To feel slightly suspicious of dp

Hope OP is ok

Think you might have cracked it

Thanks KaleQueen, this pile on was getting ridiculous.

I’ve asked for all of my posts to be deleted and they have been. Apologies for derailing this thread.

I missed that. What did they say?

😂ahhh how the tables have turned @TheShellBeach

Jesus.

Op hasn't posted since yesterday morning in page 3, it's now on page 6...

And it's all inane bollocks and people trying to score meaningless internet points against each other to make themselves feel superior.

If OP is a troll, well done .. you've played right into their hands, got people deleted and frothed the thread into a derailed oblivion.
Slow clap...

Doesn't even need to be evidence, I asked on the first one, well he couldn;t cheat on that one because something happened but the intention was there and DP denied it, then admitted it. Serial cheater, it got so bad he just used to tell me without being prompted.

Yep. Most regular users figure out pretty quickly you can't delete your own posts!

I know.
Because someone reported them.
MNHQ only know about such posts if someone reports them.
The site is not pre-moderated.

I’m sorry you went through that. I can see that with evidence most people would admit it. I was just worried as op says he laughs at her and calls her crazy about stuff so if she confronts him and he is cheating he’ll just lie and hide stuff better but maybe now she has a little evidence that he was at his parents house until 10am he could break down and admit it like your ex did.

Yes, I did and yes he admitted it, came up with all sorts of excuses as to why but did admit it. My phone was broken and I borrowed my ex's phone to let my mum know. Later I went to check if mum had replied and further down his messages was one saying 'do you want me to cook tonight?' I thought that was weird so I replied to it as if it was him and she responded very confused. At that point I knew but had no clear evidence, just 2 texts that could have been innocent. I checked his phone bill (back in the days when you got paper bills) and found hundreds of messages/calls had been made to the same number. I confronted him and he dissolved into tears 🙄 You do need a certain amount of evidence to ask the question but there does come a point where you just have to confront him 😒

Honestly I can’t be bothered to reply and explain but I get it now. Cheers. Have a lovely Sunday 😘
ps MN deleted them not me.🙄

And if he responds with wtf you on about, knowing everything , know what? Then what? What’s she going to say?

Weird

I would be very calm and pretend I knew everything. Then look him straight in the eyes and tell him that you have heard things and you won't to hear his side. Something dodgy is going on that's for sure.

I understand wanting to be upfront, it’s the way I’d rather be able to handle things but while I respect you expecting your partner to also be upfront, if he was, then he wouldn’t be having an affair? I’d worry I wouldn’t just be able to tell from his reaction and all I’m doing is giving him a chance to be more careful and hide his affair better. If it works though then maybe op should try it and see how it goes, it’s better than living in limbo!

I actually speak from experience when I say confront him ,you can see when they are lying ...I did and the reaction is very telling .I guess it depends on your way of handling things Ive always been upfront about stuff and expect my partner to be the same

Well I think the Op @wwyt will come back - on Monday or Tuesday

there is nothing else for her to say / report right now as friend wasn't able to follow him at the right time as he left early.
Maybe the next plan could be for the friend to be parked up in the parent's road before he is due ?

and of course friend may not be available on Mon or Tues ? if she herself works on weekdays

Has anyone ever confronted their husband with worries he’s cheating and he’s actually confessed? Everyone always says ask him/talk to him but if I thought my husband was cheating that’s the last thing I’d do. I’d think well he’s either deceiving me by cheating so why would he be honest if I asked him or he’s not cheating but how can he prove he’s not cheating so why ask?

Also I always think about films and tv/real life/social media where a woman walks in on her husband having sex with another woman and he says ‘it’s not what it looks like’ or something, if the husband lies even then he wouldn’t be honest if confronted?

Cant you follow him or put one of those trackers on the car lol sounds a bit extreme but I would .
It does seem odd that he dresses in ordinary clothes and huis expensive watch ...why not confront him with your fears and see what he says?

I got so invested in this and I wish I hadn’t as now I fear I’ll never know the outcome.
OP, if you are still reading, you definitely need to phone up and ask to speak to him if his dad answers. If he’s not there, call his mobile. When he then says he’s at work, you can call out his lying.

Hello OP, is everything ok? Hope you and children are alright. 💐

All it means is "accusing someone of lying".