someone 'identifies' as something else. What metrics?

2) that I think its far more likely someone could have a condition that led them to believe they were a different type of human (so still able to engage with the world as they always have, just differently presented) than a different type of animal

But why? If a condition can led them to believe they're another sex, why not other conditions that would lead them to believe they're another race, age, ability level, or indeed species?

ChungKing · 27/09/2024 14:54

CassieMaddox · 27/09/2024 14:52

I don't believe men can become women. However we all know this is a disorder some men have. We see trans women out and about. We read articles about them. We know they exist.

There is no evidence of "children identifying as wolves" in the same way. Some kids wear cat ear headbands. Meh. They are cute. Ariana Grande wears them. It doesn't mean they think they are cats.

And what if I think that’s primarily a fetish thing ( tons of evidence to back that up.

a quick google will find you tons of people identifying as animals some have even had surgery to look like cats and lizards and stuff, not much different to so-called gender affirming surgery. You’d be called a bigot by some of them if you told them they were just dressing up to look cute.

CassieMaddox · 27/09/2024 14:52

I don't believe men can become women. However we all know this is a disorder some men have. We see trans women out and about. We read articles about them. We know they exist.

There is no evidence of "children identifying as wolves" in the same way. Some kids wear cat ear headbands. Meh. They are cute. Ariana Grande wears them. It doesn't mean they think they are cats.

ChungKing · 27/09/2024 14:49

CassieMaddox · 27/09/2024 14:46

That 1) there is no compelling evidence anyone identifies as an animal to the same extent as a trans person identifies as the opposite gender 2) that I think its far more likely someone could have a condition that led them to believe they were a different type of human (so still able to engage with the world as they always have, just differently presented) than a different type of animal (so not able to engage with the world in the way a human does).

I think "well people believe they can be the opposite sex so why wouldn't they believe they can be a cat" is a facile argument that has no depth of critical thought or observation applied to it.

I think believing a man can be a woman or vice versa shows no critical thought or observation and it certainly has no depth to it.

if the brain can go wrong and make you feel like a man when you’re a woman why can’t it make you think you’re a wolf? Although I tend to think it’s more of a grooming issue in a lot of cases. You have to have a strong stomach to google adult furries.

Twototwo15 · 27/09/2024 14:48

MaryBeardsShoes · 27/09/2024 13:16

I mean, cats absolutely do not do this. But go on.

Exactly. I think cat owners may believe this myth because they never actually see them going. The neighbours get that honour.

CassieMaddox · 27/09/2024 14:46

TheKeatingFive · 27/09/2024 14:37

Well yes it's about logic. What's your point about?

That 1) there is no compelling evidence anyone identifies as an animal to the same extent as a trans person identifies as the opposite gender 2) that I think its far more likely someone could have a condition that led them to believe they were a different type of human (so still able to engage with the world as they always have, just differently presented) than a different type of animal (so not able to engage with the world in the way a human does).

I think "well people believe they can be the opposite sex so why wouldn't they believe they can be a cat" is a facile argument that has no depth of critical thought or observation applied to it.

ChungKing · 27/09/2024 14:43

CassieMaddox · 27/09/2024 14:35

Because trans people manifestly are humans. Confused sorry, I don't understand your point. It seems to be a logical point rather than reality based.

Yes but a transwoman is not manifestly a woman are they? It’s not much of leap. It’s ridiculous, yes, but you can hardly be surprised kids are being so confused.

ChungKing · 27/09/2024 14:41

Combattingthemoaners · 27/09/2024 14:35

We are not told anything. We address the kids by their name on the register and that is it. In most professions there are idiots, your example is obviously an extreme case. This thread is suggesting the teaching profession has an agenda and I find it insulting. It’s utter madness.

Not at all, like I said my sister is a teacher that would not entertain this stuff at all. But the fact is there are various lobby groups and training/resource providers who do push this stuff and many schools use them and end up with a skewed idea of things. There are also some worrying LGBT groups in some schools.

SnugglyJumpersMakeItBetter · 27/09/2024 14:40

There was a girl of around 10/11 in the play area of the local woods the other day, with a fox tail and ears. She was jumping on all the picnic tables. Her mother sat chatting and didn't once tell her to get down.

CassieMaddox · 27/09/2024 14:39

The fact finding in the R4 programme is is well worth listening to and quite far from the speculation on the thread. (4m 15 to 5m45)

5128gap · 27/09/2024 14:38

Personally I think there should be a lot more encouragement for people to look outside of themselves, rather than all this obsession with their own identity. To function healthily in this world requires an understanding of it and the other people in it. If a young person is spending large parts of their day preoccupied with themselves, who or what they are, the presentation they give of themselves to the world, they are missing out on crucial opportunities to learn about others. Emotional intelligence and awareness is hugely important and self absorption blocks this learning.

RonnieOmelettes · 27/09/2024 14:37

FoxtrotOscarKindaDay · 27/09/2024 12:57

Any child that identifies as an animal shouldn't be at school. Animals don't get an education. Let their parents home school them if they want to.

A wolf in a school would be tranquilised and removed from the premises.

