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Child identifies as a wolf ... WTF?

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Portakalkedi · 27/09/2024 12:15

Just on Radio 4 now, discussing a child in secondary school who identifies as a wolf, and the school is going along with this. AIBU to think the world (or at least the UK) has gone mad? If said child is living in the woods, catching its own prey etc etc, howling and running with other wolves, which I doubt, then why the hell is anyone going along with it? They are also saying that some others identify as dogs or cats etc. And here was me thinking men 'identifying' as women was bad.

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WoodforTrees · 28/09/2024 19:12

Paisleydad · 28/09/2024 18:30

Er.

Yep. I missed that one. Duh

Should have read it again FURst

Roboticleg · 28/09/2024 19:11

in my primary school i was friends with someone who claimed to be a vampire, weirdest thing that happened was that on a day this had not even been mentioned he didnt enter my house until i said “well come in then” only after i realised the horror of letting a vamp in. This was 25odd years ago

anxioussister · 28/09/2024 19:08

When you all being so gloriously outraged by it all then I assure you teenagers will find something else. Maybe try making it a non issue. See how quickly they try tattoos or satanism again instead 🤦🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

MischkasMum · 28/09/2024 19:06

What a load of pure and utter 💩💩💩! And let's face it, the pupils are ripping the same 💩 out of teachers/school. Because, let's face it. First and foremost, a wolf is a WILD ANIMAL and would not be anywhere near humans, never mind in a fucking school. Dogs and cats also have no place in a school; we all know where the would/should be. It's about time this pish was nipped in the bud. Small children identifying as the opposite gender is bad enough. This wolf/animal business is on another level completely.

CassieMaddox · 28/09/2024 18:58

Yes! I agree! I would love to see some evidence children are identifying as cats at school.
The linked podcast didn't find any and talked a lot about teenagers identifying with animals, rather than as animals.

It's all a bit of an urban myth apparently

TheKeatingFive · 28/09/2024 18:54

If people are going to throw around accusations, can they please back up their points with evidence.

Thanks

TheKeatingFive · 28/09/2024 18:52

GiddyDuck · 28/09/2024 18:35

EXACTLY, glad to see at least a few people on Mumsnet aren’t absolutely nasty human beings.

What posts are you referring to when you talk about 'nasty human beings' ?

Brood · 28/09/2024 18:43

This is what happens when you open the door to allowing a person’s perception to conflate with reality. How is this any different to a biological man saying he is a woman? People have the right to identify in any way they wish, but when they become entitled by power structures to force others to see their self perception as reality, the world become a mess. What will we have next the worlds of science and medicine being forced to change their language to accommodate those who identify as animals? Forcing vets to see humans who identify as cats?

There needs to be a distinct separation between biological and scientific reality and the beliefs people have about themselves. No matter how much I want to identify as a 7 foot giant, or as a teenager as a grown woman - these are no biological facts

ArabellaScott · 28/09/2024 18:36

CraftingFrog · 28/09/2024 18:01

Quite literally from the very first page

Can't see it, can you quote it?

GiddyDuck · 28/09/2024 18:35

CraftingFrog · 28/09/2024 17:52

Sounds like a lot of nonsense used to fuel & justify transphobia .. which appears to be rife in this thread!

EXACTLY, glad to see at least a few people on Mumsnet aren’t absolutely nasty human beings.

GiddyDuck · 28/09/2024 18:34

And you’ve taken the bait to become outraged at it and use it for TERFy nonsense. You are the ridiculous one, sweetie 😘

Cassandra28 · 28/09/2024 18:34

Many years ago, in the late 80's, my son told his grandmother that he 'identified' as a dog. That was fine until teatime when everybody else got fish and chips on a plate - he got a tin of pedigree chum in a dog bowl.
Things were a bit tougher in them days.

ClaustrophobicKipper · 28/09/2024 18:32

The word no needs to be used alot more

Paisleydad · 28/09/2024 18:30

WoodforTrees · 28/09/2024 18:20

An academy is still a school?

Er.

over your head cosplay GIF by Comic-Con HQ
Ronathediva13 · 28/09/2024 18:26

It’s all nonsense dreamed up by the right wing media to get the transphobes foaming at the mouth. Looks like it’s worked.

Cartonhazy · 28/09/2024 18:24

JustAnotherPoster00 · 27/09/2024 12:38

There is one at a school in my town. It is very much a real and worrying situation. But what did people expect when they allowed men to call themselves women when they have XY chromosomes? It's sick and dangerous.

WoodforTrees · 28/09/2024 18:20

Vodkamummy · 28/09/2024 18:15

It's not a school, it's an Acatemy.

An academy is still a school?

HVfan · 28/09/2024 18:15

The kid is a kid. Probably encouraged by the other animals at school and the attention. I don’t know what the adults are thinking.

Vodkamummy · 28/09/2024 18:15

It's not a school, it's an Acatemy.

GoldenNuggets08 · 28/09/2024 18:14

As much as I wholeheartedly disagree with this absolute horseshit, as a teacher, if one of my students suddenly identifies as a wolf, their parents agree they are a wolf, and either a medical professional or someone higher up the education chain than me has signed off on this bullshit, I really have no choice but to go along with it. If I refused to teach them, imagine the shit I would land myself in! Parents need to be stepping up and as someone above said metaphorically slapping sense into their children! It's an absolute joke.

CassieMaddox · 28/09/2024 18:10

I listened to the whole programme earlier and it was interesting.
Around the 30 minute mark they discussed the school linked upthread in detail including fact checking.

Anyway the programme helped my get some of my thoughts in order. I think one of the most important things we can do for our children with respect to safeguarding is to teach them to trust their own instincts and have confidence in their own boundaries rather than deferring to someone else.

An authoritarian model where they are shown that parents/teachers views are more important than theirs undermines this and paradoxically leaves them more at risk of ignoring their internal early warning signs of danger.

I don't think we should be bringing up children to think other people's opinions on their personality/preferences etc are more important than their own.

Atina321 · 28/09/2024 18:02

Portakalkedi · 27/09/2024 12:31

I fucking despair, honestly, why have adults lost the ability to tell children NO? We already have a generation of spoiled, idle and indulged brats as a result of 'gentle' (ie lazy) parenting.

Gentle parenting does not mean allowing your children to get away with being rude/bullying etc. It means explaining boundaries and using your voice rather than your temper to parent. It’s actually bloody hard work if done properly.

HoneyButterPopcorn · 28/09/2024 18:01

A friends husband works with a 'cat'. It's an awfully trendy media company so I guess he is getting off lightly.

CraftingFrog · 28/09/2024 18:01

Quite literally from the very first page