😂😂

Cerealkiller4U · 27/09/2024 14:37

Portakalkedi · 27/09/2024 12:15

Just on Radio 4 now, discussing a child in secondary school who identifies as a wolf, and the school is going along with this. AIBU to think the world (or at least the UK) has gone mad? If said child is living in the woods, catching its own prey etc etc, howling and running with other wolves, which I doubt, then why the hell is anyone going along with it? They are also saying that some others identify as dogs or cats etc. And here was me thinking men 'identifying' as women was bad.

Wait. I know a child who identifies as a wolf?!?

she kept scratching my kids and hissing at her……and trying to bite her.

TheKeatingFive · 27/09/2024 14:37

CassieMaddox · 27/09/2024 14:35

Because trans people manifestly are humans. Confused sorry, I don't understand your point. It seems to be a logical point rather than reality based.

Well yes it's about logic. What's your point about?

Combattingthemoaners · 27/09/2024 14:36

Aliciainwunderland · 27/09/2024 14:35

It is the parents facilitating it. ‘You can’t punish my child for biting another child. They are therian’

I’d report them immediately to my safeguarding lead as they are damaging their child.

Combattingthemoaners · 27/09/2024 14:35

ChungKing · 27/09/2024 14:31

Because we’re all told you have to affirm identities or you’re the problem. I’ve known plenty of teachers who’ve discussed their private lives with kids (often very inappropriately) one of the worst offenders ended up being done because he had images of child and animal abuse on computer! Most teachers are amazing (my sister is one) but we can’t pretend there aren’t a few bad apples with their own agendas.

We are not told anything. We address the kids by their name on the register and that is it. In most professions there are idiots, your example is obviously an extreme case. This thread is suggesting the teaching profession has an agenda and I find it insulting. It’s utter madness.

CassieMaddox · 27/09/2024 14:35

TheKeatingFive · 27/09/2024 14:31

Thats not the point though. If you can be one thing you are manifestly not, why not another?

And furries are humans pretending to be animals. There are additional dimensions, but the same at its base.

Because trans people manifestly are humans. Confused sorry, I don't understand your point. It seems to be a logical point rather than reality based.

Aliciainwunderland · 27/09/2024 14:35

Combattingthemoaners · 27/09/2024 14:27

No sane teacher would indulge any of it. I refuse to believe there are teachers doing so. We can’t even tell them who we are voting for so why would we be able to push or encourage identity? It’s madness. We just want to bloody teach our subjects and go home and not deal with any of this crap.

It is the parents facilitating it. ‘You can’t punish my child for biting another child. They are therian’

Combattingthemoaners · 27/09/2024 14:33

MrsOvertonsWindow · 27/09/2024 14:28

Maybe chat to some of the teachers on the thread who confirm this is real?

I am a teacher! I have been for over 10 years. I have read them. They’re saying kids are coming in saying they’re an animal. Quite frankly you can say you identify as a watermelon but it doesn’t mean you get to sit there all day and act like one! No teacher has said they are indulging it or encouraging it. It would be an instant safeguarding or mental health issue and dealt with through that channel. Parents and children would not be privy to that information or the consequences of it.

I am baffled as to why people think teachers are sitting around encouraging young people to act as animals?

Laboheme78 · 27/09/2024 14:33

My 14 year old daughter is at a girls’ school. Apparently there are a number of pupils who identify as furries. I have tried to understand what this is, it’s baffling, I just can’t keep up with it all but I’m not sure it makes any difference to me 🤪

CassieMaddox · 27/09/2024 14:33

So the programme is about "a bit of reporting about a child in Scotland who is said to identify as a wolf".
I'm still in the "photos or it didn't happen" mindset and think it's an overexaggeration. There have always been these unfounded fears about youth culture - goths, emos, death metal etc all at one time or another held up as a sign of moral decay and poor parenting, which was nonsense if you actually knew any goths/emos/metallers. I suspect this is just more of the same.

Off to listen to the rest now

TheKeatingFive · 27/09/2024 14:31

CassieMaddox · 27/09/2024 14:19

Because a trans person is still identifying as a human? And therefore fully able to converse and interact with the human world?

"Furries" (whatever you think about them) are not the same as a child identifying as a wolf.

Thats not the point though. If you can be one thing you are manifestly not, why not another?

And furries are humans pretending to be animals. There are additional dimensions, but the same at its base.

ChungKing · 27/09/2024 14:31

Combattingthemoaners · 27/09/2024 14:27

No sane teacher would indulge any of it. I refuse to believe there are teachers doing so. We can’t even tell them who we are voting for so why would we be able to push or encourage identity? It’s madness. We just want to bloody teach our subjects and go home and not deal with any of this crap.

Because we’re all told you have to affirm identities or you’re the problem. I’ve known plenty of teachers who’ve discussed their private lives with kids (often very inappropriately) one of the worst offenders ended up being done because he had images of child and animal abuse on computer! Most teachers are amazing (my sister is one) but we can’t pretend there aren’t a few bad apples with their own agendas.

ManhattanPopcorn · 27/09/2024 14:28

It's a fad. It'll pass. Pick your battles.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 27/09/2024 14:28

Combattingthemoaners · 27/09/2024 14:27

No sane teacher would indulge any of it. I refuse to believe there are teachers doing so. We can’t even tell them who we are voting for so why would we be able to push or encourage identity? It’s madness. We just want to bloody teach our subjects and go home and not deal with any of this crap.

Maybe chat to some of the teachers on the thread who confirm this is real?

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